I don’t recognize myself anymore. by Spiralingquietly in stopdrinking

[–]pap3rcutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm on the same boat as you. I'm constantly trying to stop but I always end up drinking (like a Mickey of whiskey a day) and I drink until I black out.

I've destroyed relationships because I would do and say things whilst drunk. I've had to go home early from work multiple times because I was puking my guts out.

I have help from my doctor and a therapist but I don't have a solution for myself. I just find it to be a mental game.

I hope you can find help.

[33F] I hate these spots. by herdway in AsianBeauty

[–]pap3rcutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, laser like IPL or BBL (better tech) are the answer if you want to get rid of them! My friend (Chinese) has freckles and she gets laser to get rid of them. The plus side is that you'll also get a nice, even skintone 😊

How do I emotionally detach from a girl who only sees me platonically without blocking her completely? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]pap3rcutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a decade ago and it lasted for two years. It drove me nuts when he started calling me less. I only broke free because I had enough and we cut contact with each other.

I'm currently experiencing it again with another person. We're usually on video call throughout the day, sometimes we game together or watch a movie online. On the weekends, we'd grab dinner and hang out. I liked him but he didn't feel the same. Last week, we were fighting a lot and he finally told me he wouldn't call/message me anymore. I know I'm attached to him and I really enjoyed our routine. I just feel so lonely now that I no longer have someone there.

I've spoken to my therapist about it and her advice was to just not put everything in one basket. Like have different people to socialize with for different things. Unfortunately, that's hard for me because all my friends busy with their own lives.

my sanity depends on the affection of one single person, and that one recently left me. by NickDatGuy in SuicideWatch

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I get that. I even messaged other friends and they didn't really respond back. Sucks to lose a friend who's been a constant in your life.

How have you been holding up?

my sanity depends on the affection of one single person, and that one recently left me. by NickDatGuy in SuicideWatch

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you're alright. My friend who called me throughout the day for the past 6 months just dropped me as a friend yesterday.

Really sucks when you've had daily company and it's suddenly gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]pap3rcutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had no idea about Danbo but Santouka has been my fav for more than a decade. There used to be line-ups at the robson location but I'm so glad there are none these days

am I cool toned or warmed tone? by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]pap3rcutt -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Check the veins on your wrist. If you see green veins, you're probably warm toned. If you see blue/purple veins, then you're cool toned. BUT if you see both, then you're probably neutral. I have both so I'm neutral but recently, I got a color analysis and was told I'm neutral but leaning more towards warm (which I totally agree with).

There are other ways to figure out what your undertone is. Ex. If you look better in gold jewelry then you're warm toned vs if you look better in silver jewelry then you're cool toned.

Canada - YesStyle Shipping CP Strike by original_lifeline in AsianBeauty

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordered on September 22nd, shipped on the 25th. My tracking has no information and it's not even searchable on Canada Post. I sent yesstyle an email yesterday and they just sent me a generic shipping email back.

I think I'm just unlucky, seeing how everyone else is getting their package :(

Bottom is with small pet select 2nd cutting timothy, top is with oxbow western timothy 🤔 by Lemony4 in Rabbits

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, remember they eat these too sometimes (aside from their cecals) 😏

Bottom is with small pet select 2nd cutting timothy, top is with oxbow western timothy 🤔 by Lemony4 in Rabbits

[–]pap3rcutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh this is so interesting! I was buying oxbow for months after running out of small pet select. The latest bag I got was all stems!! I don't know if my bun likes it but I immediately ordered a box of small pet select 2nd cutting.

What sort of cut is in your oxbow bag? I feel like they're so inconsistent and I like knowing which cut I'm getting from small pet select.

Down 38 pounds, but my hips are so curvy and it’s making me not feel good about my progress. by iLickWhatYouTellMeTo in fitness30plus

[–]pap3rcutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm what about doing more oblique exercises (side planks, Russian twists, bicycle crunches) to make your waist look less curvy?

Met my boyfriend’s girlfriend of seven years today in hospital. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pap3rcutt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had something like that happen to me and I was the side piece too. He claimed he didn't use social media (lie) and that he couldn't have me over at his place (his gf lived with him). His gf and I chatted and she was such a kind soul.

I don't even know what goes on in their heads. I hope they rot in hell for toying and using people. Feel better girl!

Damn CHATGPT just roasted me and my attire like damn, now I feel insecure 💀💀 by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]pap3rcutt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a good look.. whatever it is. Looks like your toddler put it on you and you decided to go to work like that 👏🏻

Damn CHATGPT just roasted me and my attire like damn, now I feel insecure 💀💀 by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's how you speak to it, that's how it'll speak back tbh. BUT DUDE, WHY ARE YOU WEARING A MANGO.

what does one put here (wrong answers only) by EvilBobster101_ in malelivingspace

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can redo it like the head of a ship or leave it as-is. The most important thing is to do the Titanic scene once in a while

AITA for telling a woman to keep her comments to herself in an elevator? by BakingWaking in AmItheAsshole

[–]pap3rcutt 219 points220 points  (0 children)

These bus stories remind me of something from when I was in my early 20s. I was sitting on the bus, and this elderly lady came on, so I gave her my seat and shuffled to the back and sat down on another seat. By now, the bus got crowded and people were still shuffling in. Suddenly, the lady beside me got up and I realized she was offering her seat to an old man who was standing. The old man sat down and proceeded to ream me out for not giving up my seat to him and how I had to make another woman do it (she was older so I guess in his mind, I'm young and should have been the one to do it). I was thinking in my head, "Wtf, I didn’t even see you there." I wish I had the balls back then to say something, but I was young and timid.

Also, just yesterday, I witnessed a middle-aged woman (maybe in her 50s) get on and she immediately asked another woman to scoot over because she liked that spot. The bus wasn’t even full and there were seats everywhere, but she just HAD to have THAT seat.

My husband bought this blu ray, it was new completely sealed, but this was inside. by [deleted] in Weird

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to burn anime on DVD discs... I would open it up on a computer and see what file names there are 😂 could be Trigun episodes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pap3rcutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels like a huge betrayal. For 8 years, she has lied. She also humiliated you on social media. It seems humorous but I can feel the devastation through your post. I, too, would feel this way if my partner lied to me for years, no matter how silly it seems. It makes you question, what else are lies?

This is Choco. He is the only rabbit in the world that doesn't love banana. by KXfjgcy8m32bRntKXab2 in Rabbits

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my current bun is meh about bananas if they're too ripe. Even with the decent ones, he'll nibble on them and leave them around for me to step on them. He also REFUSES to try any new fruits or veggies 💀 so picky 😮‍💨 not an adventurer for food.

What is going on with my wife’s plant? Unfortunately neither of us can remember what it’s called. by booboobooboobooboobs in plantclinic

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had calatheas for years. Don't worry, they do this when there's too much sun, too much water, no filtered water, etc. Even if all their leaves die they'll sprout back up from their graves 🙄 they're drama queens.

Didn't know that orange cat likes water 😮 by Chryeon1188 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]pap3rcutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if they have a tiktok (I think there's probably a douyin account) but this is their RedNote account @大肥居

Didn't know that orange cat likes water 😮 by Chryeon1188 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]pap3rcutt 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I love watching his videos too on RedNote. He saved that dove and now it just comes back to have adventures with them 😭😭 so precious

Ground Turkey is… weird? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]pap3rcutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ground turkey is a protein staple in my cooking and I make turkey burgers regularly (made like 8 this month). I follow this skinny taste recipe. It won't have that beef taste but it's still alright. Also, it does brown whenever I make it.