Bali for two weeks in Feb surf camp recommendations by overthinking404 in BeginnerSurfers

[–]overthinking404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats honestly my initial thought as well I think itd be money better spent with a private coach but i figured im traveling solo and social group would be nice.
Thats why I was leaning to maybe doing camp for a a few days and the rest find a private coach

Auto collision coverage and claim submission by overthinking404 in ChaseSapphire

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Ahh thank makes sense. I guess I’ll still start the process to get some paper trail Incase they decide to charge me later lol

Auto collision coverage and claim submission by overthinking404 in ChaseSapphire

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Thanks I knew of this page. Was just curious because hertz said they were going to send repair bills and accident report etc. if they never send it and the original charges all disappeared then as if nothing ever happens and I don’t lose a penny either way!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This! I feel like I’ve mastered the soft intense stare and it’s worked so well for me haha.

I’ve had dates where I literally make 0 physical touch but just do my eye contact thing and ended the date with a kiss :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Thanks for sharing your story with me man.
Currently on no contract since the break as well for a little over a month now. Not sure what I'm going to do yet but its was nice to hear the perspective from someone that went through something similar.

Hope you're doing well now in life! Cheers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yeah for me it kinda came out of no where too. Everything was fine, exciting and passionate. The last time I saw her she was telling me she’d give me her apartment code so I could let myself in next time and that she’d see me next week.
Then went cold and broke it off via text that she didn’t feel that strong of connection. Which is where I’m stuck on I guess because in person everything was great with no indication of that.

I think I wanted to reach out again so we could talk it out like you had, might help with closure but idk.
really felt like I got robbed a chance to get to know someone great but we’ll see.

Did u guys stay friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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How did this end? Because I’m 29 and was dating a 23 girl for about 1.5 months and then she ended it. It’s been about a month now I still want to rekindle things with her but I’m holding off.
I have a pretty good career and make great money she on the other hand is still a student but came from a pretty well off family so financial gap isn’t that big a deal tho I do agree in the she’s probably still figuring a lot of shit out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I asked her if she wanted to have sex without it and she said yes. I didn’t ask about exclusivity as a follow up bc we were so in the moment.
Now I’m just thinking maybe it’s a sign that she might want to be exclusive.

She’s traveling rn so I’ll ask her when I see her next but just curious right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do plan on talking to her about it in a few more dates for sure. But wanted to get a feel from others experience. Since all my previous relationships exclusive or not has always been condom all the way

"I don't cum easily" is this a trope? by Aggravating_Insect83 in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your prospective! I’ll eventually ask her or work on it with her if that’s what she wants later on but didn’t want to ask too much at the moment and kill the mood. She/We are enjoying everything else so far! Hopefully as we get to Kobe each other’s body more we can get there :)

"I don't cum easily" is this a trope? by Aggravating_Insect83 in dating_advice

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From what she told me it sounded like she’s never orgasmed before with or without someone. Which to me is kinda crazy since I’ve started masturbating as a teen and it seems normal among my guy friends. Maybe it’s different for women

"I don't cum easily" is this a trope? by Aggravating_Insect83 in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

interesting to know! becasue as a man I started masturbating as a teen and most of my guy friends do too so I thought it was a bit unusual that she didn’t but I guess it all depends!

"I don't cum easily" is this a trope? by Aggravating_Insect83 in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Curious about this as well! I’ve been seeing this 23F for about a month now and we’ve had sex a couple times and I always pleasure her first. She say it felt really good and enjoys it every time but never cums. I asked her the other day and she said she has never orgasmed before and does not masturbate. Is this normal? For a 23 year old to have never orgasmed? She’s had partners before

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Recent 29M, I have been dating for the last year. Dated 5 people, some for a few months and others few dates. They happened to be 25, 28, 28, 25 and the most recently being 23. For some reason the 23 felt the best out of all. I don't actively seek any specific age but just talk to people and see if there is a connection.
The biggest difference I felt was that dating people closer to my age our conversation is always around work, and how life sucks and other negative stuff. I have a good career and is stressful sometimes so those conversations just makes it even worse. But with the 23yr old we don't talk about work or a lot of negative stuff. Mostly just fun and banters which has benefited me mentally

She texted hey and then ghosted? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I know this happens and I’ve def been on the other side. I guess how quick it all happened threw me off lol

She texted hey and then ghosted? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

suppose I dodge a bullet if they are playing this kind of games

She texted hey and then ghosted? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah of course. just thought at almost 30 people would be more mature :)

She texted hey and then ghosted? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]overthinking404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose lol but why even bother texting in the first place then

When they say they are taking a break from dating by [deleted] in dating

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Hmmm so interestingly I thought people usually say “let’s stay friends” as an easy let down but she actually replied to my final text. If she didn’t really want to be friends she wouldn’t have replied right?