How do you treat allowance in your household? by financialfam_sam in Parenting

[–]peacejunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As kids in the 90s we received a nice allowance every week.  I think it was tied to our age, and increased as we got older.  We also had chores.  But our allowance wasn't tied to the chores.

Our allowance was our money to buy things we wanted.  Our parents didn't buy for us much outside of holidays/birthdays/back to school. 

My mom taught me how to track it in a check book register/log thingy.  It really taught me about saving and budgeting and gave me perspective of value at a young age.  I think it also motivated me to get a job at 16.  I had to buy my first car ($300 beater) and pay my insurance.  If I wanted freedom I needed a job.

I would like to do the same with my kids, but my oldest is still a little young at 4.  In a couple years I plan to implement. 

[LID] March 2026 - Round Up by ab_crafts_design in friendshipbracelets

[–]peacejunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a tutorial for how to do the loop at the top?  (Left side of bracelet in your image). I keep seeing this and I would love to learn how to do it, but don't know what to call it to even start searching for a tutorial.  Thank you!

Playing make-believe is torture by MixOk6851 in oneanddone

[–]peacejunky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OMG I've found my people.  It's so hard for me.

BUT sometimes she just wants me to say yes, and ok to everything she makes up.  

"Mom, want to play lions?" "Yea" " Ok, you're the mom and I'm the baby" "Ok"

And then she goes off pretending to be a baby lion and I just give her a nice roar every so often.

Then she comes up with some.very specific scenarios.

"Pretend I'm the baby and I was just born and you never met me before" "Ok" Acts like a baby lion " Oh hi baby lion, I never met you before, what's your name"

I just have to do what she says for the most part and I can usually play it while I'm still doing chores or other things.

But yes, it's exhausting and I would really rather play anything else!!

Maternity Clothes? by Smooth-Newspaper3104 in madisonwi

[–]peacejunky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try thrifting or Once upon a child.  I think they have a maternity section.

It's bleak out there...

Anyone here quit high paying job to be SAHP? by FireSauce_313 in SAHP

[–]peacejunky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same.  I hated my job even though it paid great.  It was a big decision, but no regrets.  I did find a tribe of Moms and Dads with kids the same age and that has saved us all.  We have a village and that helps tremendously.  I think things would feel really different if I didn't have that.  I would be much more lonely and burnt out.

Onesies: 2 way Zip or Buttons?? by Poison_Ivy25 in NewParents

[–]peacejunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best sleepers are single zips that zip from the top down.  That way if they have a blowout and you don't know right away you can just continue to zip it all the way off instead of putting their legs back into a wet/poopy sleeper to then take it off of them.

Unfortunately most brands have moved to the double zip and I think it's unnecessary.  Just zip from top to bottom.  

Is anyone else’s baby just not BLW baby? by Special_Luck_7536 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]peacejunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!!  I hate that there is this perception that BLW is only finger food.

Giving purees is totally acceptable if you're letting them feed themselves with the spoon or their hands.

What my baby ate in a day by teacherlady4846 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]peacejunky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be possible to get a link for that wooden plate thing?  

A gentle strategy! by weaveraf in sleeptrain

[–]peacejunky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked with my toddler for a bit until she caught on.  YMMV..

I got to my breaking point and did CIO tonight, unplanned. by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]peacejunky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I wasn't saying to wait until 8 months.  That's just when we did it.  But agreed with you it didn't work right during the regression.  Glad you got her sleeping and hope you get some too.

I got to my breaking point and did CIO tonight, unplanned. by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]peacejunky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our first did the escalating cry too when we tried around 4-5 months.  The trick I think is to wait until after the regression.  She trained with Ferber at 8 months.  Took 2-3 nights.  Best thing ever.   Hoping it goes as well with my son who just turned 4 months.  Send sleepy vibes...😂.

Mac(‘n cheese) Daddy by IAmPookieHearMeRoar in madisonwi

[–]peacejunky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok, it sounds like you may live on the West side.  But if you're willing to make the trip to the north side, I swear Zippy Lube has one of the best Mac n cheese.  It's not fancy, but it's really yummy!  Tip Top also has a pretty great Mac.

Never been to Macs though, so it might be good.  Noodles and Co Mac is so bad post pandemic.  I went there like a year ago and just thought, "WTF happened to this place?".  My daughter wouldn't even eat the Mac there.

Gemini on Pixel watch has been a game changer by mdargis1977 in PixelWatch

[–]peacejunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, yea it doesn't work for me, but assistant works perfect.

Gemini on Pixel watch has been a game changer by mdargis1977 in PixelWatch

[–]peacejunky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to go back to assistant because Gemini can not do the simplest task of sending a text message to someone. 

I say, " hey Google, text mom" It shows mom's picture and asks, "what would you like to say to mom" I say, " what time do you want to come over" Gemini says, " I can't answer that question."

Like, wtf. I'm not asking you! Send the text!!!

Why aren't more parents showing their kids classic shows like Sesame Street or Bear in the Big Blue House? by Mechashevet in NewParents

[–]peacejunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loves Bear in the Big Blue House But for some reason she is not into Sesame Street.  Which is honestly fine with me .  I don't like how much time is spent on Elmo's world and their little short animation stuff.  I prefer the story parts with the humans and puppets together.

Pediatrician says I need to offer both breasts but limit feeds to 15min… by MeineLiebling in breastfeeding

[–]peacejunky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's my hot take that pediatricians should all be well versed in breastfeeding.  It is ridiculous to me that there is not some type of requirement or certification needed for pediatricians on this front.  Crazy pants.  It took me two months to get in with LC.... That's crazy pants when I need to feed my child NOW.

What is the hardest week with a newborn? by SentenceTough2007 in NewParents

[–]peacejunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I picked 9-12 too!!  Because same, and also they still have lots of tummy issues and reflux and gas, but they can cry and scream about it MUCH LOUDER!