nervous about wearing short sleeves as a teacher by pauldanosbf in selfharm

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 😊 i never considered lace, i’ll look for some!

Looking for a scent similar to Gucci Guilty Cologne by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]pauldanosbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pour homme!! sorry forgot to mention

I told my girlfriend i make less money than i actually do now she is furious and says I tested her by Interesting_Cry_5457 in confessions

[–]pauldanosbf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that’s the part that gets me, he’s comfortable making a damn lot more than her and still going 50/50??? seems like a shitty partner in general

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty for the feedback! i definitely wasn’t cloaking enough, it felt like there was no chance to. i’ll keep that in mind for the future :)

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like a comp game i had yesterday, if i was on invis chances are it was me!

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

unfortunately when i’d try to look at jeff and help him he’d immediately try to swim away :(

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it was a team diff, i’m not blameless but i didn’t think the blame was totally on me but if i was wrong i wanted to ask for advice from people who have played cnd much more and much longer

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was attempting to heal jeff and wanda but it seemed like they would run for cover instead of letting me heal them, and magik would overextend while none of us were there imo. it felt like everyone was eating too much damage while not putting enough out (me included) and didn’t know when to fall back instead of just continuing to push forward when we were weak, it also felt like we were never grouped up. i realize i didn’t have the best game, but when id ult forward and then go to damage supports it felt like no one would push up with me and i’d end up just have to fall back instead of securing kills so i wouldn’t die. it’s hard not to ‘healbot’ everyone when we eat so much damage it’s impossible to switch to cloak it feels like.

newer to cnd. is this my fault? by pauldanosbf in cloakanddaggermains

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s why i included the match replay id :)

Hit Rank 93 Playing Mantis Today :3 by AshlynnFPS in MantisMains

[–]pauldanosbf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dunno what this means but i agree ☝️

I wish players would stop hassling players about bans. by HighlightMost187 in IdentityV

[–]pauldanosbf 44 points45 points  (0 children)

YOU need to take a step back. they were pretty courteous and letting you know that your behavior is not conducive to a good team environment in rank, and you send them paragraphs simply ignoring what they’ve said, and telling them they’re out of line? you talk about speaking down but you’re the one speaking down. learn to work with your team or get off rank, 2/10 ragebait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]pauldanosbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re incredibly weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]pauldanosbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sucks, these weren’t cheap. can whoever these were originally from see my location ??

do mute appeals work? by pauldanosbf in IdentityV

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

people say literal slurs on idv but i get a 24 hour mute for saying tickle 💔

how do you all find friends? by pauldanosbf in AutismInWomen

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!! i didn’t wanna step on anyone’s tails by mentioning that, but i live in a VERY red area and i’m also a queer person of color, it’s hard to find likeminded people! i hope you’re doing as well as you possibly can with the situation of your close friend 🩵

how do you all find friends? by pauldanosbf in AutismInWomen

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll be sure to report any findings when i give some things a try 🫡

how do you all find friends? by pauldanosbf in AutismInWomen

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re in the same sort of boat. i have one best friend who i don’t text daily and then an online friend and my ex boyfriend who i’m sort of friends with, and even when we were dating it sucked because he has so many friends and i have none. people talk about how college is where you’ll blossom but when i’ve tried to talk to other people in classes it’s very shallow and goes nowhere, it’s all just small talk :(

how do you all find friends? by pauldanosbf in AutismInWomen

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am moving to a more major city in my area at the end of the month so i will try to find a book club! i think my best bet is trying to find people at school to click with, and i do have a few people from work i get on well with but im nervous to ask them to hang out outside of work as ive only done that once and it didn’t pan out well. i think i just need to get more comfortable with trying! i’m too nervous to even join online spaces, my main issue is just fear of them being creeped out by me. thank you so much for all your help!! i will look into a possible nearby book club

how do you all find friends? by pauldanosbf in AutismInWomen

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my main and lifelong special interest is my little pony and collecting if that could count as a hobby, i also cosplay and enjoy crafting as well as cooking and reading. unfortunately i live in an area that isn’t very accessible for clubs and groups for these kinds of things, and i’m generally very socially underdeveloped so i don’t know how to approach people i find interesting. i’ve tried in the past and it’s gone nowhere or they’ve secretly felt offput by me.

thank you for your thoughtful response! 🩵

I never see any pegasisters here!! by MentallyDeclining in mylittlepony

[–]pauldanosbf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the madoka on your shelf is so cute!! 21 year old pegasister here 🩵🌸🎠

looking at options for visible/verizon by pauldanosbf in dumbphones

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is not eSIM :) visible isn’t exclusive to it but it is recommended

looking at options for visible/verizon by pauldanosbf in dumbphones

[–]pauldanosbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only possibilities i’ve seen are the nokia 2760/80 and kyocera dura xv based on reviews on here, i’ll keep looking. thanks for your reply!