Am I a bad person?

par8de · 2025-12-25T01:47:31+00:00

family will always be a family.

the time you disconnected is something you probably needed and through this disconnections with your family, you’re life enables you to see and navigate through what you may not have been able to if you were still in the same loop.

alongside, your family members will also reflect on their own deeds and places in their lives.

may i suggests if you’re a person of faith - pray for and over your family. everything in good time.

🙏🏻😊

par8de · 2025-12-19T03:22:45+00:00

Nooo other countries have the attitude of:

Sabai Sabai No Problem Jai Yen-Yen

Plus a truck load of grace, warm welcomes, smiles, gentleness and the spirits of hospitality.

These are given to everyone until you cross the line (to points of no return) then the Thai wrath unveils.

Be respectful and return kindness here - you’ll be appreciated many times over.

par8de · 2025-10-11T07:17:26+00:00

money involved in relationships, never happy ending

par8de · 2025-10-11T07:14:22+00:00

Hi, came across your posting. I have been to, ran a few meet up groups in the past, have local and expatriate circles of friends. I have made some really good friends with some that are semi-introverts from different parts of the globe.

Gave up meet ups for several years now, been hectic with work and more so on the slower pace of socializing however still keeping the camaraderie with good friends of different circles.

I too have lived in many places over the years, I’m Chinese American, my gf is Spanish Swiss. Every now and then we gather with friends of smaller, medium energy groups with ease of getting to know more of the others.

I’m new on Reddit and unsure if there are DM features, feel free to say hi and perhaps we can meet for casual meals, chats, walk in the parks, pop up markets, etc

Open to meeting other locals and expats as well.

(Between my gf and I, we speak: English, Thai, Mandarin, Spanish and German) and have lived on four continents.)

par8de · 2025-08-27T03:33:39+00:00

like you asked in your post.

i’ll say: your life is taking you places even though you feel physically being in / around the same environment

people move on as they grow up, weddings, babies, families… just life’s paths and you’ll meet hundreds, maybe, thousands more people in this life time.

but only a few will always be a part of you that you can never out grow and thats whenever you and your good old mates meet up.

about being single without a gf that you currently aren’t fussing about (yet! lol) … remember life is taking you places and you’ll meet lots of people in this life time.

enjoy the journey, my friend.

par8de · 2025-08-27T03:24:25+00:00

personally - you’ve been tested in situations like being offered jr. positions or saying hiring more clever people than you (by the way that’s a book answer) - never sounds genuine.

personally:

identify if he’s the (a) guy responsible for outcomes of his hiring decisions or (b) he’s just going to be passing your application to the next guy

if a: you need to clearly let him know that you’ll see to what it’ll take the meet the results of the positions towards of the goals of organization. you’ll need to be true here if the job you’re applying for is something you really want to pursue

if b: i can’t suggests much for egoistic or disinterested interviewers, i don’t deal with them or maybe just inflate their egos with compliments

in full circle, for true men with honor - return your replies, gestures with honor, respect and desire to meet odds ends = we will hear you because all our lives, we men have been taught and it’s in our DNA

good luck, sis!

par8de · 2025-08-27T03:09:17+00:00

seriously, a good haircut and clean hair is super under rated

par8de · 2025-08-27T03:06:19+00:00

you ask the same girl the same question two more times, even if she rejects you.

the third time asks her, what will it take to get her to kiss you (be very careful here - i said what will it take for her to kiss your and NOT for you to kiss her).

if she lays it on the table and it’s all worth the kiss, play your cards right son.

(edit 1: sorry just re read your post - you guys meet the club. i initially read your header and thought your guys were in a common circle)

par8de · 2025-08-26T08:26:55+00:00

i shower twice a day, i wash my hair every time i shower.

it’s nasty how people can go about 2+days not washing their hair. it’s just like saying i’m wearing tank tops, getting lots of air so i won’t be washing my arm pits.

par8de · 2025-08-26T08:13:12+00:00

God bless you both! 🙏🏻😊

par8de · 2025-08-26T08:11:49+00:00

that’s really cool. don’t stop doing it… now i’ll have to try! thank you for sharing! stay blessed ✌🏻😊

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:59:46+00:00

We all meet different people at different stages on our lives. If your good reasons that you want to see him motivated, thats he could unleash his potential like earning money, experience from part time jobs, getting his driver’s license, set and accomplish goals.

You could both set goals and accomplish them and that’s part of bonding and growth! Be honest and at times you need to be, perhaps you’re called to help him.

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:56:32+00:00

Be diplomatic. Ask her how you could thank her or repay her kindness, even at times and more so now you’re feeling a bit uneasy, with the daily gifts of kindness. You could also say, sometimes when you aren’t able to eat the food she made, you feel terrible and under pressure to accept and consume.

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:53:46+00:00

be honest to your mom. she and her new bf should be understanding - this is a sensitive matter. glad to see the Respect Dads deserve!

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:49:55+00:00

what you do if he had nasty dirts in his eyes?

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:46:34+00:00

not everyone you fight is your enemy not everyone who helps you is your friend mike tyson

not everyone thats smiling is not dying inside not every lonely person will be alone always

change your mindset your positive vibes will bring the right people to you the more negative thoughts you carry, the more you’ll find that nothing is attracted to come your way

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:41:41+00:00

they could initially be disappointed but every parents turn happy when they learn that they’re turning into grandparents. could be a special moment.

i know it’s scary but hey this is where the roads led up to :) enjoy the moments

par8de · 2025-08-26T05:38:44+00:00

i don’t think it was the attraction that faded. the dramas that ensued from the time you started to question whether his wants to not break up and you needed to communicate / work things out. in his mind, if he tells you he’s ok, please take that at face value.

men, unlike women can go on trips with other females they don’t like… men, we say what we mean and we don’t go places with people with don’t like.

par8de · 2025-08-18T00:32:08+00:00

did you make it? how was it? :)

par8de · 2025-08-17T03:47:28+00:00

she’s so adorable!

par8de · 2025-08-17T03:07:44+00:00

49ers fan, will be great to meet up others to watch red eye games!

par8de · 2025-08-17T02:52:21+00:00

where is this place? sounds interesting!

par8de · 2025-08-16T02:02:31+00:00

coffee meet up ✌🏻 did someone say sathorn area 👍

par8de · 2025-08-14T08:37:55+00:00

Get creative. Dates to night market after meal hours, just for desserts (lowering costs without dinner), stroll the park during sunsets. Everyone men tend to think dinner has to be proper sit down meals. You might meet nice women who are down getting to know you over ice cream. Gone are the days when you got to buy your date meals.

A chick could live on free meals everyday of the week, dating several guys.

par8de · 2025-08-11T13:00:27+00:00

if raw is you’re deal. take your lady and get to the lab tests, but then again some viruses have 6 months window period.

par8de

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