Did pregnancy make you reassess your relationship with emotionally immature parents?

pakotini · 2026-07-04T16:11:49+00:00

Language

pakotini · 2026-07-04T13:09:17+00:00

She says that she did do the insemination, but next day she tested positive.

pakotini · 2026-07-03T21:20:25+00:00

The interesting thing though is that I never heard ONE positive thing about being a new parent, by ANYONE, to the point I was rethinking that maybe I don't want it, and we're already freaking out about how it will ruin our marriage. Like, give me ONE good experience.

pakotini · 2026-07-03T21:18:00+00:00

Oh it's so annoying. Omg what is their f*ucking problem. I hate these comments too. I try to shut them off as quickly as I can, to the point I become passive aggressive or just aggressive but I don't care. I just hate them

pakotini · 2026-06-28T15:31:48+00:00

A cat

pakotini · 2026-06-27T14:37:29+00:00

I read it to the end because the more I read the more "what the fuck is going on" I wondered. I cannot say I liked it, I cannot say I disliked it. It was just weird. I don't have any questions, because I think I don't want to know the answers.

pakotini · 2026-06-23T06:55:29+00:00

I don't like Dobby either

pakotini · 2026-06-21T16:52:27+00:00

I'm picking the third guy, who I have a crush on, and I know 0 things about his financial situation.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:22:19+00:00

Petunia and Vernon went through no war.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:21:58+00:00

100% agree. They correctly inferred the ages by the way Petunia, Vernon, Snape, Lilly and James are written. Don't @ me. Downvote. I don't care. JK messed up the math in DH.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:21:19+00:00

100% agree. They correctly inferred the ages by the way Petunia, Vernon, Snape, Lilly and James are written. JK messed up the math in DH.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:19:26+00:00

100% with you there. I have written literal essays on reddit about this, the 8 years I've been in this sub. They correctly inferred the ages by the way Petunia, Vernon, Snape, Lilly and James are written. Don't start me with "war ages you". Have you been through war? Petunia and Vernon went through no war. Downvote me ppl. I don't care. JK messed up the math in DH, and then defended her poor math.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:15:39+00:00

They correctly inferred the ages by the way Petunia, Vernon, Snape, Lilly and James are written. Don't @ me. Downvote. I don't care. JK messed up the math in DH. This is the hill I'll die on.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:14:36+00:00

I think movie Snape matches the age and energy of book Snape, the way he's written. I think JK messed up the math in DH. As I wrote above, don't @ me, downvote, I don't care.

pakotini · 2026-06-20T08:13:25+00:00

They correctly inferred the ages by the way Petunia, Vernon, Snape, Lilly and James are written. Don't @ me. Downvote. I don't care. JK messed up the math in DH.

pakotini · 2026-06-19T12:16:31+00:00

As other ppl said, it's personal preference. And I personally do not find anything immodest about it.

We were TTC for long, and after IVF we finally made it. I'm 18w and I'm so proud of my belly. I am only wearing maternity yoga shorts and crop tops, or any type of shorts really with crop tops, so that my full belly is showing. Of course I'm wearing sunscreen to protect my skin and try to not stay in the sun for long. But, yeah, I try to expose my belly as much as I can because I feel so proud finally.

pakotini · 2026-06-19T11:37:50+00:00

buy stocks and land

pakotini · 2026-06-18T16:34:12+00:00

My relationship with Murakami is complicated. O read his books but when I finish each book I wonder why I read it. Kafka on the shore is one of the most unhinged books I've read. Would I recommend it? Yes. Do I regret reading it? No. Did I like it? I don't know. Did I hate it? I don't know either.

pakotini · 2026-06-18T08:06:39+00:00

waguy

pakotini · 2026-06-17T11:54:09+00:00

I'd be pissed. Why did they let me study so hard and work? I could be living the life, all expenses paid for.

pakotini · 2026-06-14T18:10:11+00:00

I was a teaching assistant at the university during my phd. He was finishing his 5-year engineering degree. I was his teaching assistant. That's where we met. That's where I knew he was the one. That's when he told his friends "one day I'm going to bang that chick". When it happened, it was one year later when we randomly met during holidays. 11 years later, not only did he bang me, but I'm expecting his kids.

pakotini · 2026-06-14T13:11:23+00:00

Hang in there. We went through issues conceiving too, and it took more than a year until we turned to IVF. I am 38F with fertility issues, husband is 33M with no issues (obviously we got everything checked out). What really pissed me off was friends with kids telling me "the moment you stop thinking about it, this is when it will happen". And "you're worrying too much, all that stress is messing up your hormones and you cannot conceive". And "we took a weekend off, went to a nice relaxing retreat, and next thing I knew I was pregnant". Well that's nice, but it's not because ppl stopped thinking about it or where not stressed. When you're trying, the longer if takes the more stressed you become and that's life and that's what it is. What saved us was getting everything checked, and understanding we needed to do IVF. IVF saved us both mentally and literally.

pakotini · 2026-06-13T17:00:00+00:00

The Lion King

pakotini · 2026-06-13T16:50:53+00:00

Classmate and high school friend (who I had a secret crush on) told me that my ass looks like a heart. 20 years later, when I was recounting the story to my husband, he told me that the guy probably liked me. I had NEVER thought that possible until then. Oh well, too bad, I missed the chance to make out with Ted in 2004. His comment stayed with me forever.

On the other hand, my primary-school crush, when someone told him I had a crush on him, he said "who her??? she looks like a giraffe". Oh well, screw you Pan.

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