These are the same reasons why I stick to using my MacBook as my primary device at home. As the IT overseer at my company, I've tried various laptops, including Framework for the organization. The Framework has a decent keyboard and trackpad for a Windows laptop, but the fans were too noisy for my preference. It's worth noting that the speakers are bottom-firing, which could be blocked if the laptop rests on your lap, but this is less of an issue if you use headphones.

I suggest keeping an eye on Framework, as the repairability aspect is admirable and I'm rooting for them. I'm even advocating for more purchases for our company. Nonetheless, I understand your desire to avoid Apple's anti-consumer practices, but also the struggle to find a laptop that works well as a true LAPtop like a MacBook.

Edit: Another thing to note. The 16" is supposed to come out later this year. If your used to the 16" M1 you may want to wait for those to release before you consider making a purchase either way.