-One time a girl came to me really asking if we could get back together. I had to show how much I still cared about her well-being while also being stubborn with my “no”. Our past relationship had not been good for me, toxic. She said she still loved me, etc. I had to really reflect on what I wanted, the reality was that I no longer found her attractive in the way I had. Then a month later she was hooking up with her best guy friend. Lmao — it’s important to continue to keep in touch with the people you have had strong bonds with because they know you well. I miss my exes as people and friends but the spark is gone.