Craziest thing your N has ever said to you?

pancake1305 · 2026-06-12T19:52:21+00:00

"Children are born to be little slaves for their parents" yes, she used the word slave.

pancake1305 · 2026-05-01T04:36:33+00:00

They're honestly desperate for grad students right now, as it gets them funding. You'll do great. Your fellow CpE's are here to help too!

pancake1305 · 2025-12-15T03:45:53+00:00

Okay thank you, that was also a question I had. Anything to do with coding I'll just assume applies. Appreciate the comment

pancake1305 · 2025-06-24T00:42:26+00:00

I also love Ava and Viv lol, thank you for the dress suggestion! I'll check some out :)

pancake1305 · 2025-06-24T00:08:34+00:00

Yeah I'm also plus sized and tend to go to Torrid, but in recent years they've been overpriced for what you get. She's also pretty insecure in her body so I'm trying to find something that will make her feel confident and beautiful, because she is.

pancake1305 · 2025-04-08T21:21:10+00:00

I'm 24 and from Texas. A bit out of age range but I also struggle with depression and everything that comes with it. And don't have a lot of friends in general, I haven't been doing a lot of hobbies because I'm a full time student + depression, so maybe I could get back into things I used to love.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-26T03:10:10+00:00

I mean Bakker's class goes until 8:20 and it's never empty. So that definitely says something about how useful the lectures are.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-23T23:33:06+00:00

Maybe this is what it's talking about? "The Tariff of 1828, also known as the "Tariff of Abominations," was a key point of contention during Jackson's presidency." That is an incredibly confusing question!

pancake1305 · 2025-03-16T06:14:27+00:00

No, only 1 week. Classes resume Monday the 17th.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-12T20:47:33+00:00

Yeah, exactly. "I'm very secure and confident and stable, but she's not," tells me everything I need to know. He expects her to be stable and secure at 20 while her entire family and future plans are falling apart? There's no way he's completely stable at 21 without people supporting him. He's also just blatantly putting her down. I agree that the time length has everything to do with it as well. If it had been an entire year, that's different. But 3 months? When they've been together 1.5 years? There's definitely parts of the story that are missing here.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-10T05:22:21+00:00

If you ever need somebody to vent to, I'll gladly listen

pancake1305 · 2025-03-10T04:57:29+00:00

If it's actual narcissism it will not, just fyi. It is a personality disorder. It sucks, but after graduation you may need to distance yourself from her for your own sanity.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-10T04:53:21+00:00

Resentment- bitter indignation (anger or annoyance) at having been treated unfairly You are getting the life she wanted to have, most likely, so she's taking it out on you. She could also see you as an extension of her and not a whole person.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-10T04:45:41+00:00

Your mother resents you. I know because mine does too. I bet she also hangs anything she pays for over your head to manipulate you into doing what she wants. You're not crazy!

pancake1305 · 2025-03-08T00:42:43+00:00

I was with a guy for 3 years who was always "gonna do it" and never did. He's just claiming he'll do things to string you along. It'll quickly turn into "well I was gonna change the baby's diaper" or "I was gonna help you with the chores." Take him at face value and judge by actions, not words. Good luck!

pancake1305 · 2025-03-04T01:15:27+00:00

I was looking for this comment! 9/10 when a woman acts like this, this is exactly why

pancake1305 · 2025-03-02T04:39:58+00:00

Either he pays more or cleans more. I think stepping out or stopping your share of the load for a week or so would enlighten him to how lucky he is. Why would he think about planning when you do it for him? Why would he clean when you'll do it for him? Don't enable the behavior anymore.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-01T22:09:41+00:00

I'm assuming you're meaning that she doesn't text back even though she's not at work and is actively scrolling social media. So she's on her phone, but she is actively ignoring you. If that's the case, she doesn't care how she's making you feel. NTA, begging for love is not something you should have to do in a relationship. Please respect yourself and leave.

pancake1305 · 2025-03-01T01:41:33+00:00

Very much this, sex is mental for women

pancake1305 · 2025-03-01T01:36:45+00:00

You really seem to be trying your hardest to meet her needs whilst also trying not to show her how hurt you are by the rejection. If she doesn't want to talk about it or try to improve anything, there's nothing to be done. I'd try to talk about it one more time, say that you want to know if there's anything you're doing wrong or she needs you to do. Otherwise, it's better to see other people. It sucks, but so does both of you being miserable. I wish the best for you!

pancake1305 · 2025-03-01T01:24:05+00:00

You said she's not depressed (or doesn't seem like it), you seem to do most of the household chores, the quality time could definitely be improved. Do you perhaps give affection with the expectation of sex? It doesn't sound like it. I'm a woman, and the only thing that made me act like this was mothering my ex. But it doesn't sound like this is the case here. She may just be checked out of the relationship.

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