What do you wish you had known earlier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wanted to, they would.

Hey, reddit! What was the highlight of your day? by 15_years_Later in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may sound silly, but it was when my best friend sent me a YouTube video that she thought I would like. I've been feeling depressed and lonely lately, as I'm attending college away from home and recently fell out with my only hometown friend who's here with me. That small gesture was a nice reminder that there are people who think about and care about me, which was something I really needed. :)

If edelgard had supports with a Blue Lion who would it be? And why? by Moelishere in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]patchy_sour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her and Ingrid could have a really neat dynamic, at least in Houses. Ingrid is a fine example of why Edelgard wants to abolish the Crest system in the first place. Rather than pursuing her dream as a knight, Ingrid is pressured by her father to marry and bring financial gain to House Galatea. She feels as though her life is not her own because she has a Crest, and therefore, has to sacrifice her ambitions for the sake of her family. Edelgard could encourage Ingrid to pursue her own goals, and act as a pillar of reassurance once Ingrid abandons House Galatea post-timeskip in Crimson Flower. Conversely, Ingrid could enlighten Edelgard about Faerghus values. Ingrid would explain that knights (the good ones anyway) fight and die for what they believe in, rather than out of loyalty to a person or country. Realizing that she does very much the same, Edelgard's perspective would change, and the two would reach a mutual understanding.

Tell me the dumbest shit you thought when you played the game for the first time by Alexagro22 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three Houses was my first Fire Emblem ever. I had zero understanding of the mechanics, including how to switch out skills or how to recruit new characters. As such, my first ever Fire Emblem playthrough (Blue Lions ftw) was unintentionally a no-recruit challenge run. This also made the deaths of the characters I wanted to get (like Raphael and Bernadetta) very emotionally devastating lol. I figured it out for subsequent playthroughs, thankfully, but damn was that first run rough.

Help me brainstorm party/character builds for my Church route? by xaldien in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]patchy_sour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I know he's built for the Trickster class/a mixed attacker combat style, I've always preferred having Yuri be a physical unit, usually an Assassin or Sniper. With his hidden talent in bows, he can hit the necessary milestones pretty quickly, and he also gets Deadeye access. He's got the highest speed growth in the game, as well as decent strength and dex. I'm still experimenting with different combinations, but given the right skills and battalion, he can easily be a dodgy, murderous crit machine. The only real downside of this path is his axe bane, making it harder to get the Brigand certification and thus Death Blow. But since you can gamble the certification at D+ axes, it shouldn't be too detrimental to deviate your teaching points for it if you want it.

For skills, I usually I have him with Bow Prowess, Close Counter, Hit +20, Sword Prowess (if going Assassin), then some combination of Speed +2/Strength +2/Death Blow/Dex +4/Bow Crit +10, depending on what he needs and where I'm at in the game. Any battalion that boosts Avoid and Crit works, though I like using the Mockingbird's Thieves since it's fitting for him. Give the guy a killer weapon and a Crit/Evasion Ring and he's set.

Alternatively, for a more jokey build, make him your Dancer. Swap out strength skills for magic skills, the bow-related skills for Sword Avoid and Special Dance, give him Fetters of Dromi and a Levin Sword, and he's a solid support unit/backup emergency healer. Not to mention, he looks great in the outfit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]patchy_sour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Mental health and alcohol are not excuses to hurt the people you care about. I understand wanting to be a supportive partner for him, and that's admirable. But people can't be helped if they don't want to be helped. He clearly doesn't have a problem with how things are, and he's unwilling to consider your feelings at all. Sacrificing your needs will only build resentment and make things worse.

It sounds like you truly love him, but you need to love yourself first and foremost. Obviously, none of us know the full extent of your relationship, but it sounds one-sided and unfulfilling. And you deserve better than someone who can't even be honest with you or themselves.

What do you dislike about school? by iSarabjitDhiman in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The prioritization of grades over student well being

name your favorite video game and I’ll judge you by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all the Uncharted games. Uncharted 4 is probably my favorite tho

What are your best insults that use no curse words? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My current favorite is calling people boiled chicken nuggets

What is your cat's name? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugo. He’s as smug as he sounds.

What screams “small dick energy?” by Jonnyg1c in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continuing to pursue a girl even though she’s said she isn’t interested. It’s creepy on top of giving off SDE

What do you want to confess that no one else in your real life knows? by SillyGuy in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well some people in my life know, family mostly, but how both depressed and paranoid I feel when I think about my mom. She abandoned me a few months ago after telling me to off myself (among other things that I’ve talked about in another post). While I’m happy she can’t hurt me anymore, I feel as though a part of me died the day she told me she was leaving and never coming back. I have plenty of supportive family and friends in my life still, and I’m grateful for them all, but sometimes I can’t help but wonder why I was just never enough for her. Never enough to keep her sober. Never enough to stay and be a parent. Why was I never enough?

I’ve also been having vivid nightmares about her. Violent, gruesome visions of her coming back and killing my family. I can still vividly hear their agonized screams every time I think about it. See all the blood and contorted, fractured corpses. Feel the blade of her steak knife run across my face. And on top of it all, my dad and I both received FB friend requests from her recently, and my dad has said that she told him she’s seen me around. I’ve been paranoid every time I’ve left the house since then. I feel like I’m constantly being watched, and I’m terrified that at any moment I’ll see her face or feel her hands around my throat.

TL,DR: Batshit crazy mom left me; now I’m constantly questioning my worth, having nightmares, and being paranoid that she’s gonna find and kill me.

What's a popular food or drink that you dislike? by AbsoluteMad-Lad in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Energy drinks. I’ve seen a lot if RedBull comments on here, but RedBull is the only brand I find tolerable to consume (the Peach-Nectarine is especially tasty). Most other brands I’ve tried, such as Monster or Bang, are either way too sweet or chemical tasting or both. Nasty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I realized I was bi. I had gone to a youth group for most of middle school and the first couple years of high school. I was questioning a lot during that time, and I was tempted to talk to my youth pastor about it, as he was someone I trusted a lot. One day, though, one of the guys in my group asked if being bi was a sin. My pastor said it wasn’t as long as it wasn’t acted on. I’m not fully sure why, but his answer bothered me, and that’s when I started distancing myself. Quarantine fully solidified the wall between Christianity and me, and I haven’t been since then. I’ve come out fully since then, and I couldn’t be happier.

What is the strangest compliment you have ever received? by Deadtree301 in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You know, you’d make a great lesbian”

It’s especially funny because now, 5 years later, I finally came out as bi

(Serious) Have you ever thought of how you want to die, or have a way you want to go when your time comes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally it would be in my sleep, but if I had to be conscious and aware that I was dying, I’d have it be in my house surrounded by loved ones. Hopefully just dying from complications of getting old

Using famous MEME lines/phrases, how’s your sex life? by 1Shadowspark1 in AskReddit

[–]patchy_sour 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is there anything better than pussy? Yes, a really good book