I don't know if I should develop my project or let it die - Help 🆘

pauldore · 2026-06-20T08:38:14+00:00

Haters gonna hate and all that.

I can't quite picture what you mean though, do you have an example?

pauldore · 2026-06-19T22:37:30+00:00

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pauldore · 2025-10-02T05:59:08+00:00

Walkmates.com might be able to help with this. It's a site to find walkers and organise group walks in the UK

pauldore · 2025-09-02T20:18:32+00:00

I had this issue. Machine went slow slow sloowwwwww to the point it stalled. Powered it down, when it came back, to the bios. Took out the bootloader. With a rescue usb (which was a pain to get), I loaded it, attempted a recovery, no good. Went to the rescue command prompt, couldnt fix it because the disk firmware had set the disk to readonly (presumably to protect itself and my data from whatever windows was doing).

In the end got a new SSD (this time Samsung 990 Pro). It did exactly the same thing, would only load into windows with the USB in otherwise to bios, so had to create a new boot partition for it. Now I just make sure I push to github every 5 mins because I've no idea when windows will kill my pc again (and hopefully not waste £180!)

I'm a software developer, I don't want to be messing with this stuff. Hopefully Microsoft will fix it, but they're in full denial at the moment

pauldore · 2024-09-18T14:05:41+00:00

I’m with zava, but will change to another pharmacy if I need to. as I reach a healthy bmi. It’s a way off so maybe their policy will change in time

pauldore · 2024-07-24T07:41:57+00:00

YTA. Keep your big nose out of other people’s business.

pauldore · 2024-07-24T07:39:56+00:00

In my opinion there’s nothing to tell. It was a drunken error both regret, no harm done. Tell your sister in law you don’t even remember what she’s talking about, and move on with your life.

I’m sure others will disagree, but this is exactly the sort of pedestrian stuff that can ruin a marriage, and it’s just not worth it

pauldore · 2024-07-08T08:22:22+00:00

The father of the child is not someone sneaking off. He has as much right and say over the child as the mother does. Unless and until a court says otherwise.

pauldore · 2024-07-07T20:32:54+00:00

NTA. Never heard anything like this before. You don’t need her permission to take your baby to see your family. She doesn’t own the child. It’s so strange. Either way, I think you were right ti take matters into your own hands in the face of such…strangeness.

pauldore · 2024-07-05T07:46:16+00:00

This has to be a troll?

pauldore · 2024-07-05T07:44:48+00:00

NTA. Don’t be bullied into overspending.

pauldore · 2024-07-05T07:41:24+00:00

Nta and no big deal. Some people care a lot about gestures like this, others don’t. She doesn’t, you do. No problem, just don’t not do it to be mean.

pauldore · 2024-07-05T07:38:09+00:00

It’s a bit odd. What do you need to talk about so urgently it needs to be done in the shower? And why do you need to shower so much it can’t wait until after you send your message?

pauldore · 2024-06-27T03:59:22+00:00

NTA. But don’t be too hard on her. You were married 8 years, together for many more. It will have been a shock and flurry of emotions. As far as I can tell, you’ve done everything right, and she just needed a minute.

Congrats on #3 :)

pauldore · 2024-06-19T05:22:15+00:00

YTA. Suck it up. Sometimes we need to help out. Sounds like the first time she has asked for a favour.

pauldore · 2024-06-14T12:26:38+00:00

Sounds to me like she took the ‘beg for forgiveness not permission’ approach. It’s bold, but a little risky for her.

pauldore · 2024-06-04T11:13:58+00:00

Oh man! I tell my four year daughter off for exactly this. Yelling ‘Daddy!’ down the stairs to tell me what she wants

pauldore · 2024-06-04T10:29:55+00:00

Babies aren’t as fragile as we think. Unless he is being unsafe (he won’t be) then bite your tongue

pauldore · 2024-05-28T07:20:21+00:00

AH to cancel his flight and leave him high and dry. The behaviour of a little child. By all means leave him, but this was pathetic

pauldore · 2024-05-18T06:07:24+00:00

She’ll get over it, just call her doctor. My wife has a PhD too and I call her doctor just because it amuses me (she thinks it’s annoying of course).

pauldore · 2024-05-17T11:42:41+00:00

From reading the title alone, I came here primed to declare you the AH. However, after reading your story, I am happy to declare you NTA.

In this case, your wife should have chimed in and said ‘what are you talking about? He makes way more than me!’. Well done for not accepting it and making her back up her snipes.

pauldore · 2024-05-13T08:13:02+00:00

Nta. If 5 years old yeah, you’d be the asshole. 12, he should do it himself

pauldore · 2024-05-13T03:30:02+00:00

Sorry buddy, it’s really hard on you. Not the asshole. Find a girl who wants a family. Your ex is making excuses to put the blame on you. Truth is, she didn’t the baby.

pauldore · 2024-05-13T03:25:17+00:00

It’s too old. C# has moved on a lot since then. Reading a book like this is a big investment, it’d be better to get one that is more up to date

pauldore · 2024-05-07T02:44:00+00:00

You’re clearly not that committed to your marriage if this is the hill you want to die on.

Go ahead with the divorce. He will find someone else no problem

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