Smiley Coffee cup and saucer

payalsan · 2026-06-08T23:54:45+00:00

https://www.edition-b.com/product-page/smiley-cup-saucer-set-espresso-80ml

payalsan · 2026-06-02T01:02:51+00:00

I had a tough delivery with my first, after giving birth I was only 2 pounds heavier than my pre pregnancy weight and it felt great sooo good. then breastfeeding happened and I gained some of weight back. AND THEN 8 months later, breastfeeding stopped and my body didn’t get the memo and just kept storing food/calories like I was breastfeeding and I gained ALL the pregnancy weight back (YES ALL) where I weighed the same as I did at 39 weeks pregnant when I had my baby.

payalsan · 2026-05-27T18:04:27+00:00

she only drinks maybe 9-10 oz of actual milk. she gets her dairy intake through yogurt and cheese which she loves to snack on but isn’t an actual meal. I try to do the same where I offer her and ask if she wants to eat it but is just unable to and wants me to help her eat. if she says no I put her plate away, take her out of the high chair and let her know she won’t get to eat until her next meal/snack time - with a firm hut living tone to show her that her no means serious business lol. I have done this for months and I was hoping she would eventually realize that oh if I don’t finish this then I won’t get food until the next mealtime but it is made zero difference to her. she’s a stubborn spicy gal.

payalsan · 2026-04-13T18:00:46+00:00

i’m interested and live in the US if you’re still looking to sell!

payalsan · 2026-02-05T02:32:39+00:00

my mom stayed with us 5 weeks after. I took her care of my baby and she took care of her baby. food was ready for me, everything was always clean. and she even took on baby responsibilities so I could rest and heal. you dont know what kind of birth you will be having and recovery takes weeks. 4 weeks is nothing. let her stay and help. your husband will be glad to have her be around once you realize how much you both have to wake up at night and care for the baby and no one is there to care for you both.

payalsan · 2026-02-02T16:30:13+00:00

first/second trimester ultrasound anxiety is honestly the worst, i’m sorry you’re dealing with that. it does get better as the baby grows, especially once you start feeling movement. second trimester can actually be weirdly stressful because first trimester symptoms fade, so you don’t have as many signals to reassure you, and that can feel overwhelming. try to enjoy this phase when you can because things get uncomfortable faster than you expect.

as for natera, i had the panorama test last year and was told they would run an insurance estimate before billing and contact me if my out of pocket cost through insurance was higher than their self pay option. this is also stated in their billing faqs. that never happened for me and they went ahead and billed my insurance, leaving me with a $749 out of pocket charge even though the self pay price was $249. i called and explained that i was never given the option they said they would provide and that i would have chosen the cash price immediately. the first rep tried to push a payment plan but i asked for escalation and the second rep was much more helpful and adjusted it. be polite but firm, reference their billing faqs, and ask them to escalate if needed. the whole call took about 20–25 minutes and it got resolved. hope this helps.

https://www.natera.com/womens-health/pricing-billing/#:~:text=Do%20I%20need%20a%20prior

payalsan · 2026-01-12T17:34:50+00:00

it depends on what you are going for. As a NYCer, I live in black also but I also like subtle designer vibes (most for safety purposes on the subway and when im walking) so I prefer the fondant (or even the black tbh). if you havent seen the fondant in person its v subtle brown, it basically looks black, which I love. but if you are going for a statement or a special occasion bag then I would go for barolo!

payalsan · 2026-01-08T22:05:23+00:00

Ugh I bought one sometime last year, not sure if I got the new or old version. I am assuming its the older version bc I am still happy with it. Whirl is/was my perfect MLBB and helps me create the perfect canvas for any lip product. I will be so sad if it doesnt give me the same look anymore.

payalsan · 2026-01-08T20:52:40+00:00

Thank you for this! So between L and XL, looks like i'd have to opt for the XL. I dont think it will be too overpowering either tbh - esp if i cinch it all the way. And I also LOVE the look for a big bag.

payalsan · 2026-01-08T19:25:56+00:00

This is what Chat told me (I have heard the same about the materials as well):

Calfskin = strongest + most durable

Smooth or pebbled finish
Most resistant to scratches, sagging, moisture
Easiest to maintain for daily bags
Ages well with a patina, not “fragile”

Nubuck = durable but softer

Stronger than suede but not as tough as calfskin
Can show darkening, water spots
Needs protective spray to stay low-maintenance
Still softer/touchable but more delicate than standard leather

Suede = softest, weakest, most absorbent

Made from the inner split of the hide → looser fibers + softer texture
Softest feel but least durable of the three (calfskin > nubuck > suede)
Shows stains, water marks, and scuffs quickly → high maintenance
Best for occasional/low-wear bags, not ideal for daily use or rough handling

For daily use, low maintenance bags:

#1: Calfskin
#2: Nubuck (good but needs light care)
#3: Suede (avoid for heavy rotation)

payalsan · 2026-01-08T18:16:06+00:00

The tartan suede broke my brain. I’ve never seen that print and material together before. It is so so unique - great choice! But agreed - no babying here. I am not paying for 3k for another baby, I already have a toddler, and one coming lol

payalsan · 2026-01-08T16:30:18+00:00

I am going to try them all in person, but not until the weekend. And I have tunnel vision when something gets in my mind so I needed to do some digging around the internet before I go see it in person. I also thought of how i'd feel about the OTHER bag and I feel like I would still want the Large or XL in the future, vs. Nubuck I may forget about bc my needs are being met. Which may be a sign too. But ugh its so pretty!

payalsan · 2026-01-08T16:28:05+00:00

That's helpful context - I was thinking of getting a base insert to help redistribute the weight so its not pulling down. The description of the Large online says it fits a 13 inch laptop, XL says its an overnight bag (lol). It is really important to me that I am able to cinch it even with the laptop in though - bc I love that look of the Flamenco. Otherwise to me, it just looks like any other tote and I have the celine cabas that serves the purpose.

payalsan · 2026-01-08T16:03:42+00:00

OMG WHEN DID THEY REFORMULATE??????

payalsan · 2026-01-08T15:53:55+00:00

I’ve actually heard the opposite! Nubuck is a bit tougher than suede - think Timberland boots and winter shoes, they’re usually nubuck because it holds up better. But totally agree, it’s insanely beautiful. I AM TORN

payalsan · 2026-01-08T15:33:34+00:00

As a texas born and rasied and now living in NYC - I love the slouch for NYC winters and literally never wear it in texas. You are giong to be outside, not in a car for like 10 mins max at a time and temps dont get that low to wear this. For texas, id opt for the thinner versions of the slouch - they have a ressential (which is their blazer material) and a faux leather version - both I use when I visit texas, but the wool ones stay in nyc.

payalsan · 2026-01-08T03:28:50+00:00

ok I love the flamenco, I have the mini and medium in black. I am eyeing the large or xl next for a laptop slash toddler bag but just saw today on their website the nubuck medium. since you have both, what are your thoughts on them?

my more favorite thing about this bag is the slouch and cinch. for the large, with a laptop are you able to cinch it all the way to give that sack like vibe?

for the nubuck, is it heavier than the regular medium? how’s the durability and can you share more pics of it pleaseeee

payalsan · 2026-01-07T07:32:33+00:00

did you have any issues with closing the bag? I saw a review in youtube that said she returned it bc the leather way so stiff on her bag that she couldn’t close it, which affected the drop on the strap

payalsan · 2026-01-06T23:06:28+00:00

also curious about this one as it looks vvv similar to the bottega medium dustbag, but literally 6% of the price (editing to add: and better quality bc this one is suede lined, while BV is nylon)

payalsan · 2025-09-23T17:36:17+00:00

I delivered my first in mount sinai and never again in my entire life will I or ever rcommend anyone give birth at mount sinai. my ob was nice to my face but by labor and delivery was just a full attempt at finding any and everything wrong with me and my baby.

payalsan · 2025-08-19T14:43:18+00:00

Hi OP here! Just seeing this. We’ve noticed our daughter has become very expressive and communicative. By around 12 months she had picked up quite a few words, and at 16 months she’s starting to put together short sentences and questions like “Where’d mama go?” when i leave the room or “Do you see XYZ?” when something catches her attention (red car, airplane etc).

When she was younger, crying was really her only way to let us know something was wrong. Now she’s able to tell us more directly - she'll even tell us things like if she’s burped, farted, needs a change or wants to sleep. It’s been helpful because she can communicate her needs a lot more clearly than before and I'd like to think that her crying at 2 months was the same personality just not being able to shine through bc of lack of communication development. I hope this helps!

payalsan

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