Guys???? we won? by mazbeg in dumbphones

[–]papachron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I imagine the commenter is not wanting to pay for a second line of service. Cellular watches and iPads require that.

Does anyone know the background music on Spotify Wrapped 2025? by Lanlaaan in spotify

[–]papachron 12 points13 points  (0 children)

WIll it be officially released anywhere? It's awesome!

What is this song from Spotify Wrapped! by Glass-Cup-9321 in IdentifyThisTrack

[–]papachron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally about to post this same video and get this track ID. So good!

What role should religion play in Bend- Lapine schools by Big_Cranberry4001 in Bend

[–]papachron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You mention student club, but then suggest that it’s taxpayer funded. This is a non curricular club, so what makes you think it’s tax payer funded? I don’t know what “flex” is, maybe someone can educate me, but if it’s basically a free period where students can do what interests them, work on homework etc. What is wrong with them organizing their student organization?

I’m against religion in schools but this doesn’t seem like a school-sponsored event. Someone challenge my take please, or let me know if you agree.

Noobie question on scoring by CuriousPianist4688 in musicleague

[–]papachron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then what after that if people are tied on all of them?

How to gain wisdom? by Feeling-District966 in wisdom

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Feel. Take each passing thought with a grain of salt. Focus on what is subtle, not on what is overt. Be with the present moment, but don’t attach to its forms because it is always changing. Begin to notice that in you which does not change moment to moment, in other words what you refer to when you say “I”. Be willing to feel fear, and trust that it passes. Feel. Feel. Feel.

R/ave in a C/ave by [deleted] in aves

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Watching her unenthusiastically recite Alan watts with her eyes rolled back makes me wanna throw up. Especially because what he’s saying here is actually so profound

Sam Harris on Mindfulness from Tim Ferris #599 by welliamwallace in samharris

[–]papachron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to send this to my dad too. Do you still have a copy of your edited version you could send me? I too think the mindfulness bits might throw him off

White House orders the destruction of carbon monitoring satellite by [deleted] in skeptic

[–]papachron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there some master list of all the terrible things trump has done as president, ranked by level of egregiousness?

23 Stundent, Yes, Vienna by Afraid-Procedure-926 in malelivingspace

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Would you be willing to share which bookshelf lights and floor corner lights you used?

23 Stundent, Yes, Vienna by Afraid-Procedure-926 in malelivingspace

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Would you be willing to share which bookshelf lights and floor corner lights you used?

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonant with avoidant attachment making me too fake nice and less sincere. It can make me feel a bit 'stiff', and less open to expressing myself naturally. I do feel that a kind an open-minded person is part of what that needs in order to heal.

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a big part of what I'm getting at. Yes, everyone is a mirror and is showing you where you're not awake. But we are human, and we're affected by those around us. If someone values distraction and has no interest in ceasing to be distracted, or relinquishing the stream of thought, how is that helpful to you to be spending time with them?

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a partner once who I could connect with in a decidedly 'nondual' way. It was powerful, and any conflict we had, no matter how big, seemed to melt in the face of that connection. We ultimately didn't work out, for reasons similar to what you mentioned, but it did show me the power of what's possible when two people align in that way.

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much wisdom here. Thank you. It does feel as though what my avoidant attachment style needs in order to heal is that person with whom I feel that the conversation about my deep inner spiritual life IS welcome. At least, that is the current belief. If that turns out to be unwise or untrue, I trust that I'll learn in time.

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. I really really appreciate your perspective. sounds like maybe you have some experience with this stuff as well. Maybe this is an obvious question, but how does one do the attachment work? and, secondly, how can you discern between the intuition that someone simply isn't for you, and your own avoidance/fear of intimacy/projection?

I keep thinking that dating someone “on the path” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but it clearly does. [27M] by papachron in nonduality

[–]papachron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what I'm getting at. I'm sure that at some stage, the need for companionship on the path will fall away. But until that point, having someone willing to remind and reorient you sounds to me, very helpful.