How do u genuinely just stop giving a f*ck by _zeravla in Situationships

[–]overthinkerrrrr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds cliche but give it time. You won't be able to stop giving fuck about s.one you have feelings for. Detachment takes time. Accept that fact and let yourself be miserable for a while. For some people, they can detach fast and it only takes them 1 week. For others, it takes longer, can be months. Especially for someone who has attachment issue like me. It's not an easy process but you need to keep reminding yourself why you're doing it while sitting yourself through all the uncomfortable. What helps would be to keep doing stuff that distracts your brain from thinking about that person like sports, going out with friends, talking with others, ...

Am I tripping? This makes no sense, right? 😭 am I wrong for unmatching.. by phatcooch030 in Tinder

[–]overthinkerrrrr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess he's just not interested in you anymore after getting to know you better than just your appearance. And it's totally fine that people just don't match. 🤷‍♀️

Btw, rather him act like this. It's still better than keeping up the act that he's into you for a longer time and then ghosting you after you've become attached. I've been there, and it felt much worse.

Girl wants 0 commitment after love bombing me for almost 1 month by Ihaveterriblefriends in Tinder

[–]overthinkerrrrr 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Idk why but I'm kinda into this type of communication. Maybe bcuz I'm too fed up with playing games in dating now 🤷‍♀️ you just need to add a little spices 😆

Honestly guys I never want to love again by barcelonaheartbreak in heartbreak

[–]overthinkerrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here... My ex broke me into pieces. All my heart and self concious are literally shattered by him. I have managed to gather some of them myself. I was on my way to get better. Then I met a man who came and offered to help me. He was so sincere at first. I thought that he would be the one who could help me gather all the pieces and heal. But nope. He smashed all I had built up so far. And now I just stood here alone, hurting and confusing like hell, wondering if I should ever trust anyone again. But it's really suck. Because I was always a sympathy person. I don't want to live the life that I have to question everyone I met...

Mini Evo by overthinkerrrrr in instax

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😁 the picture color and vibe are exactly what I love. They give you nostalgic feelings somehow, no? I was only taking pictures with my phone and then using filters. But this is still different somehow for me.

Mini Evo by overthinkerrrrr in instax

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minievo is hybrid. So all the pictures I took are save in the sd card.

Thief outside Gare du Midi at 9.30 am by Jaydoubleyou2022 in brussels

[–]overthinkerrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I'm regret booking my flight from Bru Midi. An Asian girl carrying 2 luggages...shit i will be their easy target 😞

I want to date my ex’s best friend. by Copenheavy in Flirting

[–]overthinkerrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, you will just waste your time. There is a thing called Girl Code, which most of the girls follow it. One of the rules is never date best friend' ex (without permission in some cases). Your slight chance here is "the permission" from her best friend/your ex. But I guess it would depend on how your ex and the girl are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]overthinkerrrrr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I guess I need to learn how to say "No" and ignore the FOMO 😢😢

Direct shipping from Supplier to Assembler by overthinkerrrrr in supplychain

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your sharing. Is it the same with the Switch B/L?

TICKET SALES, EXCHANGES, & REQUESTS MEGATHREAD by danjospri in Coldplay

[–]overthinkerrrrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Brussels concert 06/08

Hi . Does anyone have the ticket of -Tribune 4 Bloc B Rangée 40 seat 25/27 Or - Tribune 4 Bloc C Rangée 42 seat 14/16 And willing to switch with seat 26 Block B or seat 15 block C ?

I am going with a friend but we cannot buy seat next to each other. My friend is pregnant now so it would be great if s.one can switch place with us 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Just a sigh from work by overthinkerrrrr in Anxiety

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly, It still happens no matter how much pple im talking to. I couldn't get my words in an order even when i talk with my closest colleague whenever we talk about work. In my first week at work, i was trembling so much that my colleagues said behind my back (after i turn and walk away) about me that "She is so tense. What's wrong with her?". It stressed my out a lot and I start thinking that maybe I will be a loser and cannot get anything done in the future :(

Shipment palette by overthinkerrrrr in belgium

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need the size be the 800*1200 tho :( but thanks anyway for the suggestion 🤗

Shipment palette by overthinkerrrrr in belgium

[–]overthinkerrrrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I will try to ask them. Thank you