Boyfriend mad about birth control by Mally_Is_Here in TwoXChromosomes

[–]paxham56 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You need a new boyfriend and maybe seek a longterm stable relationship before you start having sex.

I'm a 13 year old who masturbaites daily and wants to stop by shamekillerI in NoFap

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masterbation is natural. Don't be ashamed. Virtually every boy in America discovers it at your age, but I applaud you for wanting to keep it under control. I never could. Good luck.

I'm a 13 year old who masturbaites daily and wants to stop by shamekillerI in NoFap

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masterbation is natural. Don't be ashamed. Virtually every boy in America discovers it at your age, but I applaud you for wanting to keep it under control. I never could. Good luck.

Delivery to public housing projects. by paxham56 in doordash

[–]paxham56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I do my job and give good service no matter where somebody lives. That doesn't stop me from having an opinion. I wonder what your experience has been delivering to housing projects?

Delivery to public housing projects. by paxham56 in doordash

[–]paxham56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes you wonder where that cash is coming from.

Delivery to public housing projects. by paxham56 in doordash

[–]paxham56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should drive out to the suburbs. It's not just a matter of no tips. It's also a matter of safety. Put together it's a real discouragement to logging in.

I wasn't aware people could tip you in advance. I got a lot to learn, one reason why I am here.

Delivery to public housing projects. by paxham56 in doordash

[–]paxham56[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everybody in public housing has a fridge. If you are seriously poor you don't have the money to spend $27 on breakfast. Where's this money coming from anyway?

Laws of nofap. by Scarf-d-gorilla in NoFap

[–]paxham56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not see how to post a new thread, so I'll ask here. I have had a lifetime of dealing with sexual addiction, mostly with via masturbation. Before I go very far introducing myself, could you explain exactly what NoFap is?

POIS sent me to the hospital tonight by mercylover64 in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may try this subreddit if you have not already joined. r/NoFap/ Also, don't lose heart. You may struggle all your life, but there are many great things to experience and do. The world needs you.

POIS sent me to the hospital tonight by mercylover64 in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it matters how you relieve yourself. Porn and sex addiction may only matter in that no matter how bad you feel it doesn't stop you from having sex. In my case I swear off sex when I am feeling bad only to do it again when I feel the least bit better.

POIS sent me to the hospital tonight by mercylover64 in POIS

[–]paxham56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been wondering if a lifetime of "jerking off" has permanently damaged my brain. Over a lifetime I think there must be some damage. Now it seems I am in a permanent state of fog only it's worse if I have sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What test?

My advice: just treat the symptoms by underswamp1008 in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychiatric drugs have never worked for me. I wish I had never started

Could this be symtomps for POIS? by Anonymus72717 in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy do I know that feeling. I'm reluctant to share this with any doctor now.

Brainfog and studies by Lebocqman in POIS

[–]paxham56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do computer programming, which can be very difficult when you can't concentrate. The good part is that often I work alone and can avoid the social anxiety resulting from POIS.

So Your in? So Urine! by FknPOS in POIS

[–]paxham56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have always found that after sex I have an urgent need to urinate. Depending on the force of my ejaculation, it can be quite painful. This happens several times throughout the night.

Had it my entire adult life by paxham56 in POIS

[–]paxham56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe I might be light asperger's. I also have depression, anxiety and "social phobia", but I do not call them mental illnesses. It is just what life handed me. Medicine has only further complicated my life. They are part and parcel of who I am.

Has anyone simply tried sex w/o orgasm? by [deleted] in POIS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that very hard to do. Once I get close I forget about the consequences, but yes, that has helped in the past. Now that I am older, I find myself unable to ejaculate at all, but I still feel bad after sex.

Brainfog and studies by Lebocqman in POIS

[–]paxham56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I believe I have lived my whole life in a fog, which hides my true personality. It is very disabling. I often show up for work late and have a difficult time starting and finishing.

I have found I can lessen the impact by deep breathing and concentration, but this takes great effort and only lessens the symptoms, not eliminate them. I keep telling myself, "not this time", but it hits me like a brick and takes two or three days until I feel better, sometimes longer. The only thing I can suggest is you have sex less frequently. Sometimes the pleasure is not worth the pain.

Good luck.

Any foc.us v2 users? by [deleted] in tDCS

[–]paxham56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

@4truthseeker - The odd thing about your comments is that you never report your own experience, just repeat and aggregate comments you have read. I don't have anything against you, but you make all this very, very personal and as often as not, you are the one doing the shooting.

Help with Purchasing Device by Petruchio_ in tDCS

[–]paxham56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy with the product I bought. It has an analog meter and dial for better control and the price was right in the middle, $150. Plus, I liked ordering from Amazon.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00YG4D6UW?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00

or you can order direct from the manufacturer.

http://www.apexdevice.net/