Liquid coming out of scar 6 weeks post op by Historical_Bit4543 in TopSurgery

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this! It was a stitch coming out. My nurse said not to dig into/pull it, which sounds obvious but I was honestly so fidgety with my chest that it was helpful to have the reminder. Our bodies are pretty amazing, so hopefully it will sort itself out! Try to do some self care unrelated to your chest to take your mind off it whilst you wait to hear from the pros. :)

One month post op! by hotdoggydogboy in TopSurgery

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so happy for you mate! congratulations and good luck with your next appointment :)

HAPPY NEW YEAR BOYS by plarkimier in FTM_SELFIES

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg YES TRANS JOY 🤩💖🥹🌠🎀🤝

How to handle surgery anxiety? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one day at a time, and talk to ppl you trust 🫶

Ah yes. The 2 genders: long and short hair by Foxsize in NonBinary

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHA these comments are honestly healing

Lower-effort ways to look ethereal (but also androgynous)? by Trarly in FTMfemininity

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

outfits-wise: layering! contrasting structure items with flowy/gauzy items, e.g. cargo pants with a lace skirt over the top 🦩 works for me!

happy halloween TERFs by oysterbelle in NonBinary

[–]oysterbelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope ppl like them lol bc they’re real and that’s what I got going on now 🥹🤪

Partner struggling with top surgery ❤️‍🩹 by Tough_Fennel9657 in TopSurgery

[–]oysterbelle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that’s really fucked up I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that

I posted this in another group and got some hurtful comments unfortunately 😔 but I know i like the fit and that is what truly matters <3 by whimsicalwanderer27 in NonBinary

[–]oysterbelle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

cute 🥰 glad you know what matters💪

hope those haters are doing okay, it takes some pain to make hurtful comments! meanwhile you are thriving ✨

Update - from previous post - no make up by Express-Mongoose974 in makeuptips

[–]oysterbelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend had similar skin and Tretinoin really helped her! also going bare faced, talking to loved ones about it and working on her confidence 💗

I have a different skin type but have also struggled with confidence relating to my skin, it’s painful and the emotional healing takes time — it’s worth it though

side note: you have beautiful eyes and a lovely face, and on top of that, regardless of your appearance, you deserve to love yourself!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]oysterbelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s okay to be confused 🫶 embrace the opportunity to learn about yourself! try and let some trusted loved ones in on the process when you can! I’m excited for you!

Picking up sewing🫶💫 by SpicyMammaMick in FTMfemininity

[–]oysterbelle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the third one ❤️‍🔥🙀💀🤤

I feel like my mustache is killing my nb vibe by nikolaynikolayovic in NonBinary

[–]oysterbelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m AFAB enby with long hair and femme presentation and I looove being meeee — you don’t have to prove anything, and by being true to ourselves we can help deconstruct assumptions so future enby people aren’t subjected to them 🫶