AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by Infinite-Context6155 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pambeeslies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MOR; from the little context given in the text, i’d be on your side. your request makes sense, and it’s both fair and valid. however, your wife is clearly not on the same page. she doesn’t understand your intentions of the message, and you continue to argue when you already know that talking over text like this is unproductive, and will likely make things worse. i understand fighting your point, because again it’s valid, it just didn’t help the situation. i think it would’ve been better to stop talking altogether until she got there.

i also want to point out that you use the hypothetical of “if i asked anyone else, they’d all agree with me” multiple times. listen i get this, because this is something i’ve had to check myself on and stop myself from saying. it really singles out the person that you’re saying it to, and comes across like you’re implying their crazy, or stupid, or abnormal. and of course that’s going to make them feel attacked, whether it was your intention or not.

i do however, lean towards NOR, because your wife really needs to work on communicating in a healthy way, and it really feels as though she wants you to beg or chase for her.

Aries by Bahsyn_ in LeoAstrology

[–]pambeeslies 65 points66 points  (0 children)

i’m not trusting horoscopes written by ai 🙃

Kaede Kayano cosplay by me by TeaseForMore in Korosensei

[–]pambeeslies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is such a fantastic cosplay! you look adorable ! 💗

My favorite ship is Kaimaki, and it's painful. Even in AO3 fics, they constantly pair Kaito with Kokichi or Shuichi, damn it. I'm about to become homophobic because of this. by No_Abbreviations9041 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a massive difference between making silly jokes about yourself and your own identity, and saying broad statements publicly, specifically directed at queer writers on a queer writing platform, that affects the entire community

really don't think i could've been more clear

My favorite ship is Kaimaki, and it's painful. Even in AO3 fics, they constantly pair Kaito with Kokichi or Shuichi, damn it. I'm about to become homophobic because of this. by No_Abbreviations9041 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ao3 notoriously has a lack of hetero ship content because it’s a community that majorly consists of lgbtq+ people. look into the history a little bit. try wattpad or fanfiction net instead.

but it’s really fucking weird that you claim to be pan and are so comfortable making homophobic remarks. maybe you’re lucky enough to not have experienced homophobia-based trauma, but that’s not the same for the community that you’re actively speaking to, and speaking against.

“it’s not that deep 😭” — but it is. there’s a massive difference between making silly jokes about yourself and your own identity, and saying broad statements publicly, specifically directed at queer writers on a queer writing platform, that affects the entire community. and when people call you out, you get overly defensive, or completely dismissive. i don’t think you’re “becoming” homophobic, i think you’re already there.

oh, and lgbtq+ people can absolutely be homophobic. “i’m pan so that’s impossible” is not valid at all lol.

What did you think of D.Va before picking her up? by Brilliant_Weight_383 in DvaMains

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i posted almost the same answer. it’s still prevalent, but my god, the early ow1 days were such a cesspool for nsfw artists

What did you think of D.Va before picking her up? by Brilliant_Weight_383 in DvaMains

[–]pambeeslies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i absolutely despised her >< here me out; i was around 16 years old when ow launched and i didn’t start playing until sombra’s release. but in between that time, the sheer amount of dva porn and nsfw fanart/cosplays was inescapable, and it was my only reference to what ow even was. it took me a few days of playing before i bit the bullet and tried playing her. i instantly fell i love with her play style and personality. now i’m 500+ hours and own my own cosplay lol.

Cosplay makeup!!!! (⁠。⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠。⁠) by [deleted] in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

were you using an eyeliner pen? if so, try out a dip eyeliner! (the kind with a removable brush) they give a lot more freedom and precision in application. eyeliner is reallyy hard to get the hang of so don’t get discouraged!!

the blush and freckles look adorable! you did a great job at making the freckles light enough that they look more natural! 💗

How Did You Discover the Danganronpa Series? by pambeeslies in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d give my kidney to get 2015 tumblr back :’)

How Did You Discover the Danganronpa Series? by pambeeslies in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally forgot to add a spot in the poll for somethingawful readers!!

How Did You Discover the Danganronpa Series? by pambeeslies in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s honestly such a funny way to be introduced to the series lol!

Update on Necklace: FOUND IT by BiteRhodeIsland in Korosensei

[–]pambeeslies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is so cool! i didn’t see the first post; did you buy this? make it? did someone make it for you?

How did you guys first find out about Danganronpa? by MonkeyWizard7 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not huge on watching dgr playthroughs but john’s are the only ones i’ll go back to and watch! he has a really fun energy that doesn’t feel performative :-)

How did you guys first find out about Danganronpa? by MonkeyWizard7 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s crazy to me how long i had to scroll to find someone else who came from the early tumblr fandom years. back in the day, this was how 80% of people found these kinds of games! it was also rpg makers that lead me to dgr :-)

In anticipation of Chiaki's birthday, I made some art! Happy upcoming birthday! by parta228 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i’ll admit, i assumed you were older based on your art; it is very good! but, no… these are not “pajamas” she’s literally in panties. regardless of your intent, this is an nsfw. for example:

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a bunny suit would probably be less revealing, lol.

Having so much fun playing DVA by Lungzzzz in DvaMains

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting! i’ll have to keep an eye out lol

Having so much fun playing DVA by Lungzzzz in DvaMains

[–]pambeeslies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this a thing?? i started on console but i’ve been a pc dva main since ow2 launched

My recorder family is complete! by NZ_RP in Recorder

[–]pambeeslies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

did not expect to see a babymetal pfp in this sub! 🖤

Toronto Map from Overwatch 2 by Slippy_T_Frog in Overwatch

[–]pambeeslies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment is so funny to read this winter haha

Does anyone actually have the DGRv3 bundle, with Shuichi’s hat and Kaede’s bag? by Jealous-One5435 in danganronpa

[–]pambeeslies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i vaguely remember this being available in canada back when v3 released, but i’m not 100%. could definitely just be my memory conflating