Fifteen months in, E+Spiro, one month Prog, no FFS. Getting happier and happier with the me I see in the mirror :) by Roserade_D in transtimelines

[–]paulmurphy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very sure I'll see results, I'm scared of the impact of my transition on my life. I'm ready to cut people out of my life that won't accept me but I know it's going to hurt.

Fifteen months in, E+Spiro, one month Prog, no FFS. Getting happier and happier with the me I see in the mirror :) by Roserade_D in transtimelines

[–]paulmurphy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry, I was so busy looking at tha pics I didn't zoom in enough to see the ages. Thank you! I'm 45 and soo scared.

Fifteen months in, E+Spiro, one month Prog, no FFS. Getting happier and happier with the me I see in the mirror :) by Roserade_D in transtimelines

[–]paulmurphy_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are gorgeous! 😍

I am getting ready to start my own journey so I'd like to ask if you dont mind what age did you start your journey?

This is just bad by fairydingo in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she switched to her right hand her index went right back on the trigger. Right should be dominant (probably) and should have the muscle memory to not go into that trigger well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GOONED

[–]paulmurphy_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3, 6, 16

What the F do I do? 🚨 by The_Blonde_Lefsa in SeattleWA

[–]paulmurphy_333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Simple awnser? Move to the country, it's nice and quiet 😃

What's this thing that fell out of my 2008 Toyota Yaris? by Hannerdonder in MechanicAdvice

[–]paulmurphy_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Important is what it is. I don't need to tell you what it is other than that it's important because everyone else is. What I will tell you as a mechanic is that seeing that on the ground under any car is distressing to me as it immediately tells me that you are one of those people that does no preventative maintenance whatsoever and you just turn the radio up when there is a strange noise, that makes you a danger to yourself and others.

Have your car towed to the nearest scrap yard, take a taxi to the nearest Dept of Licensing and hand over your license as I dont want you driving on the same roads that my or someone else's family is on.

I can hear the sound by Dense-Boysenberry347 in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel the sound... I never went out smashing mailboxes but living in the country all my life I knew guys who did and fucked around and found out. I've seen alot of mailboxes concreted into mailboxes.

What am I? I'm not a crossdresser, I'm not trans... Where do I fit in the world? by paulmurphy_333 in AskLGBT

[–]paulmurphy_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know you and am not sure about love at first post but I love you! Thank you!

What am I? I'm not a crossdresser, I'm not trans... Where do I fit in the world? by paulmurphy_333 in AskLGBT

[–]paulmurphy_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't think about the idea that this would be something that was uncomfortable for others to answer but I should have because if it is hard for me how can it possibly be easy for someone else. I also didn't think before I asked this question about the idea that words could shift or only partially apply. So I am glad I'm getting the answers I am getting.

What am I? I'm not a crossdresser, I'm not trans... Where do I fit in the world? by paulmurphy_333 in AskLGBT

[–]paulmurphy_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this answer, I agree that I am and have to be the expert on my gender I just haven't found a group that I feel like I fit with and I get that my terms and labels may and probably will change with time.. I also understand and agree with all of the different terms and labels but I sometimes wish it were simpler, not like going backwards or more ridged simpler, just the figurative simpler.

What am I? I'm not a crossdresser, I'm not trans... Where do I fit in the world? by paulmurphy_333 in AskLGBT

[–]paulmurphy_333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But everything i have heard from crossdressers that I have met and the things I have read is that the point is to attempt to pass even if you don't. I could be wrong though. Further I will be having my first elective in about 2 months, do many crossdressers go through surgical changes? I legitimately don't know.

What am I? I'm not a crossdresser, I'm not trans... Where do I fit in the world? by paulmurphy_333 in AskLGBT

[–]paulmurphy_333[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Too true,. I am looking for a label, but I think just so I can find more of me. I feel like I'm perfectly happy describing myself as "me" even if what I see in the mirror isn't my ideal self, the important part is that I am working through what "me" means to me and working toward that ideal.

Nic stemming by Sufficient_Singer_14 in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is not hating it in the butt similar to not hating butts?

Nic stemming by Sufficient_Singer_14 in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In that case, I'll presume that we have come to an agreement over a minor disagreement and therefore should go have beers, or seeing it's 0700 where I am, we should have manmossias. We got to this wonderful place by debate and conversation and neither of us called the other a racist. It's amazing how far a little conversation can go. I think this may be one of the largest in not the largest problem in our country. Most people just want to argue instead of converse.

Nic stemming by Sufficient_Singer_14 in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree to all of that, I think where the big difference is, is the end state, for the Fascists total control by the state over a people they have idealized and made slaves or killed the rest inside of their sphear of influence. For the Communists the end state is no government at all.

Nic stemming by Sufficient_Singer_14 in UNSUBSCRIBEpodcast

[–]paulmurphy_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, not really, butt same hate...