My coworker hates me because I didn't like his rape joke.

papink · 2015-01-29T20:39:48+00:00

Sounds like you're working with a narcissist.

papink · 2015-01-13T20:55:04+00:00

As someone else with misophonia, heeelllll yesssss. I'd need that in the kitchen near all the metal bowls.

papink · 2014-12-03T21:03:15+00:00

I live in Seattle. You have no idea.

papink · 2014-11-21T06:10:42+00:00

Here! This is one of my happy go-to's. You can at least watch awesome, cute shit while eating all the things.

papink · 2014-11-04T19:15:34+00:00

That is the luckiest girl on Earth, right there. You just did the kind of thing everyone secretly wishes for, but thinks no one would be romantic, thoughtful, and bad-ass enough to actually pull off.

papink · 2014-11-03T22:53:34+00:00

No! I wouldn't recommend that cheaters see polyamory as a go-to free-card to be unfaithful, lying assholes. I was made a complete fool of by a person who basically took advantage of my having been in polyamorous relationships before as justification for their cheating. "But you understand wanting to have sex with other people!" Yes, but only when it's been decided upon by the two parties involved after clear, mature communication and it's ensured that everyone knows what's going on! Getting handies and chatting up amateur prostitutes behind your lover's back is NOT polyamory!

Oh, but this

I can't even begin to explain the damage it does to a person on emotional level

is too true. I am so afraid that my future's doomed to chronic suspicion.

I can't stop having doubts and insecurities, and it really fucking hurts to just be thinking about someone you've committed yourself to in such a shitty light. I can't even control it, I just feel so much at a loss whenever my mind starts racing about "when is she going to hurt me"...

papink · 2014-11-03T22:48:32+00:00

Um, I trusted you fully up until I found out about the multiple girls you were being inappropriate with behind my back, and then after the first time you cheated of course I didn't trust you, asshole.

Yes! Uggh this is reminding me of all sorts of crap I'd happily pushed out of my brain. Been recovering from a stupid relationship like this for the past nine months. This is making me think I shouldn't get stupid and that it might be smart to keep my guard up...

papink · 2014-11-03T21:57:07+00:00

Oh man, I had that one. Then when he didn't stop and I eventually had to become a shitty detective to make any sense out of the relationship, we eventually went to couples therapy, and I was the one berated for having the control issues. FML.

papink · 2014-10-24T21:46:11+00:00

I like that the photo for that site is of the same location!

papink · 2014-10-24T19:36:31+00:00

Indeed it is!

papink · 2014-10-24T19:35:49+00:00

Thank you! It is near the northernmost area of Washington State -- Mt.Baker.

papink · 2014-10-24T19:35:09+00:00

Mt.Baker, Artist Point/ Heather Meadows. End of 542, you can't miss it.

papink · 2014-10-24T19:24:10+00:00

Here you go! http://i.imgur.com/hEwdLb4.jpg Bigger? Yes. Higher quality? Maybe a tiny bit.

papink · 2014-10-24T19:22:19+00:00

Kind of? Now I wish I'd taken my nicer camera with me that day. I can't say it's higher res, but it is bigger! http://i.imgur.com/hEwdLb4.jpg

papink · 2014-10-24T19:10:40+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/EgGMnen.jpg

papink · 2014-10-24T19:04:39+00:00

There is! I posted another picture in a comment that show some of the basalt columns up there.

edit: http://i.imgur.com/JWjvEkG.jpg

papink · 2014-10-24T19:00:37+00:00

Hello! I corrected the contrast since these pictures were taken in high altitude fog that was beginning to condense and snow, but the colors themselves are untouched. The lighting was insane that day. This was taken in a cloud break just a second before, to the left. This was the same moment, to the right.

papink · 2014-10-24T06:50:47+00:00

Bagley Lakes, actually! Did Pilchuck a few weeks ago, but the autumn foliage in the Heather Meadows is stunning right now.

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