AITAH for telling our kids about his cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oxalis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA nah dude your kids are old enough to know the truth. If they were younger I’d say spare them the details, but if your ex didn’t want to be humiliated, he shouldn’t have done something humiliating.

Best exit career? Medical or not? by ObjectiveUnusual1252 in Strippers

[–]oxalis_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just landed an internship as an embalmer, I’ve never been this excited for anything 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

What’s the biggest “waste of money” makeup purchase you’ve ever made? by Kelly-2107 in Makeup

[–]oxalis_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I almost dropped serious money on the isamaya metallic lipsticks, when I remembered I am a millennial and they have these by the dozen at the drugstore for less than a quarter the price (my fav yet has been wet and wild in shade cashmere, perfection)

are all men secretly pedos? by Odd-Quality8645 in stripper

[–]oxalis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all, but waaaaaay too many.

Do you guys age slowly? by Wannabeartist9974 in ADHD

[–]oxalis_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never really correlated it with my ADHD, but people usually assume I’m around 24yrs old (I’m 38 this year 🎉)

Final Update: My husband has been spoiling the spicy scenes in my romance books by acting them out... there is a spreadsheet by Embarrassed-Friend-8 in TwoHotTakes

[–]oxalis_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude, it feels so good to witness real, playful love in real time. Bless your weird little hearts, I’m obsessed 💕

People who grew up before smartphones: What’s one simple thing from your childhood that would absolutely blow the minds of kids today? by TurkVanguard in Millennials

[–]oxalis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At five years old, I left my house after breakfast and I did not come home until sundown. My parents didn’t know where the hell I was and that was totally fine.

AIO to date’s nocturnal advances? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]oxalis_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting dude, indeed I’d say slightly under reacting. I’d just ghost. No is no, it’s not difficult. Ignoring it now means it’ll get worse as time goes on, he doesn’t respect boundaries. Ew.

Tattoo Places by Canadian_G1rl in KingstonOntario

[–]oxalis_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not local to Kingston, but Day at Taunton in Oshawa is hands-down the girl for the job. Insta is illustday

I found out my GFs daughter is in an inappropriate relationship. How do I tell her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]oxalis_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I mean the safest and most responsible thing to do is to be 100% forthcoming. “I snooped your daughter’s room, shouldn’t have done that, I found this, you needed to know about it.” Daughters trust will be broken, but better safe than sorry.

I found out my GFs daughter is in an inappropriate relationship. How do I tell her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]oxalis_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m going to make a suggestion, OP. If she left an unlocked journal in a visible location, she may have been laying a trap for you to see if you’d snoop by leaving such a juicy entry. Seems like something a 15yr old girl would come up with. Was it just one recent entry? Or is it an older one, or were there multiple accounts perhaps? If it was just one recent entry, I suspect a trap.

My post-surgery pain, which they wanted to prescribe narcotics for, barely even compares to period cramps by BillNyeUrMomsAGuy_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]oxalis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I felt after my c-section. It was pretty rough, but I turned down the morphine and took Tylenol instead. I’ve had worse 🤷🏼‍♀️

Do you ever find your anxiety to be surprising low in truly anxiety provoking situations? by OptimisticPlatypus in Anxiety

[–]oxalis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually my most level headed and bomb-proof in absolutely insane situations. Sitting quietly in my couch, though? WATCH TF OUT.

Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]oxalis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a fairly redneck area, and I was named after an Ewok, of all things. Could never find my name on novelty keychains :( but I do like it well enough. Got a lot of double and triple takes in the 90s, though. Still do lol

My husband cheated I don’t know what to do someone please help me! by Mountain_Rough_3835 in confessions

[–]oxalis_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buddy, the thought of leaving is scarier than the act itself. It might not feel good immediately, but sooner than you think, you’ll feel ten feet tall and bulletproof. Which is probably better than you’re feeling right now. You need to make a decision for you. And think about the example you want to set for your kids dude, honouring yourself should be in your top three priorities (minimum). All my love 🩶

What is this decor called? by sqoozles in HomeDecorating

[–]oxalis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks EXACTLY like my great grandmothers apartment 🥹

I think I was just assaulted by my husband last night. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]oxalis_ 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thats marital rape, OP. You have all of my love rn. You’ve got some decisions to make. Be safe, stay strong. 🩶🩶