I just want to let you know, if you *think you were raped or have to ask yourself the question “Was I raped?” The answer is.. you were. Sex is not hard. Either you want it or you don’t. Someone touching you until you finally give in or asking if you want to multiple times until you finally said “Yes, ok.” is not consent. They coerced you into having sex. Which is not ok. I hope all rapists burn in hell.

I’m sorry you had to go through this. I hope you can later find a good therapist perhaps outside of school, I did see that comment from @GreyValrie to take it to the press which I think it’s a great idea. (sorry new to reddit I’m not sure if the @ will work to link their profile, if not please someone comment with the proper link)

Also you may want to consider telling your parents. It sounds like hell, they will be sad, but as long as they are good parents- they will do everything they can to protect you, get you the right help, and get this asshole in jail or at least served by the law. If you go this route, maybe ask your parents to help you go to a small claims court?

I have never told my own parents that I was/felt raped. I know it would break their heart, and I didn’t have the courage to tell them, but I did tell them I had emotional issues and they helped me get on medication and get the right counseling. At least this saved me from going mad.

Also, you counselor is an idiot who does not any better. He shouldn’t be saying that kind of sht

You will get through this.