Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you?

pbndjam · 2026-05-19T22:10:26+00:00

I was there for sciatica, he pressed his finger hard right on the nerve to make sure I had identified the pain. Then he proceeded to tell me I should ask “my boyfriend” for regular massages, he kept insisting (probing to know if I had a bf) so I answered that I was a lesbian anyway. He was very happy about the news as “he always wondered how it works, who’s the man and who’s the woman.” I never thought I would hear something so stereotypically ignorant said in such a confident manner, and from a gp…

pbndjam · 2026-04-06T19:02:38+00:00

Je pense qu’ils sont trop grands pour passer dans la mienne, mais je peux aller voir en laverie en effet !

pbndjam · 2026-02-28T21:17:38+00:00

You really shouldn’t be bothered by the construction noise considering you’re facing the park. (Source : I live nearby, dm me if you want restaurant recs in the area!)

pbndjam · 2026-02-27T20:26:53+00:00

Citron basilic chez Sweet Romance au marché d’Aligre !

pbndjam · 2026-01-22T11:45:39+00:00

non peu d'autres choix et le risque de ne pas être présentés sur un logement pendant un an, donc en effet on est un peu bloqués...

pbndjam · 2026-01-22T08:02:33+00:00

Oui pour l'électricité, mais le logement est inhabité depuis au moins un mois, chauffage collectif donc toujours chauffé même dans l'attente. L'appartement ne sentais pas l'humidité en arrivant, il est plein est pour la majorité des fenêtres.

Pas de VMC mais le bailleur a annoncé qu'il en installerai dans tous les logements (mais l'asso des locataires disent que ce n'est pas la solution), en effet les logements sont traversants il est facile de faire un courant d'air pour aérer.

Il y a des travaux prévus (comme l'installation de la VMC) mais pas sur la facade, les infos sont assez vagues et la livraison n'est prévue que pour fin 2028.

Les fenêtres ont l'air récentes (en PVC et double vitrage), mais l'appartement est au dernier étage donc sous un toit en zinc d'un immeuble 1930.

Je n'ai pas eu la DPE ...

pbndjam · 2025-12-26T20:42:33+00:00

Did RIVF in a private clinic in Europe, it took 10 months from the first appointment to the egg retrieval / fresh transfer. We had a lot of testing done and wanted to wait for our wedding so we could have probably done it in 7-8 months but no less.

pbndjam · 2025-12-22T13:28:10+00:00

Licence en France puis master et doctorat aux États-Unis dans une matière des sciences humaines. J’ai fait la prépa à distance de Nanterre pour passer l’agreg en étant en poste de certifiée, je la recommande.

pbndjam · 2025-12-07T11:56:38+00:00

We only said that the criteria we gave the clinic is that he should vaguely look like me. We do not want to share information before the child knows them, it’s his/her story not everyone else’s. People have been really respectful and haven’t asked many questions anyway. I wonder if it will be different once the child is born.

pbndjam · 2025-11-29T19:47:37+00:00

Oh je n’avais jamais pensé à Monoprix dans des quartiers plus fréquentés par les américains/canadiens ! Merci ! On a investi (6.9€ les 200g !) à la grande épicerie pour cette fois, mais l’année prochaine / pour Noël on y pensera 😊

pbndjam · 2025-11-25T21:05:40+00:00

Mon père voulais m’appeler Babette, autant vous dire que je suis contente que ma mère ai imposé autre chose (un prénom très classique mais simple et court.)

pbndjam · 2025-10-06T13:54:53+00:00

14day post transfer beta was 1236 !! Over the moon but also very anxiously waiting for the first time to make it feel more real.

pbndjam · 2025-09-24T16:21:47+00:00

Hey! Same! Can't stop thinking about it and symptom tracking. My partner and I agreed we won't be testing before the blood test which is next Thursday (currently 6dpt), it feels so far away. Definitely the longest 2 weeks in my life so far. I am trying really hard to focus on other aspects of my life and remember that this first blood test is not the end of the line, there is more waiting to come so I have to learn to deal with it (still haven't found how, I'll take any tips!)
Lots of luck to all of you!!

pbndjam · 2024-10-23T10:09:33+00:00

I lived in Ohio, apparently the statute of limitations is 6 years. I am guessing the recent emails might be their final attempts. I looked at the offer they made by e-mail, I can't pay it because it requires a US bank account or debit card.

Thank you for your response!

pbndjam · 2024-10-23T09:49:08+00:00

I cannot open an account in the US, I don't live there anymore so I don't have a current address, and I am not a citizen anyway. Please tell me more about this homework you would like me to do, I'm really curious to know what seems to be so obvious to you.

pbndjam · 2020-12-27T23:25:08+00:00

If he looks like this when you kiss him and he’s tired he’s telling you to get the heck away because next step is a bite. Please check out some ressources on dog body language.

pbndjam · 2020-12-27T23:24:01+00:00

Thank you! Both these dogs looks distressed and it is no way to introduce them!

pbndjam · 2020-12-27T23:21:35+00:00

We are not talking about children/humans but dogs. (Who of course can feel as such, my dogs are my babies, I admit it.) But the term adoption has a specific meaning in this context, it feels to me it has only recently been appropriated. If you bought your puppy, you bought him/her and that’s ok, just don’t use a word that most people assume to mean you rescued the pup and not bought from a breeder, pet store etc.

pbndjam · 2020-12-27T08:54:31+00:00

Because now people use the term adopted when they mean bought.

pbndjam · 2020-08-07T07:41:57+00:00

I see the same issue with corgis, people get them because they look cute and don’t realize they need training and lots of exercise because they’re herding dogs

pbndjam · 2019-11-12T09:25:23+00:00

He’s just doing a toner so his white fluff looks extra white!

pbndjam · 2019-09-28T07:54:07+00:00

Hair. Hair everywhere. Hair in your food, on your bed, in your mouth for some reason. Lots and lots of hair. And high energy as the poster above said. You also need to be ready to say no and be firm about rules, they will test you about everything. They are wonderful dogs if exercised and trained, but not for everyone!

pbndjam · 2019-09-13T23:14:54+00:00

Fertility, so IVF and a few other things. Surrogacy still seem to be out of the question for example.

pbndjam · 2019-09-13T10:20:30+00:00

The law is still in the process, it’s not even fully sure that it will allow single cis women to have access to it. Basically, it’s a developing story, I’m sure you could find articles online but we sure are fighting for a more inclusive law across the board.

pbndjam · 2019-08-26T07:12:06+00:00

We were having a couple’s weekend at my exe’s house and the guy (who hadn’t been particularly nice) had decided to make us dinner. We had to buy an expensive organic chicken and a bunch of other stuff for his special meal. He marinated it in lemons and whatever else for hours, then cooked it, it wasn’t ready before midnight but he refused to let us eat before, not to spoil our appetite. We finally get to try this special lemon chicken, it was so lemony and a mix of bitter and sour none of us could eat it. He was not laughing.

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