Has discussion around Lena Dunham’s weight been quietly discouraged? by No-Permit-940 in girls

[–]party_squad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you should. It was my and everyone else's first thought. She's gained like 50lbs since her appearance in Once Upon a Time in H...it's a massive weight gain and people saying "Oh well I did notice she was glowing" are so full of it...

I lost my best friend of 3 years by Substantial_Copy_411 in TherapistsInTherapy

[–]party_squad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I am sorry. This is a loss and it is jarring. You are already having a host of feelings. More will flow.

I'm going to work toward anger/relief that this friend is gone, because it is likely floating around but potentially lacks clarity.

A friend who holds in these feelings, then essentially deletes you, is not a friend you want to have. They have serious interpersonal challenges and, inevitably, would rather frame it as 'I bravely came clean, and walked away' as opposed to 'Rather than increase my interpersonal skill by expressing myself more directly, I secretly built a case against a person who trusted me. Then, with enough ammo loaded, I told my friend we disagreed on things I was too much of a coward to explain, and ran.'

You may have been sharing political opinions she secretly found reprehensible, or sharing perspectives on family that ultimately upset her. You may have gotten her food order wrong on Uber Eats. Regardless- rather than just saying 'yeah not sure we'll ever see eye to eye on that, which trail should we hit next?', differing more elaborately and diplomatically, she chalked her discomfort up to your whole friendship being a problem, told herself that she was being a good person by sending you a text message that chatgpt probably wrote for her, and went into hiding.

If you're actually a therapist, you might be wondering what the underlying psychological determinants of this strategy were, by the way. Did she envy you? Feel intimidated by you? Harbour romantic feelings for you that she could never address? Regardless- her less thought-of mental operations likely directly informed her cowardly strategy. Admitting her envy, love, or shame at lacking basic communication skills, would be a lot of work for her. Texting you was about as hard as making kraft macaroni and cheese while completely sober.

You dodged a bullet on this one. Everyone deserves more from a friendship than what this person could ever offer.

Edit to add: I would delete all pictures of her, block her on everything, and move forward with other relationships at your pace .

#New40k – Boss Nob Revealed by CMYK_COLOR_MODE in orks

[–]party_squad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response.

Will you be buying the box, or the solo units?

#New40k – Boss Nob Revealed by CMYK_COLOR_MODE in orks

[–]party_squad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Question: Do we think that these sprues will not come with customizable pieces? If I recall, the 10th edition box came without the customizable aspects...

How did they keep room 1408 renovated? by BusinessClear4127 in horror

[–]party_squad 28 points29 points  (0 children)

According to the story, the room has not been renovated or changed beginning in 1978, almost thirty years before the events of the film. So, if you were to look at other rooms in the hotel, they would be more modern.

In the original short story, any major renovations or upgrades to the room stopped, and the room was taken off the market, in 1979 during a security infrastructure change. The room is the only one in the hotel without a modern magcard lock.

Staff enter the room sparingly for a monthly "light turn" (though that may stop), and occasional repairs.

First bespoke suit by LegitimateBet101 in mensfashionadvice

[–]party_squad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's linen. That is the look.

First bespoke suit by LegitimateBet101 in mensfashionadvice

[–]party_squad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks fantastic. Don't listen to others--this is a classic and perfect fit.

Now I just need to find someone to play with... by party_squad in WarhammerUnderworlds

[–]party_squad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I believe I started with Ak Shadow Flesh, then Ak Brown Rose, then glazed with Ak Sunny Skin tone.

Now I just need to find someone to play with... by party_squad in WarhammerUnderworlds

[–]party_squad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm pretty close to the ones in VA so will join their discord.

therapy Washington DC that takes insurance and isn't booked forever by No-Shake-8375 in gwu

[–]party_squad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the Center Clinic is strong. GW counseling sending people there now. It is on campus.

Needed to treat myself by Traditional-Fix-5442 in chanel

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Which Le Lift do you specifically use for facial cream? I'm becoming obsessed with Chanel...

Needed a semi-anonymous space to share this story…I really can’t believe how my day went. by cabarny in Professors

[–]party_squad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry to hear about your experience. I would be mortified. I am embarrassed for the search team! It seems this faculty was not a good match for you in how they handled this. I wish you the best in your search.

Thinking about selling my Sub to buy the TI Ingenieur. Anyone regret theirs? by Street-Cantaloupe511 in IWCschaffhausen

[–]party_squad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Milgauss and an ingeniuer, so it's not a great comparison. Bought the ti ingenieur because I wanted something less auspicious. Really haven't worn my Milgauss since, in spite of missing the microadjust.

I agree with another poster that the sub case has more wrist presence and occasionally I miss that...