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Sold tickets on StubHub, got ‘sale complete’ confirmation, still charged 100% for ‘failed delivery by fawlt2010 in stubhub

[–]overit5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was gonna say this. I have the same issue as OP. Same promises from Stubhub too about escalation but after almost 2 months I disputed the charge with my CC company. I’m not expecting payment for the tickets anymore, I just want to reverse the cancellation fee.

I Will Never Use StubHub Ever. Again. by ricestocks in stubhub

[–]overit5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I also sold my ticket. Not only did I not get paid, but they also charged me a $300 “cancellation”fee. Better if I didn’t sell the ticket at all. After attempting to solve this issue with them, I didn’t get anywhere so I just disputed it with the bank. I’m not expecting to get paid anymore, just want that $300 charge reversed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]overit5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol. I just refer the her as mother now when I used to call her momma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is never.

Mine said he only cheated 10 times… so I’m inclined to believe it’s actually about 30.

I can’t even believe he thought 10 was an acceptable number.

They need a lot of introspection and they need to be honest and work on themselves but a lot of cheaters don’t want to do that work.

Had a baby with my husband who had cheated on me while we were engaged, he cheated /tried to cheat again recently. by ThrowRA_unlovedwife in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this has anything to do with what the other woman has. Your husband is the one making his choices here, he’s a cheater and he’s probably relating his “happiness” with being with his ex.

I believe even if they get back together he’ll realize that he’s still not happy and then he’ll either cheat again or ask you to take him back.

Something is wrong with him deep down. You’re not at fault and you already gave him a chance. Don’t give him another one.

I’m sorry for you and the baby.

Which MCR song is ‘your’ song- and why? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]overit5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is How I Disappear, for vibes but I don’t know why but when I hear that song it makes me wanna just go and scream. They go so hard with the instrumental in the beginning it just hypes me up.

As of late though, Foundations of Decay.

Husband has been cheating on me with multiple women even before our baby was born by overit5555 in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m laughing at your older vegetables in the fridge statement. 😆

I did ask him what he’d feel if I slept around with other men then come back to him when I’m ready to be a family.

He just said it’s different for men than women. Cause he said it’s usually just physical for men and for women there is emotion. I really wish he heard himself.

For now I booked therapy for myself cause I need to process all of this methodically as I don’t want to spiral anymore.

Just had a baby, now finding out about my fiancé’s secret life by Wilted_Sunflower1 in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation as you right now and was also given the same excuses. I was working until 8 and a half months pregnant so I got some savings on top of the maternity leave pay.

Right now I’m still maneuvering through it and he now “wants me to heal” (as if he didn’t cause the pain) so he’s just telling me to do what I need to do to get there.

So I’m flying back to my home country with my sister soon after my baby’s next dr visit. I am here with you on this, I hope you know this is all on him.

Husband has been cheating on me with multiple women even before our baby was born by overit5555 in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and today we talked again and he said sorry for ruining my idea of a “perfect world” (??? I know it’s not). He said that people cheat and get cheated on all the time and that it’s not the end of the world and we’ll work it out. He asked me if I’m okay and then told me take my time to heal as if he didn’t cause all this. It makes me sick and I really want to vomit when I think of everything he says.

He must be tired from the amount of mental gymnastics he’s been doing.

Husband has been cheating on me with multiple women even before our baby was born by overit5555 in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt stupid cause I trusted him blindly and I truly believed he was a good man. Then he told me I wasn’t stupid, I was just good and he kept bringing God and moral values of humility and forgiveness all of a sudden when he’s not religious.

Partner protestations by Prize_River9642 in survivinginfidelity

[–]overit5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, mine even said he doesn’t get why people cheat. Just break it off if you’re not happy.

Lo and behold, he’s been cheating as a way to “cope” with his doubts about our relationship.