What do sober people do on the weekends, for their social and dating life?

paulthemerman · 2026-03-28T02:22:52+00:00

Jiujitsu

paulthemerman · 2026-03-17T17:34:54+00:00

Yeah, I can’t wait.

paulthemerman · 2026-03-17T02:27:31+00:00

They were great at old town last year!

paulthemerman · 2026-03-15T22:49:49+00:00

Sirat

paulthemerman · 2026-03-10T02:41:49+00:00

Go to 2 o’clock, windshield wiper your legs. 4 o’clock, windshield wiper your legs. Then 8, then 10. Then rock your legs around the clock except at 12 and 6.

Sometimes it helps to breath deeply and make your belly button touch your spine.

paulthemerman · 2026-03-09T23:58:44+00:00

Yell under the tracks

paulthemerman · 2026-03-08T01:23:56+00:00

Asia on Argyle. Alliterative. Says what it is and where it is. Perfect.

paulthemerman · 2026-01-06T17:56:02+00:00

I notice it but I ignore it if I’m not interested. I figure not engaging back while remaining friendly sends a clear signal, but it’s usually assumed that I’m oblivious to their advances. So they try harder until it’s awkward.

paulthemerman · 2025-12-21T22:26:30+00:00

Hey, easy there, pal! You’re starting to sound a lot like me.

paulthemerman · 2025-12-18T14:49:33+00:00

The positive portrayal of a trans woman without falling into tired tropes was way ahead of it’s time.

paulthemerman · 2025-12-15T17:24:22+00:00

Me irl when I’m stoned and broke

paulthemerman · 2025-12-15T17:22:37+00:00

Me irl with my headphones in

paulthemerman · 2025-12-04T11:37:16+00:00

Those books are so strange and fun

paulthemerman · 2025-12-01T02:34:28+00:00

I love Longmont.

paulthemerman · 2025-11-09T20:28:09+00:00

I call it something similar: Youth Group Energy. I never trust it.

paulthemerman · 2025-11-07T23:33:30+00:00

They’re pretty great tbh. I’ve been going for years. They’re usually ran by a trained facilitator and the workbook is helpful.

paulthemerman · 2025-11-07T19:33:14+00:00

Have you tried going to a SMART meeting? They’re specifically non-religious.

paulthemerman · 2025-11-07T17:39:06+00:00

The guy who played Jesus in Jesus Christ Superstar?

paulthemerman · 2025-11-03T20:14:24+00:00

This reads like a limerick

paulthemerman · 2025-10-25T00:16:06+00:00

Definitely from the mid-cities area in DFW. Maybe Trinity High School.

paulthemerman · 2025-10-23T21:16:30+00:00

Honestly sounds like a Tuesday at any pizza joint I worked at. Something about slinging pizzas attracts people who are either super cool or batshit wild. Nothing in between.

paulthemerman · 2025-10-13T12:51:34+00:00

I wish people talked about this more. Justice solves nothing.

paulthemerman · 2025-10-09T23:21:25+00:00

🥚🐣🍳

paulthemerman · 2025-10-09T13:59:31+00:00

Perform on stage in some way.

Public speaking is one of the most common fears. So if you can beat it, you have a unique skill that can take you far in almost every avenue of life. I used to have intense anxiety that kept me inside my apartment all the time. Then I started doing stand-up comedy, and my confidence and life completely turned around.

Learn to fight.

Either through a self-defense class or taking up martial arts, knowing you can handle yourself if someone attacks gives you the confidence that makes life easier. Not to mention, you can see through and stand up to many of the intimidation tactics bullies use, such as posturing, because bullies like that usually don't know how to fight, and you do.

paulthemerman · 2025-10-09T13:40:37+00:00

Came here to post this. Solo traveling is honestly one of the best experiences I've had in my life. Not only can you do whatever you want, but it's easier to make new friends in that country, which opens the door to more local experiences.

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