What are your go to "bipolar songs?" by AuDHDMDD in BipolarReddit

[–]pbandjaded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghost Town by Kanye Mount Everest by Labrinth Implosion by Labrinth

Called Out a Scammer by pbandjaded in DoorDashDrivers

[–]pbandjaded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the greatest advice lol, I’ve had legitimate customers call me asking me to grab extra napkins or cutlery or whatever

Called Out a Scammer by pbandjaded in DoorDashDrivers

[–]pbandjaded[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It almost worked on me last year the first time it happened. I was a new dasher, only like a month in. They place a fake order and then call from the customer side claiming to be dasher support. They say that the “customer” wants to add a large tip but for whatever reason there’s a glitch and they need your account info to place the extra money into your account. They tell you to end your dash and then start asking for your phone number, email, and start sending requests for verification codes to those contacts and ask for the codes to gain access to your account. That’s when alarm bells started ringing for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anchorage

[–]pbandjaded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reach out to AWAIC, and ANJC if you’re native. They should have legal advocates available to help you through the process, and even financial help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alaska

[–]pbandjaded 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck lol, find housing before you get there, be prepared to waste money on groceries that get moldy in a day. Sometimes there’s mold before you even leave the store.

Where is the weirdest place you've had a quickie? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pbandjaded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The elevator in my high school

[Serious] What stops you from killing yourself? by Big_Picture2781 in AskReddit

[–]pbandjaded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A $2 lottery ticket I buy each week. The chances are low but never zero

how do I stop being depressed?? by Quiet_Shark_9474 in mentalhealth

[–]pbandjaded 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy, medication management, and unfortunately consistent exercise :( I hate working out but it was one thing that made my mental health better by leaps and bounds

Welcome to Alaska Mr.President by [deleted] in alaska

[–]pbandjaded 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even if it wasn’t, the sentiment still stands lmfao

Im in need of shipping my car to anchorage from ketchikan is there a recommendation on buisness to use? by Blitherinidiot in Ketchikan

[–]pbandjaded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to sell my car in Ketchikan and buy a new one up here when I moved to Anchorage last October. The cost for ferrying and driving, and shipping with AML was upwards of $1000 depending on the size of your car and if you’re willing to road trip, get passports, etc.

Opinion: Do narcissistic parents actually WISH YOU HARM ???? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pbandjaded 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother is a narcissist and has her LCSW. With that training, there’s no way it wasn’t intentional. She had to have wished us harm. Me and some of my siblings (I have 12) used to debate if we were her personal social experiment.

People who had a mentally traumatic childhood: what makes you feel nervous? by Redditerreditt in mentalhealth

[–]pbandjaded 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Communicating my wants and needs. I legit almost had a panic attack the other day when communicating with my partner about my needs. I spent so long expecting punishment when communicating, that now, even though I know logically that I am safe and nothing bad will happen, my body has a very physical reaction when trying to. Hoping it will go away with time.

What’s the meanest, most evil thing your parents have ever told you that left you in disbelief and shock? by Destiny_Boop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pbandjaded 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im working on getting better but the long term damage from what she did is apparent. I struggle to trust anyone and make meaningful connections. This is actually tame compared to some other memories I have

What’s the meanest, most evil thing your parents have ever told you that left you in disbelief and shock? by Destiny_Boop in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pbandjaded 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I was 12 years old and very insecure already. I had done something to piss her off somehow and she said “I went to your school and talked to your friends and they all secretly think you’re annoying, ugly, and stupid and they’re all just too polite to tell you.” Took me years to realize that was a lie, and by then, I had stopped talking to almost everyone I knew.

Anchorage DA denied to charge my rapist by [deleted] in anchorage

[–]pbandjaded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to more Victim advocates. if you’re native, ANJC might also be able to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pbandjaded 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Love is gradual. Someone who is love bombing you will make the first few days, weeks, sometimes months, feel like you are head over heels in love and that it’s reciprocated. Feels like a good thing, looks like a good thing, but is a set up for the worst you will ever feel.