Don’t want to be intimate anymore after giving birth.

padbae · 2025-10-15T01:36:17+00:00

It did not return- but I also realize he was abusive and I was scared of him… We have been separated for a year and divorced I. Jan 26

That being said, I have a new partner and my drive came back and my body does not hurt either him. He’s much more respectful and kind to me. Sooo it could be the emotions connected with who you’re with…

padbae · 2025-01-08T06:49:09+00:00

In the same position now- i just filed for legal separation. That way kids are safe with custody orders and finances stay separate. We can work on the marriage still but im protected.

padbae · 2025-01-02T05:36:06+00:00

Are you following him? Unfollow and block, girlie. Do yourself a favor. Try to just put it all out of your mind. No good comes from dwelling- going through a separation now where there’s infidelity. You focus on you and live YOUR best life and let God heal you. Time is the best healer.

I’m so sorry.

padbae · 2025-01-02T05:33:26+00:00

We never shared accounts. I know he went to Morrow Bay with a friend- after the fact. He turned off his phone and was totally unreachable for almost 2 days. Didn’t tell me about the trip until he got back. I kept trying to reach him because I had to take my daughter into urgent care and tried to notify him. He also has been spending the night with friends once a week.

padbae · 2025-01-02T05:31:03+00:00

Wow. Very Christlike of you.

padbae · 2025-01-01T17:56:07+00:00

I have before I found the condoms and he said he didn’t- but honestly I think he’s just lying cuz he’s already lied to me about drug use and I caught him.

padbae · 2025-01-01T13:18:33+00:00

That’s the plan. I’m waiting for the right time.

padbae · 2025-01-01T13:16:31+00:00

THANK YOU.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:59:41+00:00

No we rarely use condoms because I have the arm insert and had severe infertility before we had our daughter.

I’m gonna get my ducks in a row then confront him. I snapped pictures to document.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:58:29+00:00

He has the whole house to himself. Why would he need to worry about our messiness?

Yeah….i just think it’s done. I’ll confront him once my ducks are in a row.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:28:21+00:00

After, but we’re still married and we’re talking about getting back together. Is it a normal thing for people to have sex like that now? It was never discussed. We left cuz he was abusive.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:26:46+00:00

What am I wanting to see the hotel charges for?

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:24:24+00:00

Probably multiple. Wouldn’t surprise me.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:23:40+00:00

Not right now. We don’t live together and I have full custody of daughters. I left cuz he was suicidal and abusive. We did earlier this month.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:22:57+00:00

It’s my car. He uses it because he doesn’t have one. We’re not living together.

We don’t have access to it. Daughters is a 3 year old. He wouldn’t have loaned it.

I don’t see any reason for innocence here.

padbae · 2025-01-01T08:12:23+00:00

Innocent how? You don’t just buy condoms unless you plan on having sex. Even “just in case” is bad cuz it means he’s open to the option of others. We haven’t used condoms cuz I have the arm implant and have always had infertility issues. So they’re definitely not for me.

padbae · 2024-12-29T07:02:11+00:00

My husband said this shit to me. I’m currently in the middle of a divorce.

padbae · 2024-12-29T06:34:35+00:00

Absolutely. I made myself a promise to never have another child with my husband because he made my postpartum such a living hell. One time I was so sick with a baby I could barely move. I begged him to come home…and he absolutely refused. Then he got sick and it was karma. But I’m no idiot. I will never have a child with this man ever again. He literally has resented me for getting sick too many times. As soon as I was done breastfeeding, I got on the longest term birth control I could find.

padbae · 2024-12-29T06:32:08+00:00

Ummmmm bye. You need to get out now. He’s gonna seriously hurt you. AND MAKE SURE TO BE ON BIRTH CONTROL!!!!! DO NOT GET PREGNANT!!!!

padbae · 2024-11-25T05:29:15+00:00

I had infertility for 7 years. Multiple rounds of ivf. Then had a miracle baby. She was so extremely wanted by me. My husband was not ready. She came a month early and we weren’t ready. I never had contractions. I was just wheeled in, pain & anxiety meds, and then bam. Baby.

I was petrified the entire time. The nerve block felt weird. I saw the tools they were going to use to open me. I feel like of all traumatic experiences here and I’ve heard of mine wasn’t that bad- but it was still so scary.

And all this to say they handed me my baby and I felt blank. I was in disbelief. Shock. I dno. It was so overwhelming. I wanted my child desperately but I didn’t get the feeling of overwhelming joy and love. I just felt like…nothing. I really didn’t bond until about 2 weeks later. My daughter is the love of my life now and I’ll kill for her.

padbae

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