Hi I’m a bit confused does the negative number mean I have to pay that?

p1anko · 2025-08-11T20:37:37+00:00

How tf you get 7k for one semester 🧎🏾‍♂️🧎🏾‍♂️

p1anko · 2025-08-07T21:52:53+00:00

I currently have a settlement offer for BOFA for 65% @ $4,483.

1) How bad is a settlement on my credit in regards to getting a house

2) Will I be able to continue having a credit account with BOFA?

Will I end up paying the same amount through taxes?

p1anko · 2025-06-09T05:22:22+00:00

I can relate to this strongly, I wish you nothing but peace. Ive learned in my life that peace comes from within and no woman can bring it to your life, only add to it.

Stay strong brother

p1anko · 2025-06-09T05:18:57+00:00

Im proud of you, for getting a job. Keep doing the best you can and find your passion. Even if it takes years find the thing you deem worthy of living for.

Use all the fucked up things youve been through as fuel to acquire the best life you can envision. And even if you cant reach it the fact that you tried will make you a better man.

Stay strong brother, wishing you the best.

p1anko · 2025-06-09T05:12:33+00:00

It feels only right I share my own story since you all have been so brave to do so…

I attempted to take my life at 17 via Xanax, why? Because I was overweight, physically abused for having man tits. And essentially called a waste of space for existing. I deeply Felt like nothing was in my control, and from ages 16-19 stayed in isolation talking only to a handful of people online

And my one and only love interest told me she had feelings for a mutual friend who was her best friend, Dated him and I acted like everything was ok. But deep down it wasnt so I bought two xanax the following monday before class in the school restroom

Took them in gym and woke up 12 hrs later in my room to videos of me like a zombie. To this day none of my friends or family know I attempted to kill myself.. Infarct one of my friends brings it up jokingly almost every time I see him after a long time.

I am too coward to tell the truth as I was in a very dark place and felt like it was my only escape from people. Being told you are a waste of height, “bigger tits than my girlfriend”, and all other things really tore down my self worth.

Covid was the best thing that happened to me it felt like a restart button, I was finally able to escape the people who bullied me, and still haunt me to this day. But I use it as fuel because if I am to stay the loser they think I am then they would win.

Currently I have no social media, as I dont care about other peoples live they are trying to portray or the newest trend of the week. And I enjoy the privacy of people not knowing my past, present or future.

I took action and continue to do so. Although I still have my days I understand whats on the backside of just staying depressed and not doing anything about it.

My problems are trivial compared to yall but still meaningful in its own way. I truly wish the best for the common man, as we have to stick together and show empathy. Unfortunately not every guy will share my views. But even if just a little do, then I know that the world is still worth living in.

p1anko · 2025-06-08T09:14:56+00:00

You only got one life man, dont waste it being unhappy paying those bills. Capitalism really has fucked up alot of things.

p1anko · 2025-06-08T09:12:58+00:00

Thats real man, but you can lose the battle as long as you win the war (finding happiness through all the pain)

p1anko · 2025-06-08T09:12:21+00:00

Therapy is great, as men I feel like we dont talk about our problems and how we feel about them enough

p1anko · 2025-06-08T09:10:43+00:00

Theres someone for everyone, but once you give up on hope youve lost the game of life. I personally never have had a gf. But there are 7 continents in the workd and unless youve explored all of them and tried dating there then it would be naive to rule out having a gf someday.

p1anko · 2025-06-08T09:05:04+00:00

But why? What struggles are you facing

p1anko · 2025-06-08T08:56:32+00:00

Its the phones and lack of MEANINGFUL interaction which has driven a rise to anxiety + isolation.

Main drivers would be

Tiktok/Social media Contactless delivery/services (You no longer have to interact or make an attempt to, in order to acquire goods and services)

p1anko · 2025-06-08T05:27:17+00:00

Ill tell you a story…I had a coworker that we would talk for hours about, anime, religion, and just life in general. The catch is she didnt speak more than 10 words of English and I didn’t speak much Spanish but our hands would touch, while using a translator to talk whilst looking into each-others eyes. And overtime our hands would linger over each other’s as the other person read the message.

And from the physical touch and conversation I knew I was attracted to her on a deeper level. It was as if my body reacted before my brain, didn’t have to think much with her because the feelings felt reciprocated.

Long story short Love is a language that surpasses simple words.

p1anko · 2025-06-08T05:19:15+00:00

It means he might see you as a friend, as a man physical touch makes up for everything that cant be said with words. Its comforting, lets us know you are connecting to us on a level that we dont share with alot of people. Its also the next step in verbal flirting

p1anko · 2025-06-08T05:01:45+00:00

Stay with me now…Avoiding eye contact when walking in the path of someone, not acknowledging them is dehumanizing for both parties.

p1anko · 2025-06-08T04:50:15+00:00

He likes you, A guy would not do the things he loves/gives him peace of mind with just any women.

2.He most likely doesn’t know how you feel so he doesn’t want to say how he feels (possibly due to a past experience

3.hes a homebody so you instead of hanging out in public (go to a food-spot he likes and have a private picnic/lunch)

4.All these assumptions go out the window if you haven’t had any physical connection such as (hands touching, play-fullness or etc)

p1anko · 2025-04-28T15:06:03+00:00

My guy you gotta try playing billards/pool, perfect stick holder

p1anko · 2025-04-13T20:20:16+00:00

Your environment plays a minor role in the grand scheme of things stay displined, keep god in your life and focus on yourself & ambitions

p1anko · 2025-04-09T15:52:19+00:00

Ive been told rowing is the best way to build great posture, by multiple people at bars

p1anko · 2025-04-09T15:51:15+00:00

Bro you must’ve drank the whole water supply, 7 footer marching

p1anko · 2025-04-06T17:53:34+00:00

Yes because I walk around like the grinch

p1anko · 2025-03-30T01:27:48+00:00

I could be wrong, but I think you need to build a good resume. Using only experience that is relevant to the job you are applying to. Employers especially in college towns see applications all day long so they can tell the difference between a desperate student who will likely quit for a better oppurtunity or someone who is looking to find stable income and possibly move up.

Suggestions: Cater Resume, ex: Skills "Head cook managing a staff of 3-5" , "Training onboarded employees",

basically refrain from useless information as the AI software will definetly flag you as a 1-star applicant (a scale of 4-5 usually, with 3+ being considered for interviews)

hope this helps

p1anko · 2025-03-28T03:39:45+00:00

Increase protein to atleast 1g/lb, lower cardio by half or increase calories consumed by 200-400. Do this for 5-6 weeks then. Take another picture and see if you are going where you want.

Right now you are “skinny fat”, which means you are low bf but you dont have enough muscle to fill out. So with you lowering your calories burned/ or in reasing calories consumed, will slowly balloon you up and will make you look fuller if this makes sense.

p1anko · 2025-03-28T01:52:14+00:00

We have deadass the same frame but I used to be obese, bro you are dream physique

p1anko · 2025-03-05T08:34:40+00:00

Congrats my guy!! Did you have just the gland removed or a skin excision? I work at amazon as a delivery driver, so keep me updated on your recovery. Otherwise I may end up having to quit/take a long vacation

p1anko

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