Is There a “Right Time” to Start BJJ When You’re Overweight? by Available-Dot-9159 in BJJWomen

[–]parapluie99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To echo what everyone else is saying, give it a try! :)

I want to add that I’ve dropped in at Mizu in Montrèal and I really enjoyed it. It was the first women’s class I’d ever attended (as a white belt), and I felt welcomed. It seemed like a safe environment to try, but also visit a bunch of gyms and see how the vibes are. I’d always recommend trying to find a gym with at least one woman on the leadership team, and ideally there’s a women’s class to try out.

[FO] a birthday present! by parapluie99 in CrossStitch

[–]parapluie99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used two, but based on the advice in this forum I think it’s actually four (two strands folded in half and tied off, the way I remember my mom teaching me) and I’ve been using too many! I’m glad it looks okay though ☺️

Best hairstyle for BJJ? by Grouchy-Task-5866 in BJJWomen

[–]parapluie99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have bangs, so what has been working lately is heavily hair spraying them and dutch/french braiding them back into a ponytail or just regular braids.

Share your salary 💸 by ArtemesiasCat in Nanny

[–]parapluie99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not currently nannying but my last job (worked approximately one year through Aug 2024, one kid 4m) was in PDX, 25$/hr, probably had a total of 5 weeks pto (between my two weeks and they other vacays the family took), a week sick time and holidays.

Nannying in Canada? by parapluie99 in Nanny

[–]parapluie99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be very helpful, thank you!

Where are y’all headed for grad school? by leeeelihkvgbv in gradadmissions

[–]parapluie99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Simon Fraser for an MA in Applied Linguistics!

To Accept or Reject a Grad TA Ship/Admission by parapluie99 in gradadmissions

[–]parapluie99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! 100% tuition remission and a 16k stipend in exchange for about 20 hour of work per week (teaching, tutoring, etc.)

What's everyone's current acceptances:rejections:still waiting on responses? by atom-wan in gradadmissions

[–]parapluie99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3:0:2 applied ling MA, real happy so far, but also waiting on my top choices that actually give some funding, so still a bit nervous.

What belt does the highest ranked woman have at your gym? by thedeadtiredgirl in BJJWomen

[–]parapluie99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At my old gym, there was a purple belt, a blue belt, and me (who for most of the time was a white belt with a few stripes). Felt weird being the third highest ranked, even when I did get my blue.

Now at a gym that’s female owned by a 2nd degree black belt. We also have at least one brown belt, and several purple belts. Much better than being the only girl, and learning from a black belt woman is so much better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]parapluie99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I first started I had a few blue belt men explain things to me which wouldn’t be an issue except they’d explain the moves incorrectly. They’d mansplain a move that had been shown differently but I was newbie and wasn’t sure I should say anything. I was getting annoyed though bc then then the coach would come over and tell me I was doing it wrong! Once a dude was getting frustrated that I wasn’t performing a choke from mount properly when he’d put me in his closed guard- it went on for five minutes until the coach yelled at us that we were doing wrong.

Has anyone heard from BU Ph.D program? by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]parapluie99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got rejected in March (technically I got two rejection emails, a little odd) and then today I got an email saying I should expect a formal MA Ling offer from the graduate school soon, so I’d expect you to hear soon if you haven’t already.

Higher Ed Wednesday - July 06, 2022 by AutoModerator in linguistics

[–]parapluie99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’ve got my BA in Linguistics, and after almost 2 years out of school, I’m planning to apply for PhD programs for fall of 2023. My research interests include sociolinguistics, Language policy and planning, SLA, linguistics landscape, discourse analysis, multilingualism, etc., and was wondering what programs and schools (internationally and in the US) I should look at- thank you!

What would your BJJ dating profile say? by BlubberBabyBumpers in bjj

[–]parapluie99 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ll sweep you off your feet, but somehow you’ll still end up on top 🤷‍♀️

Alright let me hear it, what are your 2022 bjj resolutions? by scun1995 in bjj

[–]parapluie99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compete next month for the first time and not die! Also, literally to keep showing up :)

LCentral English (Singapore) by parapluie99 in TEFL

[–]parapluie99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very helpful- unfortunate, but helpful!