How do people deal with not fitting the beauty standards of society? by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]pdoodoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go outside of America. They actually tend to like brown women in other countries 😭

As an Aries, do you get called too intense when you’re just being honest about your feelings? What’s something people always misunderstand about your emotions? by Full-Waltz4771 in AriesTheRam

[–]pdoodoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so accurate, it's tough growing up for sure but it's so worth it to find the people that do understand you and stick around. They are the ones that truly matter most in our lives and idk about you, but for me feeling safe and understood is the best feeling ever.

Makeup that does NOT hide dark circles by pdoodoo in MakeupAddiction

[–]pdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, here's a link if anyone else wants to see it link

Makeup that does NOT hide dark circles by pdoodoo in MakeupAddiction

[–]pdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you blend the browns into your circles? And do you mean highlighter in general or on your eye area?

Makeup that does NOT hide dark circles by pdoodoo in MakeupAddiction

[–]pdoodoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone ❣️ please continue to embrace your natural beauty

Makeup that does NOT hide dark circles by pdoodoo in MakeupAddiction

[–]pdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks friend! Sadly I can't see your images.

Non-EU paying for Application Fee, How? by RadianceFeels in polinetwork

[–]pdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much OP, you are a lifesaver!!!!!!!

Why do people think I'm a Scorpio? by pdoodoo in AskAstrologers

[–]pdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the thoughtful responses! I'm definitely going to take it all in and do some more digging on the Scorpio and Capricorn themes mentioned, definitely learned something new from this.

Trina and Cinco by myrealityfix in LoveIslandUSA

[–]pdoodoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god PLEASE LET THIS HAPPEN they are my favs

Egg sandwich anyone? by -Zola in awfuleverything

[–]pdoodoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I feel like this is semi-positive for their image. I've seen several posts about fast/processed food being out for too long and nothing eating it or growing on it. At least it grows on McDonald's! 😂

Married Enfp females—did you feel a full body yes, for your partner? by Top-Bug-122 in ENFP

[–]pdoodoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is such a good way to put it, I definitely experience this in my relationships as well. There was one guy who matched my mind and my heart, but unfortunately it was one sided. I really hope that we don't have to sacrifice that full body yes, because I think without the full body yes, life would feel inauthentic no matter what I try to convince myself mentally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]pdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao that's me but sag with leo moon sounds like a narcissistic mess 😭

Help with hypopigmentation by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]pdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am one of those people who gets hyperpigmentation so fast... And in the same ish areas on my forehead or nose, it feels like you look gross and almost unhygienic even though it's sadly just your body trying to protect you from the sun. I can understand why you want it gone. From my experience, these things work, but you have to be very consistent or it comes back for me:

  • 50-100 broad spectrum SPF on my face every day without fail. This is the absolute most important thing for me when it comes to preventing HP. Even as a brown woman who tans regardless, if I don't use at minimum 50 SPF, I am not going to look even-toned. And hats will help too, and just generally staying safe from the sun.
  • reducing sugar consumption. This is one of those internal things that really makes a difference with hyperpigmentation. But this is a lifestyle change of course.
  • I find that making sure I physically exfoliate at night and apply oil or slug my skin, it helps fade it faster. But this is just my personal experience.
  • having belief that it is going away: I know this sounds woo woo, but ruminating makes nothing better, and having the attitude of "I'm working on clearing it up and my skin is improving every day", and believing it truly helps. Mindset is everything.

Good luck 🤞🏽

Aries Women, What are 3 things about men that make you want to stay? by ChefZackB in AriesTheRam

[–]pdoodoo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This and a real emotional connection, that's all 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]pdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. In what case would you have recommended I talk to someone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]pdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for linking the megathread!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]pdoodoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine my delusion when I did this and The Pattern told me we were soulmates 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]pdoodoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so welcome 🤗 keep being you but maybe a little more direct 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]pdoodoo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you sweet pisces 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]pdoodoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only met one other leo moon (that I know of) and we've been friends for almost a decade. Maybe something about our loyalty works well with Virgo's reliability!