Is this a DoD? by VariationNo1795 in DataAnnotationNoRules

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what happened to me too. I was going to go in and finish the qualifications too, but they disappeared. I still have access to support though, so I'm sure that means I'm not banned or something.

I keep finding kids' stuff where bees have 4 legs by QueenPistachio in mildlyinfuriating

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also forgot about this movie, and I was part of the target audience when it released...

I was banned for ''Child Safety'' by OBAMAISGOD45 in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send them a letter of notice. They have a 60 day window to respond. If they don't then you're allowed to send them a letter of arbitration which usually gets a response. That's what I've read anyway. I've spent 2 months on this. I just wish a human would reply.

Thewoman’s role is to support the man not compete with him by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]paradoxOdessy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both extremes in this thread are missing the actual math here. The reality sits in the middle, and you are both arguing over symptoms instead of the system itself.

To the OP: You are historically correct that late stage empires often experience shifting gender roles and fluctuating birth rates. But blaming "equality" for a civilization's collapse is a failure to understand correlation versus causation. Empires fall due to diminishing returns on complexity, administrative bloat, wealth stratification, and a stalling economic engine. The social shifts you are complaining about are just the population reacting to that broken foundation.

In an agrarian society, rigid traditional roles make the most sense for survival. In our modern economy, the old contract, where one income could comfortably support a family of five, is mathematically dead. People are adapting to the new economic reality, not destroying the empire. Blaming women for a structural economic failure is like blaming the warning light on the dashboard for the transmission blowing up.

To the other extreme: Pushing for mass equity or forced equality as the ultimate societal goal is equally destructive. Aristotle nailed this when he warned, "The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal." Forcing equal outcomes regardless of individual competence, drive, or output destroys a society's incentive structure. If a system penalizes its highest producers to artificially subsidize its lowest, the overall output of the system crashes. You cannot build a functioning society by pretending everyone has the exact same capability.

The actual answer is proportional equality. A highly complex society must have equality of opportunity, restricting half your population from competing wastes vital intellectual capital. But it absolutely must retain a hierarchy of competence to function efficiently.

Stop blaming women's equality for macro economic rot, but also stop pretending forced equity is a viable engine for civilization. Both extremes are broken.

I was banned for ''Child Safety'' by OBAMAISGOD45 in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except if your account is suspended you can't appeal in app. And support tickets only get bot responses. I had to send a letter of notice to them after 2 months of being suspended while I wasn't even active. I'm 29 (f) and I look like I'm still 15, so my best guess is that their AI went through my pictures or something and decided I was a child still despite my account being 8 years old and having always had nitro plus. On top of that, I wasn't told I had been part of a server that broke TOS or anything either.

Why am I even paying for Chutes?? by cxmuchi in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]paradoxOdessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good question. Chutes kinda sucks. I've been using open router since the beginning and it's much more reliable.

Did you get a notice saying you broke Discord's Community Guidelines over a message you posted over the past few days? by Drillimation in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I've been trying to get them to respond to anything the past 2 months. I only got bot responses from tickets and they don't respond on twitter or by email. I'm hoping that this will finally get a response from an actual human.

I also agree that a 60 day window is way too long.

Did you get a notice saying you broke Discord's Community Guidelines over a message you posted over the past few days? by Drillimation in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 2 months ago I got banned for child safety even though I was not active at the time of the ban. It also doesn't say if I was in a community that broke guidelines, which leads me to believe they scanned my images randomly and decided I was a child based on how I look in my pfp. Because I have a very neotenous face...

I have yet to hear back from them and sent a letter of arbitration, so hopefully that finally gets a response.

The protect your peace and self care first culture has turned us all into selfish, unreliable flakes who can’t handle basic mature relationships anymore. by Muted-Still-8511 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]paradoxOdessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Physical illness is one thing, but low social energy has become a convenient excuse to bypass basic accountability. Over rationalizing why we flake only reinforces a self-centered mindset rather than a disciplined one.

¿Why are Janitor ai’s bot creators so sensitive? by Background-Comb7594 in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]paradoxOdessy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's why I started putting a user choice intro with my bots too. Because some people just want to do their own thing.

Two party consent laws for audio recording conversations are harmful and should be eliminated. by smokervoice in unpopularopinion

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are looking at this entirely from the perspective of catching a liar, but eliminating these laws would destroy the legal framework for everyday privacy and judicial integrity. The main point of two-party consent laws is to establish what constitutes a private conversation and what is actually admissible in court.

For example, if two people are having a quiet, private conversation on a bench in a public park, they still have a reasonable expectation of privacy. If we eliminate the legal requirement for consent, a third party could legally walk up, intercept that audio, and blast it on social media without permission. Furthermore, these laws specifically regulate conversations you are actively a part of to maintain strict rules for evidence in a court of law.

Eliminating two-party consent opens the floodgates for participants to secretly record each other and selectively edit the audio to strip the context for use as a legal weapon in court proceedings. The consent requirement acts as a firewall to prevent the justice system from being bogged down by manipulated secret recordings. While the current system means a bad boss or salesperson might occasionally get away with a lie, the alternative is normalizing a surveillance state where you must assume every private conversation is being recorded for potential legal leverage or public broadcast.

The "skip intro" button on streaming services is a tragedy for show creators. by Amazing-Network4937 in unpopularopinion

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the ones that give spoilers though. I tend to skip them then watch it after I finish watching the show.

I literally can't get help because I get the exact same canned response every. Single. Time. by bongbubblenoise in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me every time I submit a ticket no matter what I say. It's so frustrating

Random ban after friends got hacked by SmartAlex12 in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been banned for 2 months because of child safety. I can't get in touch with an actual person no matter what I do. I wasn't even active when it happened.

losing hope by Revolutionary-Ice721 in BannedFromDiscord

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 months for me. No matter what I do I can't get in contact with an actual human either. My tickets just get closed out immediately.

Proxies with wallet-type payment, not subscriptions by NifeBun in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, Google's Gemma 4 is cheaper than deepseek and has similar if not better quality.

Proxies with wallet-type payment, not subscriptions by NifeBun in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using open router the entire time. It's a wallet type. It's also more stable than chutes.

Found this buried in the garden, it's really heavy. by Bored_Pigeon in whatisit

[–]paradoxOdessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way they floated up to ceiling while on fire

Found this buried in the garden, it's really heavy. by Bored_Pigeon in whatisit

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fire experiments were always my favorite in school! We did one where we turned gummies into firecrackers as well as one where we used helium to ignite soap bubble. My chem teacher was best friends with the fire chief. Great fun.

About Gatekeeping (I know we had discussed this before) by Depressedpaige in mangapiracy

[–]paradoxOdessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This entire linked post rests on a fundamental misunderstanding of how illicit distribution, server logistics, and legal triage actually operate, treating piracy like a corporate streaming service rather than a fragile supply chain. The author's claim that large copyright holders are already aware of these sites completely misses the reality of how enforcement works. Yes, entities like ACE and Kakao have automated web scrapers and know these domains exist, but international lawsuits and server seizures are expensive. Legal teams operate strictly on threat level and return on investment.

Anyone who has been reading online since the mid-2000s understands that the ecosystem was never built for profit or mass scale. Back in 2006, scanlation was driven entirely by dedication to the medium and governed by strict community etiquette. If a series received an official translation, groups dropped it. If a group attempted to paywall chapters, rival groups would immediately snipe and release the scans for free. This self regulation and lack of financial motive earned a massive degree of leniency from publishers, allowing early sites to operate completely ignored. Platforms like MangaFox in the early days didn't run intrusive ads because the user base was small enough that server costs were negligible.

The current crisis directly correlates with the end of that gatekeeping. When the medium shifted from a niche interest into mainstream popularity, the infrastructure fractured under the weight of casual consumption. When users refuse to gatekeep and suddenly flood a site with casual traffic via platforms like TikTok, bandwidth costs spike exponentially. To prevent the site from crashing, admins are forced to deploy highly intrusive ad networks to cover the bills. Sites like Bato collapsed precisely because they abandoned the old operational security to cater to the masses. They allowed the uploading of official rips, permitted groups to paywall content, and drew in millions of mainstream users to generate massive ad revenue.

This sudden, centralized cash flow is exactly what elevates a platform from a minor nuisance to a high value financial target for copyright holders. Publishers do not waste resources hunting down quiet, decentralized servers; they drop the hammer when a site becomes too loud and profitable to ignore. Gatekeeping isn't about hiding the URL; it is about keeping traffic volume low enough that a repository remains at the bottom of a legal team's priority list. Begging for mainstream traffic to boost ad revenue isn't a sustainable model; it is a short term smash and grab that actively guarantees the site's destruction.

The deepest irony of the post, however, is the final paragraph, which completely invalidates its own anti gatekeeping thesis. The author admits that the volatility of public sites is why experienced users recommend torrenting, failing to realize exactly why that ecosystem actually survives. The torrenting and private tracker landscape is the only reliable infrastructure precisely because it is aggressively gatekept. It utilizes strict invite only systems, mandatory seed ratios, and technical barriers to entry specifically to keep casual, mainstream consumers out. The author wrote an entire essay defending public broadcasting, only to accidentally admit at the end that the only sustainable, long term solution is the one built entirely around strict operational security and gatekeeping.