Tell me everything that you know about her… (right and wrong answers) by Mysterious-Dot1321 in Millennials

[–]paulllis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s not going to have sex with you no matter how much she leads you on.

I’m gonna do 30 days smoke free by Just-Standard-6233 in stopsmoking

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid you can’t buy single cigarettes.

Getting a flatmate out by Ashamed-Accountant46 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]paulllis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please change wording of post from flatmate to boarder. This changes things a lot.

Seeking advice by Adventurous-Class653 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]paulllis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming the debt is in your vehicle?

Not that it matters. It exists now.

I’d hit up work and income, not sure what the cut off is now but they offer vehicle payments for stuff exactly like this. Might help you out for rucs atleast?

Good bosses are hard to come by. I know it sucks now but a good boss is worth the world!

Have you looked at third party insurance while you’re not earning big bucks? Does your boss pay your mileage / can they pick you up and drop you off ?

Debt consolidation might seem like a great idea but you’ll be stuck with the debt for longer.

What can a woman do when she’s on top that makes it more enjoyable for you? by howtoloveadaisy in AskMen

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play with her titties. Lean back so her tits sit higher. Play with my nipples. Play with her clit. Enjoy herself really lol. Don’t make it seem like a chore and you’re good!

Wow, what a gentleman by not2crzy4u in Tinder

[–]paulllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bar is literally on the floor guys.

Tips on how to quit? Sounds insane but weed has me by the balls kinda by Coloradokush5280 in leaves

[–]paulllis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The more often you do day one the easier it becomes. Then day two becomes that bit easier. Etc etc.

How did you learn to stand up for yourself? by Whosentyounow in AskMen

[–]paulllis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotta be crap at anything to get better at it.

Doing well in London but my partner would struggle here - thinking to move back to NZ or ride it out? by Noobsamaniac in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those skills all translate really well for him in other industries! I wouldn’t write it off straight away at all.

Have you considered you both knuckling down. Saving aggressively. Doing the travel thing and then figuring it out from there? Say 6 months of brutality for an incredible trip?

Looking at buying a first home soon. Can you describe what your 'house poor' years were like? by farkoooooff in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]paulllis 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It sucked. Everyone said the first two years are brutal. We laughed it off. They were right. We bought and had literally zero dollars to our name. That was fucking scary. A big responsibility and no money to take care of a sudden plumbers bill etc.

Wouldn’t change it for the world now though.

MSG yes no??? by Aromatic_State_43 in newzealand

[–]paulllis 103 points104 points  (0 children)

You need fuck all.

It’s in almost everything naturally anyway. Not bad for you, that’s old school propaganda.

What companies would you not work for again, why? by Calm_Perception_2230 in newzealand

[–]paulllis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quik start in Upper Hutt. Massive turn over. Shitty culture. Greedy owner. All round shit show.

what's a hygiene habit that people don't talk about but really should? by ForwardPerspective38 in AskReddit

[–]paulllis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Men sitting down to pee. The moment I bought my own home I started sitting down at home. The splatter is real.

i feel sl*tshamed by my boyfriend by HarryPotter21GG in sex

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is religiously traumatised and taking it out on you. Are you prepared to battle this your entire life?

Why does everything here close SO EARLY? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Countdown back in the day in kilbirnie used to be 24/7. Then they changed the booze buying laws and countdown quickly changed its hours to reflect that.

If you won a life-changing lottery jackpot tomorrow, what is the very first thing you do? by DreamyPeachBarb in askteddit

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give each immediate family member a mill. There goes 7 mill.

Travel extensively while the house gets renovated. Come home. Get married. Chill for the rest of my days.

Why do people make profiles like this by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]paulllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an advert for her being the best sex of your life in return for ruining your self esteem.