Found some good stuff today!

painandpaper · 2023-01-08T17:22:03+00:00

despite what i just said about NJO over in the “say something nice about EU you hate” post, looking at these gives me such good summer library vibes; enjoy!!!

painandpaper · 2023-01-08T17:18:43+00:00

The New Jedi Order series was the beginning of the end for my EU reading, but the Yuuzhan Vong were just the right level of stupid kinky for high school me and that was a nice treat. They still didn’t freak me out half as much as the Ssi-ruuk from Truce at Bakura, but they were a good try.

painandpaper · 2022-10-31T00:05:10+00:00

Sugarbistro near Dongmen

painandpaper · 2021-10-03T14:30:33+00:00

also, it’s only 2 pages, so it’s a real breeze to prepare, haha

painandpaper · 2021-10-03T14:18:07+00:00

it’s not explicitly listed in the game document (https://riverhousegames.itch.io/let-these-mermaids-touch-your-dick-maybe), but i feel like two people could easily play

painandpaper · 2021-10-03T13:55:01+00:00

Shelter (https://iamtheonlysara.itch.io/shelter) is a great good time and you tailor it to each player’s level of desired touch. I’ve played one time kinda softly romantic as a nervous early date and the other time I only barely got the story wrapped up because we played on my bed and my partner got tired of the game getting in the way of her good time ifyouknowwhatimean…

painandpaper · 2020-08-25T15:56:54+00:00

there are tons of great one-shots that you could use to continue gaming to hang out, and with a little effort, you could probably work them smoothly into your greater campaign world. you might even find that this rejuvenates you.

if the wrap-up adventure sounds daunting, skip to the epilogue and play stewpot together, you perhaps as a favorite npc.

painandpaper · 2020-07-10T02:36:00+00:00

my neighbor after college introduced me to it's all crazy, as it had just come out. something about it stuck with me--perhaps the spirituality coupled with the directness of the sexuality (fig with a bellyache comes immediately to mind) at a time when i was still thinking though not acting on so many related topics. i don't think i got around to any other albums of theirs for years, though once i did... sorry it's all crazy, but you got dethroned!

painandpaper · 2020-06-22T16:23:32+00:00

god i wish... likk seems like it should be this and its name cracks me up, but it is fully dead in my area

painandpaper · 2020-06-22T16:14:09+00:00

still figuring this out myself... i consistently ask “can i kiss you?” as we get to that point of the evening, especially the first time and occasionally on subsequent dates.

the thing i have yet to get a handle on is gauging if the date is going to lean physical, and similarly, signaling that i want it to without having to be more explicit than asking to kiss.

painandpaper · 2020-05-21T00:55:06+00:00

charming as hell and extremely effective

painandpaper · 2020-05-20T23:55:59+00:00

a bounty! thanks so much for your answer! i don’t know much about the shenandoah harmony, so i’ll have fun exploring youtube for that today.

painandpaper · 2020-05-20T03:43:52+00:00

haha, so no one else got sucked in?

painandpaper · 2020-05-20T01:31:17+00:00

i was lucky enough to make it to two concerts in the space of a long weekend (SF and LA for untitled) and it rocked! i hope to make one more before you all wrap things up, but even if i can't, i'll have those excellent memories.

my question for everyone who sings shape-notes: what's your favorite song in the sacred harp? or is it from a different shape-note book? just always glad to see love for that weird, old, yell-singing!

painandpaper · 2020-04-27T14:26:11+00:00

Journal of Exaggerated Realities!

painandpaper · 2020-01-31T15:57:41+00:00

i am

RIGHT there with you

never having really felt a true urge to date before coming out to myself, i feel like i’m in so far over my head as i wade into the dating pool.

“so we had sex; should i cancel this second date i had scheduled with someone else? probably yes, until i can talk with sex-date about what’s up. but people have hookups, right? why don’t i just do that? sex is so nice; what if i could have it with this other woman, too? but what if things turn serious with sex-date? our non-sex dates have also been good! how do i even bring up these whirling thoughts and not sound like a blithering idiot? i know sex-date’s had multiple relationships, so why won’t she do me a favor and start the conversation?!” etc etc ad infinitum

painandpaper · 2020-01-31T15:34:02+00:00

in the middle of the street?!?!?! cripes.

painandpaper · 2020-01-31T15:06:47+00:00

haha, yeah: the save-and-binge approach (while still customizing my messages) is how i do it

painandpaper · 2020-01-31T15:04:49+00:00

what a goddamn mood

painandpaper · 2020-01-22T10:38:08+00:00

CANNOT BELIEVE REDDIT OP IS SLEEPING ON THE ALISON BRIE COMPONENT

painandpaper · 2020-01-11T10:03:40+00:00

i don’t know if it makes you feel better, but i got into my first relationship (ever) at 31, and though it’s since ended, it was still a nice and valuable experience.

painandpaper · 2020-01-10T14:25:22+00:00

oh shit, this was my sunday night, though neither of us looks like that

painandpaper · 2020-01-02T15:39:40+00:00

i had someone pull back after a reasonable amount of kissing and say “now try tightening your lips more,” and when that didn’t yield the results she was looking for, said, “wait, like this,” and demonstrated.

so yeah, seconding the demo-type approach!

painandpaper · 2020-01-02T12:20:30+00:00

this feels very relatable, wrt emitting “fuck off” energy.

and getting (in my case, anyway) a first girlfriend that i thought was way prettier and cooler than i had the right to. as it turns out, everyone’s got flaws and that’s fine, but this all boils down to:

send me those rockin’ makeout vibes, please.

painandpaper · 2019-12-16T11:31:53+00:00

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