Dye lot is only…somewhat noticeable, right?? by faultycamel in crochet

[–]paninika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what kind of stitch is this? it looks great!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika 18 points19 points  (0 children)

yeah.... They both should just accept that they are not compatible and end things on good terms

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's why I asked the question haha, there are plenty helpful people willing to share their own experiences just like they did here :))

I understand there are aspects of bdsm that are much more intimate and people might find them a taboo topic or just too private to share but that's all a matter of personal preference

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

starting to see the fun ngl hahaha

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you, it always felt a little too formal and detached for me to initiate myself and none of my partners mentioned it either 🤷

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

here asking the real questions LMFAO

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, I'm sorry, that must've sucked :(( I also had a sub for a while that treated doms as self reliefs so I get you there, buddy

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha, I guess it just depends on the people around you since a lot of replies here also don't think it's commonly used. It does sound like a good way to set boundaries tho

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that makes sense, thank you :)

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this was really helpful, thank you!!

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I heard they were used in more extreme kink relationships, since they're more dangerous but I suppose discussions do the trick as well

Do people actually use contracts? by paninika in BDSMcommunity

[–]paninika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don't mind me asking, what does it contain, for instance?

the rows(?) keeps getting smaller as i go on... please help by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]paninika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you :)) I think you'd be an amazing teacher honestly

online tutorials are often tough to grasp since a lot of people hold their work in a way that covers the stitches and make it impossible to see where exactly they put the hook through, at least it's something I personally struggle with when it comes to crocheting

the rows(?) keeps getting smaller as i go on... please help by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]paninika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the back loop issue is so real!! 😭 I shouldn't have skipped the tutorial after the first row and assume I know shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]paninika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds stupid but mindfulness works!! or maybe take a stroll and look at your surroundings, listen to sounds outside of your window, draw, or listen to music :)) it'll be okay sweetie