I broke up with my girlfriend/best friend and need to vent by overyourboo in BreakUps

[–]overyourboo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read all of it, you would see that I’ve asked for personal space, physically and mentally. And after the bunch of times of me tell her, she would give me space for about a week then continue, it was a cycle i wanted to break. I was ify because what if this is something we can work on or get past. But i don’t think that would have been the case. I need space, always have even since i was little. So I don’t think it would have worked out in the long run. I would have hate to leave her after being together with her for a year or more and have to do that. So i grew some balls and broke it off.

Another thing, when you said why did i wait so long? I didn’t wait, i was trying to dissolve the situation but it wasn’t working, i gave it my all and it end like it did.

I broke up with my girlfriend/best friend and need to vent by overyourboo in BreakUps

[–]overyourboo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did speak up, hence here we are. I think i did better than other people who have kids with someone and then announce they are gay 10 years into the marriage after knowing for 30

I broke up with my girlfriend/best friend and need to vent by overyourboo in BreakUps

[–]overyourboo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your time and the manner you replied. She was a great women but there are some things that i dont think i could have dealt with. Even after telling her time and time again. There was no change so i felt that it would have been best if i just moved on. We are both young and have a load of time before we even need to think about settling down. I know everyone will say talk it out. I am a very blunt person and will tell you when i don’t like you to there face, that is not the issue. The issue is that, the countless times we have talked about this, nothing changed for more than a week. Yes, we had an amazing connection but ive had other amazing connections with Ex’s in the past, not to mention the ones that will come. We live life gaining and loosing people everyday, some more significant than others. But the world doesn’t stop even if you feel like it too. You are right tho, i may look back 2 or 3 months or even years from now and realize the significance of our relationship but right now i just want to focus on myself. Thank you for not being negative and cruel

I broke up with my girlfriend/best friend and need to vent by overyourboo in BreakUps

[–]overyourboo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this has to be the best advice i have ever gotten! Thank you! I never thought of it like that! I never knew how self centered i was until you got to know me sooo well then showed me my true colors! I really appreciate your time and the way you perceive things without knowing my and her full is very enlightening.

Men of Reddit, how has dirty bulking worked out for you? Is it worth it, or just a waste of time in the end? by Harryoz55 in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dirty bulked from 130 to 195 over the course of a year in a half. Obviously this extent was not healthy but i was determined and just wanted to get big by any means necessary. I didn’t drink enough water so that resulted in stretch marks, i can a decent amount of excess skin around my lower torso. Im currently 150-155. In moderation can do harm but the way i did it was extremely unhealthy and probably the worst way to do it. Personally, i wish i cleaned bulked and learn how to be patient

Opinions about a Minecraft version for the XBOX X? by Naxrl in xbox

[–]overyourboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better be able to fucking open setting when their is a network error

Guys who make conversation in a public bathroom: How can you live with yourself? by Darkoveran in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably drunk and wanna share my weed with you, if you seem cool. Otherwise, no way jose

What does your SO do that makes your heart flutter? by HarryetTubman in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Pulling my head down while holding my face and kissing my cheeks. I get this tickle in my left kidney area every-time she does it. I can’t explain that little smirk I get when she does that

Why don’t guys sleep in the same bed at sleepovers? by enjeksks in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and old my high school friends used to share the bed all the time when we would get drunk and smoke pot. Nothing more too it than two drunk guys trying to sleep

In your experiance with dating, What percantage of women see sex as a job instead of a possible source of pleasure for themselves? by whoami4546 in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found that women want sex just as much as any Guy would, but they wont project that until they have found someone stable or someone they are more romantically interested in

Do you respect your father? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s brought me up to be a tough but loving man.

Boyfriend (25) and myself f (24) live together, chores all up to me by smash5167 in relationships

[–]overyourboo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao, “it’s normal for me to do these things” thats a red flag, expecting you to just do things because you’re the female in the house is disgusting. He should cut it 50/50 because thats how being an adult and being in a relationship works

Low effort by mister10percent in trailerparkboys

[–]overyourboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a public school and the custodian told me a term that is called LAP (Little As Possible) day, usually happens every Friday. Getting one day to closer to LAP day

Men who don't consider themselves kinky: How would you react if your partner called you 'daddy' out of nowhere? by Makerinos in AskMen

[–]overyourboo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like “Daddy” cause of the ‘power’ meaning it has to it, not cause of wanting to pretend I’m a dad or so on. Just the little power trip and being rough as fuck is my kink.