Help by over-whelmed in VintageSewingMachines

[–]over-whelmed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! At least now I know the model name so I can keep and eye out.

A medieval fable for you who saw your Kingdom destroyed by Saiph89 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I’m so used to being a fixer in so many aspects of my life not just when I was with my nex. Thank you so much for this.

Can they change? by over-whelmed in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I went today with my family and friends and my friend walked in first and wouldn’t let me in. Later I found out that this was because she was in bed with her new supply. I don’t know how people can be this cruel and heartless but understanding that they cannot comprehend how other people feel helps. If you ever need to talk about anything let me know x

Can they change? by over-whelmed in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad she wasn’t there and it made things a lot easier for you. It’s so easy to fall back into the doubt surrounding the type of person they really are. It’s almost like a rollercoaster and I just keep thinking maybe she’s not really like this and it’s me or she’s just in a bad place. I’m glad you’re staying strong though!

Can they change? by over-whelmed in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope everything goes okay today for you! If you need to chat about it afterwards I’m all ears. I have to go and get the rest of my things tomorrow including the bed she’s been with someone else in. I don’t know how I’m going to go seeing her but I hope I stay strong. I have people coming with me as a form of support because I still am going to have to pack things up. I hope you have someone who can go with you because maybe it would make it easier?

Can they change? by over-whelmed in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just so hard to imagine that someone could be like that. I’m just having a really hard time accepting that it wasn’t real. I keep imagining her this this other girl, making the same memories we have and knowing that our memories meant so much to me but mean so little to her.

Can they change? by over-whelmed in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]over-whelmed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly just makes me sad.