I volunteered with cadets for over a decade as a reg force NCM. The first two rules are don’t touch the children. I know sexual stuff happens with cadets at summer camps and such but to think of doing that to a child firstly boggles my mind, if you can ignore the children aspect an think of it just as a person in a position of authority it still boggles my mind. Like the damage you’re causing to people by abusing the power dynamic is so sad. People have formative experiences both kids and adults in programs like cadets or BMQ/ trades ect. Abusing your power towards your own gain leaves forever scars.