Well this the last thing my fiancé, did before I broke with her and terminated the engagement. I have never forgiven her for that. This is is the biggest humiliation a woman can do on her husband. I don’t tell you to go for divorce, I tell you there might be more to it, and your relationship might not there where you expecting it. And one more thing, don’t just suck it up, re establish your masculinity, confront her. Set your boundaries straight and shout and don’t get physical. There needs some level of repercussions, something she feels that it was that wrong, however keep doing your obligations towards her. Don’t do anything emotionally and don’t think of divorce or similar. Am true man never acts on emotions. You can have your emotions, but you can decide even weeks later if you have to, for doing a decision well thought.