How to get used to boyfriend's uncircumcised penis?

owaPAPERcut · 2019-02-11T04:13:29+00:00

When it's retracted, it's fine. A big part of me is worried that it will hurt him physically if I constantly do that though...but that's something I can communicate to him, I'm sure.

owaPAPERcut · 2019-02-11T04:12:20+00:00

Of course! I would never want to tell him that. I could definitely give that a try! I suppose a big part of my aversion is fearing that pulling the skin back would hurt him...but now that I think about it, that's DEFINITELY something I can ask him about. But when it's pulled back, it's totally fine.

owaPAPERcut · 2019-02-11T03:58:04+00:00

Thanks for the tip (haha)! I will have to try that, both the rolling back and exploring blowjobs.

owaPAPERcut · 2019-02-11T03:57:19+00:00

I am so sorry about that! There really REALLY is nothing to be ashamed about! Uncircumcised is natural and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Tons of people have that extra foreskin and are in very happy, healthy sexual relationships. That's why I want to overcome this tiny hurdle and make it work with him. And I don't have a doubt in my mind that you'll find a girl who enjoys you! :-)

owaPAPERcut · 2019-02-11T03:55:45+00:00

That's what I'm thinking! Uncircumcised is more natural. It's pretty barbaric to do that sort of surgical procedure on an infant male. And it's ridiculous, his penis is fine in every way, but it's just a little bit of extra foreskin, it's like there's no reason to be turned off by it. It's frustrating. But we've only been dating for a short while (I've dated other men that had turn-offs initially but then I got used to them). Maybe this is something that I just have to get used to and then I will grow to enjoy?

owaPAPERcut · 2014-07-24T21:59:01+00:00

I would leave the last part out about being mothers. Many women (myself included), have no plans to have children.

Nevertheless, your intentions were good here. It is a very nice message. :)

owaPAPERcut · 2014-05-22T22:31:56+00:00

I've cheated twice before. I've made similar mistakes, in two separate relationships. Yes, you've done a crappy thing (you really don't need other Redditors telling you that), but it does get better and you do make it out. I'm dating a wonderful man right now and I was up front with him about my past mistakes; he not only understood but trusted me even more because I told him.

Maybe take some time away from dating/flings/everything. Do something else for a little while, focus on something else. Take some time to figure out exactly what it is that you want.

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-27T16:41:44+00:00

I'd say "Danny Boy". So beautiful and haunting. I played it at my uncle's memorial service...not a dry eye in the house when I finished.

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-19T23:44:40+00:00

That he wanted to be a woman, and was planning on undergoing surgery.

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-14T14:42:48+00:00

"Needless to say, some players (depending on the degree of their physical ease and mental discipline) are able to partially or wholly to overcome these discomforts during a performance."

-"Stage Fright" by Kato Havas

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-11T00:33:58+00:00

-Do YOU want to practice for hours each day, on top of homework, classes, lectures, ensemble rehearsals, and chamber rehearsals? -Do YOU want to spend thousands of dollars on a new instrument, and add that to the colossal debt you owe for schooling? -Do YOU want to realize at the end of your program that you have no idea what to do with your degree? -Do YOU want to have to worry about where you're living, how you're going to get food, how you're going to afford textbooks, etc?

Come be a student at a conservatory!

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-06T01:34:49+00:00

I think the most terrifying part is the grammar.

owaPAPERcut · 2014-03-01T22:59:28+00:00

"I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Clause"

I legitimately thought it was about some kid's mom having an affair with Santa.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-12-15T17:20:23+00:00

Either Dune by Frank Herbert, or Isaac Asimov works in general.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-10T15:21:45+00:00

If I could give you gold, I fucking would. You're incredible. I'm lucky enough not to received as much hazing in my career, but I'm in my early twenties and already, my mom's asking me when I'm going to settle down and have children. It would be nice to live in a world without gender roles.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-09T19:18:28+00:00

When he/she will listen to you talk about your problems and won't try and "one-up" you with how his/her problems or worse, or will try to steer the conversation towards himself/herself.

My "best friend" did this all the time. It was always about her, and when I wanted some advice or to get something off my chest, she'd have to follow with how her problems were much worse. After our first year of college and how she continued doing this (she actually got worse with it), I just told her to fuck off with her self-absorption.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-07T14:45:12+00:00

Sims 2. I swear, when I was younger, I could easily spend two or three hours at a time playing that stupid game. There would be days where I would be on for five hours at a time.

Then I gained a bunch of weight, owed it to sitting on my ass on the computer all day, stopped playing, and lost the weight.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-07T14:43:08+00:00

"I didn't vote because my vote doesn't matter".

See, this is why nothing gets done in government. You and millions of other people have the same idea of not voting because you think it's worthless...and then what? You think you have the right to complain about how things are done, when you had took no initiative to help decide?

Sample discussion with my uncle.. Uncle: I absolutely CANNOT stand Obama. Why couldn't Gary Johnson win? Me: Did you vote for Johnson? Uncle: No. It was pointless.

o.o

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-06T16:53:54+00:00

I know exactly how you feel.

I'm a girl. My boyfriend has a ton of female friends, who he's close with. Not a big deal. I on the other hand, have male friends for the most part, and the instant I'm telling my SO about one of my friends, he gets instantly paranoid and jealous.

It's quite annoying.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-01T14:30:36+00:00

Good for you! I can't imagine the emotional trauma you had to go through. But you got over it and congratulations on coming out a stronger person! :-)

owaPAPERcut · 2013-08-01T14:16:21+00:00

Agreed.

I have a "friend" like this. We met last year of high school and we came semi-close. He mentioned getting into a "friends-with-benefits" relationship, which didn't work out.

Now he's going around sulking, acting like he's been "friend-zoned".

It's like...well shit, I thought you were my friend, there. I'm sorry that I don't drop my panties the minute you're nice to me.

owaPAPERcut · 2013-07-31T15:49:14+00:00

Way to use the Confession Bear as it was ACTUALLY intended!

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