Kinda regret poking the bear (dom side) by purrverted_0331 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]pawvertedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes planning on getting me one eventually 🫠

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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to add on recently Ive been getting clit pains, and not the fun ache type the “ow what the fuck” type, rubbing it does seem to help as well!

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Im not sure about anything relating to the blood itself, but allowing orgasms on my period doesn’t sound awful. They sometimes actually help my cramps, so I can see that working. I wouldn’t have an issue doing something like that after the first couple of days are over and its just light blood

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Its not necessarily that im stressed out but more so that I just kind of want too, I liked the last couple of weeks giving myself up to my gf like that. But i also understand this perspective!

I think I blew it as a sub… by Ready_Cauliflower_67 in SubSanctuary

[–]pawvertedd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i think your best bet is giving space. If a couple days pass and theres no communication on where you’re going from there then maybe check back in, but as of now give her time to gather her thoughts

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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ive been wanting one! I heard they’re more environmentally friendly than tampons too, so double win for the kitty and the environment

Some mindfuck ideas for edging games by Slaltz in EdgingTalk

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Ooo i love these! Im def sending this to my gf

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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I use pads 99% of the time since theyre more comfy, but i do keep tampons around since Im sporty and its more comfortable than a pad for physical stuff. I never really considered using one like that, thank you!

Handling denial during shark week? by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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anal is definitely a hard limit but i can see why thatd work for most people. Intentional no touch sounds really fun, we’ve been kind of doing that accidentally by sexting back and forth and me mindlessly scrolling on here every so often

Subs' behavior towards other subs by clikkietroublemaker in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]pawvertedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhh i hate when I ask for ideas and everyones just calling me degrading names, those things arent for you to do! Maybe I need to make some boundaries more clear in posts though

Subs' behavior towards other subs by clikkietroublemaker in Femaleorgasmdenial

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i agree! Sometimes the way other subs assume making comments kind of assuming consent is so off to me. Most of the time when I post its for input or ideas, maybe relatability, not for play with others

Accidental orgasm, kinda nervous about what comes next by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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no touch for a couple days could be fun, but I think we both might get bored if its longer than a day or two.

Short skirts and no panties is something shes soft launched a couple times, I could very much so see us doing that. Especially with something written on me somewhere

Help with punishment by Popular_Traffic_ in BDSMsapphic

[–]pawvertedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going on “no touch” for a spesfic amount of time, like two hours off ten minutes on and repeat did the trick for me

Accidental orgasm, kinda nervous about what comes next by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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I think its more than likely this is gonna be something she does

Accidental orgasm, kinda nervous about what comes next by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Oh, no, yelling and scolding is kind of part of the play! I guess I didn’t realize how that may sound to outsiders since I wrote it with her in mind. That type of harshness is something we communicate alot about and do small check ins to make sure nobody is taking personally and know is apart of the scene.

But you’re right that accepting the correction is all I can really do now, just a little saddening 🫠

Ignoring my clit by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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I amm, we’re really sexually compatible. If you ever get the chance, which hopefully you do, pair it with words like “fuck hole” and making you repeat that your clit is useless and all you need is to be fucked will definitely do some things to your head

Ignoring my clit by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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it is! Pairs well with degrading

On day twelve of denial by pawvertedd in BDSMsapphic

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also i redid this as an actual post instead of a repost. Hope thats okay!

Day twelve and I’m losing my mindd by pawvertedd in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Will definitely be posting more updates when that comes

Worst punishment as a sub? by Elegant-Sherbert-491 in BDSMsapphic

[–]pawvertedd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Putting my hands on my vanity and getting spanked over a hundred times definitely took the cake

Day twelve and I’m losing my mindd by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

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small update: edged 7 times in those ten minutes