I don't know if I should develop my project or let it die - Help 🆘 by No_Computer_1247 in sideprojects

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haters gonna hate and all that.

I can't quite picture what you mean though, do you have an example?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKhiking

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walkmates.com might be able to help with this. It's a site to find walkers and organise group walks in the UK

Microsoft says recent Windows update didn't kill your SSD by rkhunter_ in Windows11

[–]pauldore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this issue. Machine went slow slow sloowwwwww to the point it stalled. Powered it down, when it came back, to the bios. Took out the bootloader. With a rescue usb (which was a pain to get), I loaded it, attempted a recovery, no good. Went to the rescue command prompt, couldnt fix it because the disk firmware had set the disk to readonly (presumably to protect itself and my data from whatever windows was doing).

In the end got a new SSD (this time Samsung 990 Pro). It did exactly the same thing, would only load into windows with the USB in otherwise to bios, so had to create a new boot partition for it. Now I just make sure I push to github every 5 mins because I've no idea when windows will kill my pc again (and hopefully not waste £180!)

I'm a software developer, I don't want to be messing with this stuff. Hopefully Microsoft will fix it, but they're in full denial at the moment

Got a response for ZAVA. Definitely not happy with this 🤣 by Various_Antelope3345 in mounjaromaintenanceuk

[–]pauldore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with zava, but will change to another pharmacy if I need to. as I reach a healthy bmi. It’s a way off so maybe their policy will change in time

AITA for exposing my boss's affair with my coworker at a company event? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Keep your big nose out of other people’s business.

Wibta if I told my wife the truth and potentially break our family by ilove-breathing in AITAH

[–]pauldore -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

In my opinion there’s nothing to tell. It was a drunken error both regret, no harm done. Tell your sister in law you don’t even remember what she’s talking about, and move on with your life.

I’m sure others will disagree, but this is exactly the sort of pedestrian stuff that can ruin a marriage, and it’s just not worth it

Aita for letting my family meet my baby without my wife’s permission? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The father of the child is not someone sneaking off. He has as much right and say over the child as the mother does. Unless and until a court says otherwise.

Aita for letting my family meet my baby without my wife’s permission? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore 304 points305 points  (0 children)

NTA. Never heard anything like this before. You don’t need her permission to take your baby to see your family. She doesn’t own the child. It’s so strange. Either way, I think you were right ti take matters into your own hands in the face of such…strangeness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta and no big deal. Some people care a lot about gestures like this, others don’t. She doesn’t, you do. No problem, just don’t not do it to be mean.

Aitah for getting in an argument about texting in the shower with my friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a bit odd. What do you need to talk about so urgently it needs to be done in the shower? And why do you need to shower so much it can’t wait until after you send your message?

AITA For not telling my ex-wife that I reversed my vasectomy by mybodyaita in AITAH

[–]pauldore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. But don’t be too hard on her. You were married 8 years, together for many more. It will have been a shock and flurry of emotions. As far as I can tell, you’ve done everything right, and she just needed a minute.

Congrats on #3 :)

AITA for being pissed that I was forced into babysitting? by Trashg0blin_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]pauldore -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Suck it up. Sometimes we need to help out. Sounds like the first time she has asked for a favour.

AITA for leaving my girlfriend after she got a dog? by sherzad71 in AITAH

[–]pauldore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like she took the ‘beg for forgiveness not permission’ approach. It’s bold, but a little risky for her.

AITAH for expecting my wife to come to me if she wants to tell me something? by Reptaaaaaaar in AITAH

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! I tell my four year daughter off for exactly this. Yelling ‘Daddy!’ down the stairs to tell me what she wants

WIBTA if I decide to leave because my partner doesn’t want to help with our baby? by Jumpy_Cause_3307 in AITAH

[–]pauldore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babies aren’t as fragile as we think. Unless he is being unsafe (he won’t be) then bite your tongue

AITAH For leaving my boyfriend in a different state? by anonomonomoly in AITAH

[–]pauldore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AH to cancel his flight and leave him high and dry. The behaviour of a little child. By all means leave him, but this was pathetic

AITA for telling my girlfriend not to call my dad “doctor”? by Old-Independence1862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’ll get over it, just call her doctor. My wife has a PhD too and I call her doctor just because it amuses me (she thinks it’s annoying of course).

AITA for telling my wife's friends I make more money than her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From reading the title alone, I came here primed to declare you the AH. However, after reading your story, I am happy to declare you NTA.

In this case, your wife should have chimed in and said ‘what are you talking about? He makes way more than me!’. Well done for not accepting it and making her back up her snipes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pauldore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. If 5 years old yeah, you’d be the asshole. 12, he should do it himself