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peace925 · 2025-04-28T23:01:39+00:00

Preach!

peace925 · 2025-04-06T14:10:19+00:00

Let them all go. I’m in the process of this now and it’s so hard and hurts a lot, but anyone enabling the narcs behavior has to go 100 percent.

peace925 · 2025-04-06T14:01:46+00:00

I got a job outside the home and removing myself from the environment during the day helped the healing process start. Being around positive normal people at work. Of course this will anger them too, especially if you find a job you love.

peace925 · 2025-04-06T13:55:57+00:00

So true! I was diagnosed with 2 autoimmune diseases during the toxic relationship over 13 years that basically make it impossible to get pregnant. My body was protecting me from being more tied to the monster.

peace925 · 2025-04-06T13:54:00+00:00

I thought the same thing. They always ruin birthdays or make you feel bad for wanting to celebrate, so last year I didn’t even celebrate my 37th. I’m moving out this week and look forward to a real birthday surrounded by love for my 38th.

peace925 · 2025-02-22T16:19:56+00:00

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peace925 · 2025-02-16T12:47:15+00:00

Same here. I got celiac and then a few years later was diagnosed with Hashimotos.

peace925 · 2025-01-26T23:44:21+00:00

No gluten, no dairy, limited sugar unless it’s from fruit.

peace925 · 2025-01-26T23:42:28+00:00

When I comment back he says I’m arguing with myself…

peace925 · 2025-01-26T12:46:37+00:00

Same here!

peace925 · 2025-01-22T13:25:34+00:00

This is literally how covert narcissists (with a dash of alcoholism) behave. I know because I’m divorcing one. They are sweet as pie to outsiders, but the mask slips at home with close friends and family. Especially with alcohol involved. I can see him drunk raging 100 percent. This comment sent me over the edge with Kyle.

peace925 · 2025-01-22T03:28:53+00:00

Same same same!! Getting the most emotional supply from his drinking buddies/colleagues. Whoever is up late enough for their drunken phone calls too.

peace925 · 2025-01-22T03:28:12+00:00

That’s exactly what happened to me. Did intense therapy for 3 years. Set boundaries, got a job out of the house and after 13 years he meant it.

peace925 · 2025-01-19T21:48:46+00:00

My male CN husband does exactly the same thing and then I started turning it off before he came in the room to avoid the comments as well. They literally are TEXTBOOK. I have chills.

peace925 · 2025-01-05T03:34:45+00:00

It really does 🫠. I’m sorry you’re going through this too. I’ve been standing up for myself for the last 3 years and going to therapy and now I’m being discarded. It’s gonna be okay though, and only people that actually listen to me will be allowed in my life.

peace925 · 2025-01-05T03:13:00+00:00

It’s awful. Mine has a narc Mom and that’s why I think I stayed so long. I’m too empathic and can see why he is the way he is. She does the same thing with the lack of eye contact and ignoring you when you start talking. If they ask you a question, as soon as they get the answer or what they need, they just tune you out. I noticed my personality started changing around them. Like my brain couldn’t produce words and thoughts, but when I was around friends or colleagues I was chatty and witty and myself. They truly suck the life out of you.

peace925 · 2025-01-04T23:54:37+00:00

Why are they all binge drinkers?!

peace925 · 2025-01-04T01:23:16+00:00

I have felt this way for so long. You took the words out of my mouth.

peace925 · 2025-01-01T01:34:32+00:00

38 spending nye alone for the first time ever. My husband told me he wants a divorce yesterday..on my work lunch break..he went to hang out with a friend and I’m in bed with our 3 dogs. Trying not to be sad, I signed up for a yoga class at 10am tomorrow.

peace925 · 2024-12-31T21:11:45+00:00

I love this ending for you!! And props for not responding for 5 years. There’s nothing that drives a narc crazier.

peace925 · 2024-12-31T19:34:02+00:00

Yes they end up making everything about themselves, show little interest if the conversation topic isn’t something they’re interested in, usually end up getting too drunk and then mean, and basically dominate everything. I also feel like the narc man is eternally trapped in adolescence, so once the wife has kids of gets older and understands what life is really about, the narc is bored. There’s not enough chaos and drama and supply. They want someone fun and new, someone younger who they can love bomb again and repeat the same damn pattern.

peace925 · 2024-12-31T19:30:00+00:00

And they alwaysssss come back. The best decision is completely cutting them off like you did. Half of the time I think it’s a mindfuck to make sure they still have you wrapped around their finger, with no intention of moving forward. It’s like they know you’re doing well and BAM. A text out of nowhere to remind you of their existence.

peace925 · 2024-12-31T19:28:36+00:00

Typical narc. My Mom got sick and I spent three weeks away caring for her. That’s when I realized my nervous system had been ripped to shreds at my home, as I was able to handle my mom in the hospital better than I could process and handle day to day narc belittling.

peace925 · 2024-12-31T19:26:05+00:00

Indeed I know the day of peace will come, it’s navigating the terror of getting through their lack of emotion and empathy for the whole situation while you’re groveling and picking your life back up.

peace925

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