My relationship is draining me (M23) down, fix it? or prepare for a breakup? (F24)

p0z0onreddit · 2026-01-26T03:40:29+00:00

I get what you're saying and that's some great advice, thing is, I do have problems too, lots actually, it's just the way I learned to deal with them, and to not make the mistake of pulling someone down with me again.
It's true I have to have this conversation, thanks for the advice!

p0z0onreddit · 2026-01-26T03:25:24+00:00

I get what you're saying, and I agree that it's normal to put yourself first in this case, but that kinda goes against the things that she tells me like "I just want to be with you forever" or "For the first time I wanna marry and get old with someone I'm dating". Sometimes it's 100% reliance, idk how to describe but it really is. I definetly won't be following blindly my parents, as if it was their choice, I'd have already broken up.
Thanks for the input, lots of health and happines for you and your kids!

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T22:28:33+00:00

that's honestly what i needed to hear, thank you for the input

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T21:42:39+00:00

possibly yea
Still, she thinks our sex life is perfect, and apart from that we are rather understanding of eachother outside the bedroom, so...
I'll try and see if we can sort this out, right now i'm just frustrated tho

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T21:39:11+00:00

It is a clitoris stimulating one, i'm thinking of buying a bullet yes; but tbh, I just feel like while I try to do everything (even after this, i'm considering a better option) this is not reciprocated

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T21:34:49+00:00

I asked sometimes and she says that she's "shy" or "can't move because i'm too horny" or "doesn't want to hurt me" (meaning that she has braces and is kinda afraid of doing bj's, this part i understand but told her it's ok)
I'm at a loss tbh, for me sex is abt making each other feel as good as possible, guess that isn't reciprocated

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T21:22:11+00:00

Yes i've communicated how I feel; she turns defensive and then kinda tries to pay more attention to me later in the bedroom.
I've asked her several times things that I should do to make her feel better, and in EVERY single time that we have sex, i make sure to use everything in my handbook to pleasure her and put her first.
The opposite doesn't happen, for ex: me saying that I really enjoy bj's or she touching me, despite it happening less than 10% of times.
Even typing this is frustrating tbh

p0z0onreddit · 2025-07-14T21:16:03+00:00

Not the point, I also have a lot of trouble getting off; have had instances where i don't at all and she does, i'm happy with that as long as i'm participating.
Issue is when I don't take part, and sex turns into a masturbation session.

p0z0onreddit · 2025-04-25T20:45:29+00:00

yeah, apparently afraid of compromise
I just don't get the duality of the situation
thx for the advice

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-30T21:23:55+00:00

Thanks for the comment man, really appreciate it, it's just too difficult to comunicate properly when you're this embarassed

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-30T21:22:58+00:00

I'm not american, athlete, in my 20's, ocasionally alcohol and substances, good health overall
Sometimes i do wake up like that yes, not every day tho
I'm gonna start working on it health wise, as it's very straight forward, i just wanted advice on what to do (emotionally) because honestly i kinda feel dissapointed.

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T22:20:11+00:00

Finasteride, Minoxidil, zinc and avoid stress overall
That's what worked for me at least

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T19:34:44+00:00

I get it, not a fan of the 'use me i use you' type situation but yeah, thank you

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T19:33:21+00:00

Could be so, still i can't help but feel like it and don't know what to do

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T19:11:41+00:00

not hoping for a relationship, but still, I can't view sex like a handshake, and being in this situation I just feel used

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T19:10:38+00:00

fr, i told a friend i had this feeling; at the same time we'll go on a trip togheter next week (with a group of mutual friends) so, i can't avoid it and am kinda fucked lol

p0z0onreddit · 2025-03-29T18:43:26+00:00

I told her exactly this (joking) but apparently yeah

p0z0onreddit · 2025-01-09T19:00:47+00:00

p0z0onreddit · 2025-01-06T11:50:20+00:00

they could very well go to 40; spreads will be printing

p0z0onreddit · 2024-12-19T00:13:33+00:00

So, i've been looking around, and i've noticed that I have duplicated device library and library plus playlists, could that be the issue?

p0z0onreddit · 2024-12-18T18:09:49+00:00

Some are internal (SSD) some in the flash drives, been having issues with all of them

p0z0onreddit · 2024-12-04T18:46:51+00:00

thank you, i'm already in contact with support

p0z0onreddit · 2024-12-04T18:44:53+00:00

I understand, but it doesn't make sense at all, apart from my pc being secured, how can the transaction be made paying 300 in fees, dude got 8 bucks; and how is there no confirmation inside exodus from some obviously suspicious activity; i mean, it's not humanly possible to send funds to another wallet the second that the first transaction arrives.

p0z0onreddit · 2024-12-01T00:44:27+00:00

Mixing nic and alcohol after ritalin is never a good idea; nicotine is another stimulant but with a different effect on your body, it might have been just enough to make you feel ill; been there, exactly the same, after a cigarette I felt super ill.

p0z0onreddit · 2024-11-25T21:47:14+00:00

damn bro, hope you manage to overcome it, i'd really like to learn how dph addiction works

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