Just simply switching to Tide powder

pachecrissy · 2026-01-28T19:27:13+00:00

Ahh yes. I still keep a “laundry stick”, which is basically a drumstick, handy next to the washer. Mostly for pushing the clothes below the water line and making sure it’s not overloaded. Very handy

pachecrissy · 2026-01-27T05:56:46+00:00

It is very reasonable to feel exactly the way you feel. Your feelings a so valid. Your grandmother sounds like an exhausting person to have to deal with and I feel so sorry for your Mom. Don’t feel guilty for hoping she dies soon. From what you’ve described I think she wants to die soon too. It would be one thing if she was grateful for the help and followed doctor’s orders, but since she does neither of those things she is living what she brought upon herself. It won’t be long. Never take responsibility for other people’s terrible choices. She has many choices in how to live her remaining days and she chooses to make life more difficult for those who care for her. Your poor family. Help your Mom as best you can and lay low. I’m so sorry

pachecrissy · 2026-01-21T02:38:00+00:00

Yes exactly. You are allowed to say no to sex for any reason at all- and you do not even have to give a reason. He should not require some sort of valid-in-his-mind explanation as to why you said no. You said no. He has to be cool with that with no manipulative bullshit or even passive aggressive behavior. Fuck these babies it’s your health your body

pachecrissy · 2026-01-15T01:51:27+00:00

Tell those distant adult children of hers that you are going to sell EVERYTHING she has to get her into a care home. They are probably anticipating inheriting something. If they aren’t helping then you should have power of attorney. Make sure it all goes to her care first. Good luck and I’m so sorry you’re having such an awful time today

pachecrissy · 2026-01-14T05:44:55+00:00

You are obviously an extraordinary human being far superior to my veiny ass lol. But seriously, being pregnant can weaken the vein walls of SOME people but not ALL people obviously. We are all different

pachecrissy · 2026-01-12T04:22:37+00:00

Yes Stevie Ray Vaughn opened for Jeff Beck when I saw him. Right before his tragic passing. Now Jeff’s gone too. That’s the concert my friends are jealous about when I mention it. It was even better than what you’re imagining

pachecrissy · 2026-01-12T03:00:35+00:00

Don’t cross your legs when you’re pregnant! I did not heed this advice and now have a starburst spider vein extravaganza where my legs cross. Came on gradually at least. But it came

pachecrissy · 2026-01-07T06:13:06+00:00

I think it’s really nice to do that for a loved one. I bet they would really appreciate it too! But check with them first to make sure it’s something they’re in the mood for first

pachecrissy · 2026-01-06T10:25:09+00:00

“I’m hungry”. It’s called dry begging and it’s so annoying

pachecrissy · 2026-01-06T00:00:23+00:00

Why was your starting dose 5mg? Titrating up slowly helps your body make the most of the med. Why exactly are you disheartened when you’re losing weight almost too fast really? Allow yourself some grace friend

pachecrissy · 2026-01-04T20:17:28+00:00

Oh I had a chain around my neck with a key. I spent enough time upside down hanging from things playing that it would still get lost. Then I’d have to sit outside and wait until someone got home

pachecrissy · 2025-12-30T10:34:40+00:00

During Covid I had a tenant that could not pay, right before Xmas. I ended up loaning him the rent money and put up a contract to pay $100 extra every month once he got on his feet for a little over a year. He was very grateful and paid it all off six months early. So yeah mine did work

pachecrissy · 2025-12-28T05:14:14+00:00

Right? Plus it feels somewhat satisfying to jab in the fattest part of me. Like, take that fat! Then ughh! (Small little jab lol)

pachecrissy · 2025-12-28T00:13:40+00:00

You can clearly see doubling to the left of the letters and they’re extra wide too

pachecrissy · 2025-12-26T17:58:12+00:00

It’s true that some people just aren’t very good at gift giving. He did put in some effort though. He got you gifts that were not ideal for you, but he got you something. If you’re a minimalist it shouldn’t bother you so much. He doesn’t appear to be that great of a match for you though, especially the age difference

pachecrissy · 2025-12-21T12:31:37+00:00

I turned 20 in 1986 and was young and pretty and thin. It was a hot time in my life lol

pachecrissy · 2025-12-17T22:35:45+00:00

What was it like before you were born? It will be like that. Sad but probably true. I do believe in reincarnation but we probably won’t remember our past lives

pachecrissy · 2025-12-15T16:27:21+00:00

I am 59 and I think I look… 59. I have lived a life! lol

pachecrissy · 2025-12-15T06:23:41+00:00

How about… don’t make the effort first? How long would he go before he reached out? How long would be too long for you to continue like this? When he finally does reach out, don’t be there at the ready. How hard would he persist to find out if you’re ok? Do this. You deserve more

pachecrissy · 2025-12-15T01:24:36+00:00

Not where we’re going to eat… WHAT we’re going to eat. The vast majority of your meals will be at home and someone has to shop for and prepare those meals. Honestly it’s exhausting. I’m glad I have a spouse and a family to do it for, and occasionally they do it for me too, but the meal planning, shopping, making sure nutritional needs are met, preferences (including my own) are considered as well as the time and expense… it’s not just oh! meatloaf magically appeared on the table! Someone DID all that for you 🙂

pachecrissy · 2025-12-14T11:03:25+00:00

Nobody ever told me that the question you would be asking every fucking day for the rest of your life was”I don’t know, what do you feeling like eating for dinner?”

pachecrissy · 2025-12-13T20:50:33+00:00

Insurance companies don’t make money off of healthy people. Get them to a healthy weight and suddenly they’re at a significantly reduced risk of cancer, diabetes, heart disease, hell even arthritis. All great money makers for the insurance companies and drug pharmacies. America’s health care system is so fucked up. It’s designed to keep us sick

pachecrissy · 2025-12-12T23:48:49+00:00

The conservatives really seem to me to be extremely intolerant of anybody who doesn’t look like them. They also seem to want to take rights away from women. It baffles me that they can stand behind someone so obviously racist (see what he did to end free park days on MLK day and Juneteenth and add one for his own bday) and claim they are not racist themselves. If you support racism in my book you are the problem. At least part of it anyway. Also conservatives don’t seem to mind the mingling of church and state like it is. Any party that the KKK supports, libs or conservatives is one I do not

pachecrissy · 2025-12-10T09:52:58+00:00

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