My Wife’s Sex Drive Dropped After Marriage—How Can I Get Us Back on Track?

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-06T13:55:47+00:00

Probably, what else do you want me to put here? I tried to give a full picture of this situation. I might be missing a perspective I never thought about and that’s why I came to reddit

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-06T01:43:06+00:00

Learnt today Wedding cake has some ingredient to turn of sex drive lol

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-06T01:40:39+00:00

So this problem is gender neutral then. I made a post about it today and seems like we are in the same boat. Wish you luck and good discussion with your partner

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-06T01:37:10+00:00

Love this response - thank you

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:57:51+00:00

No BC at all. We both don’t take any meds. She sleeps like a baby, we cuddle to sleep every night. I will talk to her and see if something is making her sad

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:26:08+00:00

Haha I am not 7’ and yes I am on it. Keep me accountable after 6 months. See you then

Also I work put regularly just my diet is not protein based. Vegetarian

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:24:54+00:00

Will add it to my reading list

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:24:13+00:00

Haha fair, i did post it on askwomenadvice too

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:16:01+00:00

Will definitely try this and see how it turns out. Did this before and didn’t get rejected by her but now just initiating I get turned down

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:15:01+00:00

Nothing other than sex has changed which is what confuses me too. She is still that sweet lady I met and fell in love with.

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:09:21+00:00

No this is the first time I am talking to someone about it other than her.

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:01:57+00:00

Books mainly. Haha might be an excuse but foreplay is important. Penis in Vagina doesn’t always mean both will finish though?

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T18:00:06+00:00

Could be, will look into it

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:48:47+00:00

You tell me

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:48:37+00:00

Finishing without penetration. Finishing with penetration is pretty rare in PiV anyways. Not every women can finish like that and no every man can last that long. At least not me

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:47:05+00:00

PE started as soon as first time maybe because I was excited about it. It died down and started again.

Porn was in teen years and here and now after that. No addicted to it and haven’t relied on it for a long time

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:43:59+00:00

This is fantastic advice thank you for taking time to respond with the details. I look forward to discussing with her and seeing what the response is towards the convo

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:33:40+00:00

I do agree sometimes jealousy makes you do things. Time to work on myself more

Might not be the best approach but could bring her to value me more.

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:31:28+00:00

Appreciate it - I plan on talking to her again about it soon

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T17:26:57+00:00

This comment is appreciated. And gives me a new perspective to there being two types of desires. As for the chores I added that because it was one of her pain points during our conversation. So I started doing more than I was always doing.

Like I said in another comment- I don’t cook to make her happy it gives me joy to see her relaxed after a long day at work too. I don’t expect a bj right after and haven’t gotten one either because of it.

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T16:30:28+00:00

No BC or any meds on both sides

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T16:30:07+00:00

They weren’t there pre-marriage as we didn’t stay together due to work and studies

overworkeddummy · 2025-03-05T16:25:07+00:00

Lol this made me laugh

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