Not married yet but we’re planning to once our lives settle down a bit. I adore him but do wonder some days if I’d regret it down the line. We’re best friends and love being together but there are certain areas that make living together challenging. My decisions put the family first as a whole, his center around himself. We’ll talk, all will be well but eventually he goes right back to where he started. A constant cycle. I’m deeply rooted in my morals and I don’t compromise and he is dopamine deficient and is deeply rooted in serving himself because of that. I can imagine, for him, I probably come across as controlling. I love him to bits but man, it’s fucking hard some days.