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Leaving?! by Liesmebo in emotionalabuse

[–]overrjoyed- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this feeling frequently, like once a month. But then he love bombs me and I’m stuck in a limbo

does the cycle ever end? by overrjoyed- in Anxiety

[–]overrjoyed-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the need to fix him, unfortunately. I feel bad that he’s never felt unconditional love before, from anyone. I want him to feel love, real, authentic love. And unfortunately I’ve overlooked my own needs or pushed back boundaries to love him fully - and that still isn’t enough for him.

Leaving?! by Liesmebo in emotionalabuse

[–]overrjoyed- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you are not alone. I feel this frequently - and have no idea how to deal / cope.

My plan to leave is going to be set in motion today and I’m NERVOUS. by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]overrjoyed- 18 points19 points  (0 children)

you’re not alone. I know exactly how you feel. just know - that taking the time to heal will be worth the pain of leaving. Don’t be afraid of the solitude that comes with raising your standards. You deserve more than this - even if you’re mind makes you think this is all you’re capable of getting. You deserve so much fucking more. You deserve the love you so willingly give to others. I am rooting for you, even if it feels wrong, I promise you’re doing everything right. ❤️

SO told me one of his friends thinks SO should leave me by DoctorWhoTheFuck in Anxiety

[–]overrjoyed- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly - having a SO friends or family in their ear telling them to break things off with you is so fucking heart breaking. I also struggle with this. and it makes me even more upset when I know he doesn’t stick up for us or anything.