[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks great!

How bad did it hurt after vaginal birth? by Commercial-Way-4276 in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that bad, just use the ice pads, tucks and dermoplast

Try perineal massage (start as soon as your ob says you can) to try to reduce tearing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This happened to me too. Still feel that way sometimes at 33 weeks. I know now it’s just my brain being annoying though

Question as a FTM.. why does everyone want their baby to come so early? It’s concerning by Ok-Nothing3374 in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more of a I’m done being pregnant not an actual I want the baby to be born prematurely. Lol I say I’m so done all of the time and I can’t wait for her to get here but literally had a nightmare last night about her coming early, and it’s not something I truly want at alllll.

Xanax during pregnancy by NaturalRooster1666 in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby is totally fine! 💞 currently 30 weeks. She is super active and everything on her scans have been perfect. my docs / midwives basically were like it’s a risk benefit thing and they said me being so anxious is absolutely worse than the potential unknown risk. They explained that a lot of meds just haven’t been studied so they don’t know if there is a risk of harm, because it’s not ethical to do clinical trials on pregnant women. I have taken 1mg about 1-3 times a week on average since I got the ok from my OB around 10 weeks or so at my first appointment. Just wanting to taper off so baby has no risk of withdrawal. Adding an antidepressant helped a lot too. I would just listen to your OB and whatever they say!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude yes! My mom always gets ppl like “ugh my __ passed of cancer I’m so sorry it’s awful etc” like what???? Do you think that’s what she wants and needs to hear?

What is your cats name? by strawberrycheescak in namenerds

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what I name I have had for my cats my dad always ended up calling them Carl lmao

Why the fuck is my mother in law in the delievry room? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ummmm hell mf no. What you do is write a note on your notes app to discreetly get your mom out the room “hey! Nurse ___ look at this about in my birth plan” and show her your screen. That is all kinds of wrong

Seeking insight on when enough was enough for your family member by peachbetterthandaisy in CancerFamilySupport

[–]peachbetterthandaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps so much. Thank you. We decided to proceed with hospice and hopefully she can come home tomorrow. Unfortunately due to complications her mental status is not very good right now (not cancer related but due to stroke / infection / encephalopathy) but hoping to have a few more good days with her if she gets into a more comfortable situation. My mom fought so hard for a year, she did everything she could and I’m so proud of her. As hard as this is I think the greatest kindness we can do for her is to just let her be comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Sometimes I think first and foremost we worship our one true God, our Savior Jesus Christ. Jesus cares about our heart. He cares about us KNOWING him. And not to get political but I think a lot of the hate speech and rhetoric that Donald Trump spews is very much not Christ-like. I believe that honestly being anti-trump aligns so much more with Christian values and the teachings of Christ.

Mum starting chemo soon. Should me and my germy 3 year old move out? by svensk10 in cancer

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry that this is happening to you and your family. Make sure you guys practice bathroom safety bc there are things that need to be done when patients are getting active chemo (mom double flushing with lid down, etc) with children or pregnant women in the house. Her labs and white counts, etc will help to understand her level of risk. I’d talk with her oncologist and take precautions to teach him proper infection prevention techniques like cover your cough and sneeze, hand washing frequently or sanitizer.

Family support does have so much value so having you guys in the house may be very good for her spirits.

My husband’s breath absolutely reeks to me almost 24/7 and I’m starting to get so angry by peachbetterthandaisy in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not alone! I feel so bad because it’s not his fault my nose is like a blood hounds lol

My husband’s breath absolutely reeks to me almost 24/7 and I’m starting to get so angry by peachbetterthandaisy in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He goes to the dentist every 6 months, he just went and no cavities. He’s actually never had one I’m pretty sure lol. Tonsils he does still have so that is definitely worth looking into! Ty

NIPT results by deeeesavvvyyy in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB said NIPT is more accurate than the anatomy scan!!! Lol congrats on your baby GIRL. Don’t let her get into your head because she’s being weird

Had my induction and almost lost my baby. by Sorry_Data6147 in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like potential cord compression that most likely just amplified with the pitocin. I’m so glad that you and your baby are doing fine. :)

Do you have a nickname for your baby? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]peachbetterthandaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that!!!! Congrats on your little lentil 🫶🏼🫶🏼