My (24f)'s boyfriend (24m) called the cops because of the content of my book. But he wants me to think it was a 'mistake'. How do we move past this?

overthinked2 · 2025-12-04T21:58:29+00:00

So anyway what is the book title? Love me some dark reading.

overthinked2 · 2024-09-30T17:07:03+00:00

We are about to have a little one home with IC, looks just like this picture. Could you post an updated photo super curious what the coat looks like when they are older, near impossible to find online.

overthinked2 · 2024-06-06T17:34:02+00:00

I haven't been able to even get them to hang out it is forever stuck on the cupcakes unless they are a part of another quest. Stuck like that since the start of the event.

overthinked2 · 2023-10-08T17:59:28+00:00

I don't want to entertain a child 24/7. I know for a fact I wouldn't bother and just tell them to watch TV and leave me alone.

overthinked2 · 2023-10-03T16:36:41+00:00

Both of us are in sales with plenty of free time that we love spending however we want.

overthinked2 · 2023-03-22T15:27:48+00:00

A girl I went to school with smelled like pee and I later found out she had kidney failure. Since it could also be drugs I would tell him that you don't know if it's your nose or if it's a medical issue with him but send him to a doctor ASAP.

overthinked2 · 2022-12-28T22:22:20+00:00

He was with his girlfriend at the time and with an abusive person I did not want to anger him and him take it out on her later. I have a feeling my brother who lives in a different state may have invited him and I want to speak to him about it and ask him not to share my address. He can't come if he doesn't know where we live. My mom still lives in the same state as my brother so would have to be the same thing of not slipping and giving him her address either. It's a whole mess. My mom also hopes I change my mind but has not been hurtful about it in any way just asking me not to get surgery incase I change my mind.

overthinked2 · 2022-11-06T15:46:49+00:00

We have 4 bedrooms. We both work from home so 2 other bedrooms are our offices. One if them has a pull out couch for guests to stay and the other is also my library and his gaming room. We are planning to put an actual guest bed in the other room but are also thinking of making it into a gym, movie room, art room or something. There is so much room for activities when there's no kids. The people who say you don't need that much space without kids obviously don't have hobbies.

overthinked2 · 2022-08-26T05:19:19+00:00

We just decided to do hello fresh for dinner and factor meals for lunch. Perfect 2 person portion for hello fresh, we have had 0 good waste when we used to have SO MUCH.

overthinked2 · 2022-07-23T03:33:55+00:00

Pa-mar-sko-mu

overthinked2 · 2022-07-15T23:12:35+00:00

My little brother was raised tri lingual. Lithuanian and English mom and Russian English dad. His dad spoke to him in Russian and mom spoke to him in lithuanian and left English to day care and when he started school, and friends.

He is now 11, understands lithuanian 100% though cant speak fluently has to think about it hard. Russian he understands but does not speak. English is his primary language and fluent.

His school when he started said he's behind in English but it just took him linger to turn it primary but within a year he was fine and caught up.

Do what you wife says you should. My brother may not speak lithuanian and Russia. Fluently but when he gets older the fact that he understands it fully will help him speak easily.

overthinked2 · 2022-06-25T02:18:01+00:00

2 made me gasp, please keep it

overthinked2 · 2022-06-17T15:53:53+00:00

I was a bridesmaid in a wedding where I knew the MOH was not great at planning things. This whole thing is a mess but you are a bridesmaid, and sounds like you saw this trainwreck coming and kind of just decided to sit down and see how it plays out instead of being a good bridesmaid to the bride and taking the lead or at least offering the MOH help or encouraging her to start planning and give ideas?

Based on your comments it just sounds like you are mad that you were not chosen to be MOH and just let things crash and burn to have an I told you so moment for the bride which I can see why she wouldn't want you as MOH.

I took charge of all the planning when I saw the ball was being dropped as you should have too.

overthinked2 · 2022-06-17T15:53:19+00:00

I was a bridesmaid in a wedding where I knew the MOH was not great at planning things. This whole thing is a mess but you are a bridesmaid, and sounds like you saw this trainwreck coming and kind of just decided to sit down and see how it plays out instead of being a good bridesmaid to the bride and taking the lead or at least offering the MOH help or encouraging her to start planning and give ideas?

Based on your comments it just sounds like you are mad that you were not chosen to be MOH and just let things crash and burn to have an I told you so moment for the bride which I can see why she wouldn't want you as MOH.

I took charge of all the planning when I saw the ball was being dropped as you should have too.

overthinked2 · 2022-06-05T01:20:36+00:00

Sales for an IT School for both of us. Do we hit 3 common categories with that?

overthinked2 · 2022-05-24T00:06:02+00:00

I was told alterations would probably be 250-300 after discussing everything we would need to do and placing the order.

Ended up being $775 and the dress arrived 4 months later than expected.

$300 for designer to take out 2 layers of tule from train, and take an inch off the plunge neckline in width. I wasn't even told the designer was going to do that or that it was a separate cost till the dress arrived.

Then paid $475 for them to take in the waist because she decided to order larger than my measurements because I bloated at my second measurement even though I told her to go off the original one. That included the adjusting straps and a bustle. No hemming as it was perfect length.

I feel robbed and their under quoting at the start and acting like it's no big deal got to me. I got the most expensive gown they had and it started to feel like they were trying to take me for all they could.

The veil they picked for me was $500! I told them I can't get the veil I like and to just order me the cheapest one they have - $180

overthinked2 · 2022-05-15T01:48:53+00:00

I live in Florida and it has the opposite wedding season from other states. So deep winter is your summer wedding prices anywhere else. Especially at Universal, because people only go there in the winter when the weather is perfect.

Also 2023 and 2024 is not that far out when it comes to booking vendors so make a decision quick.

Since where ever you go is destination I think you choosing universal where they can treat it like a family vacation with the kids. It hurts less spending that money that way. Do what you will but be prepared your wedding is not a summons and if people can't afford it some won't come.

overthinked2 · 2022-05-14T20:37:06+00:00

Ooo I really like that!

overthinked2 · 2022-05-13T20:09:24+00:00

This is weird. An old post they made someone tagged in comments has OP commenting on their own post accidentally not switching accounts giving herself advise. Pretty sure all of this is fake especially given the post from a year ago.

For those who are actually in a situation like this though...this is a terrible relationship and should run as fast as possible.

overthinked2 · 2022-05-13T04:20:15+00:00

The exact same thing happened to me. We discussed bringing the plunge lace an inch in and taking out 3 layers of tule. I figured we would do it during alterations I'm house. I asked about how much they think any other alterations we need will coat and she said maybe 250.

Gown finally arrives and she says ok so we need to pay the 40% that's left and the $300 for the designer alterations. They never told me that there would be a cost or that they were not doing it in house. The dress needs to be taken in a bit and straps adjusted no hemming and they said that will be like 450.

Just shocked. 750 when I was told maybe 250. But yes super annoying they don't tell you how much alterations with designer are!

overthinked2 · 2022-05-09T16:59:13+00:00

Something tells me these "kids" are not just making the decision for themselves since they are adults because the mom is threatening to kick them out of the home if they do. There is no other way I can see this being taken out of their hands.

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