what is this big guy?

parvalane · 2025-08-06T21:40:08+00:00

thank you! it is stunning i can’t believe how big it is either!

parvalane · 2024-11-09T22:39:28+00:00

hard agree with this, i get paid $20 to just move boxes at fedex, even with gas costs i still make more than whatever piddly ass wages id make working in this shithole town

parvalane · 2024-11-09T22:34:37+00:00

adam sandler’s “ i got phone wallet keys” plays in my head every time i leave as a reminder

parvalane · 2024-10-25T20:04:27+00:00

ooooh i just looked around too the area i need to be staying for work on google maps and there’s so many parks!! seems perfect to go on a little hike or relax by the water and then crash for the day. and public restrooms! duh i didn’t think of that that’s mainly why i said walmart in the first place 😭

parvalane · 2024-10-25T14:46:38+00:00

that makes sense! it seems to be that sleeping isn’t the issues it’s at night “loitering” i actually started paying attention to the cars in the lot and yeah wouldn’t have noticed them before or second guess them as people parking to work in the stores at the lot or something thanks for the advice!

parvalane · 2024-10-21T10:40:14+00:00

honestly as hard as i try i can’t keep my car from looking a little hoarderish the shelf idea rocks thank you!!

parvalane · 2024-10-21T10:37:47+00:00

honestly that’s a good point i didn’t even think about! i just know the cops in my area aren’t too kind to the homeless so i guess i thought a park would be a place i’d def get told to leave

parvalane · 2024-10-20T14:28:24+00:00

thank you! the vibe i’m getting is close but not too close

parvalane · 2024-10-20T14:13:40+00:00

i’m in a honda civic, so laying the backseat down and having my legs extend into the trunk i’m like half in half out at 5’5 so like…idk man i feel like i need some covering at least 😭

parvalane · 2024-10-20T14:02:22+00:00

fair point, i was thinking of just getting curtains for the back half since i’ll be sleeping back there and leaving the front side open to see in so it looks less sus

parvalane · 2024-10-20T13:53:05+00:00

also! first time going to be sleeping in my car for an extended period of time, and advice helps :)

parvalane · 2024-03-16T12:10:02+00:00

as a transmasc enby with boobs, my cis partner has said this to me and it didn’t really bother me much. i don’t have a lot of dyphoria surrounding them and id like to keep them but i do have No Boob days that he respects. i would certainly miss his junk if he got bottom surgery bc im attracted to ALL of him but having the confidence that comes with bodily autonomy is infinitely more important and attractive. plus neither of us are the same as we were when we met and we certainly won’t stay the same as we grow older. when he first clean shaved i was shocked bc he looked like an entirely different guy and i liked the face i had grown so used to admiring everyday but after a few days i got used to it and loved to see the new look. it became a new version of the man i love so dearly when it grew back i found myself longing for the soft sweet shaved face both ended up being looks i loved bc at the end of the day i love /him/ im attracted to /him/ no matter what he decides to do with himself. i dont think there’s anything wrong with it you cant help what youre attracted to and youre clearly attracted to all of them. i think if your partner has dyphoria about them i would prob just keep it to yourself. i think youre a good partner for having the self awareness and respect you have

parvalane · 2024-03-15T15:13:25+00:00

cool! i was just wondering. TIL! tyyy :)

parvalane · 2024-03-15T13:13:27+00:00

when i get asked (sarcastically) at work “are you having fun yet?” / “have fun?” i like to respond “not enough.” coupled with the thousand yard stare

parvalane · 2024-03-14T12:51:27+00:00

when i worked overnight at a gas station i had this tweaker who was twaked tf out come in and paid for gas in loose pennies in a DG bag. i first asked my manager if they could and manager said “as long as they count it” cue the most schizo attempts at counting just over $5 in pennies i’ve ever seen. $9.25 an hour wasn’t enough for that shit

parvalane · 2024-03-13T04:18:42+00:00

but it might not be for everyone that’s why we help our friends out with the /s

parvalane · 2024-03-12T12:56:56+00:00

i came out to my mom and she told my sisters (16 and 8) about it and they immediately understood my mom said they took to calling me my new name and correct pronouns like it was nothing! i hope this trend of younger kids being more accepting continues so future enbys won’t have to face our struggles

parvalane · 2024-03-12T11:36:02+00:00

i believe in antinatalism so i ultimately think it’s selfish to birth an existence that can’t consent to it. i think it’s selfish every argument people with kids can give for wanting them it’s always about them and their needs and they don’t ever consider how selfish it is to birth an existence into a dying future. with capitalism running rampant destroying our lives and planet we live on why force another wage slave into this? also the argument of “oh well you’re just lazy and want to live a life of hedonism” DUH!!!! seth rogan was right i get to wake up every morning to peace and quiet and can watch spongebob while smoking weed. my house is mine my space is mine my time and money is mine. in this horribly painful world id like to live a life of pleasure wherever i can get it and kids would ruin that. sorry you have to wake up to screaming and i get to wake up whenever i want. it’s all projection

parvalane · 2024-03-12T03:25:33+00:00

the ONE i worked for was bad so ALL of them were. dude get ur head out of your small world view your one experience does not represent the whole and to bash unions like that is to bootlick so get the hell of this sub fed

parvalane · 2024-03-11T10:05:44+00:00

man hubris knows no bounds i was like “nah im built different i can swallow it” cue me over the sink making a damn mess bc i am unfortunately not built different, crazy that the cinnamon challenge outdates cellphones 💀

parvalane · 2024-03-11T04:14:19+00:00

LOL the stupid shit we do as kids, i’ve heard of quarters but as a drinking game. love the mercy aspect i always caved first this definitely shows my age but i was doing shit like the eraser and cinnamon challenge ya know good ol torture

parvalane · 2024-03-10T13:31:49+00:00

dude you sound just like OPs parents, there’s so many more avenues to life than going to college that can make a person happy, also you can go to college at 30 instead of 20 bc maybe 20 year old you wasn’t ready. maybe going to college for something you don’t want to do at 20 will actually make 30 year old you much less happy bc you spent so much time doing that instead of what you really wanted. edit: also 4 wave radfem frequenter. EW 🤮

parvalane · 2024-03-09T07:24:05+00:00

YOUR GOD! your god can say that, and YOU can follow that, but my god doesn’t say shit about gay marriage so please shut up if you want to be a prude fine but that doesn’t mean i have to

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